How common are wholesome monogamous relationships between cis guys and trans girls? I feel like it has to be more common than it looks like (because I’m personally in one) but it seems like most guys who are into trans women are creeps and weirdos and a lot of trans women are either not into men or are into polyamory. That has to just be a loud minority right, like a majority of the guys who like trans women are loving and sweet and a majority of straight/bi trans women are looking for a loving wholesome relationship right? Sometimes I feel so out of place.
>>41267531Trannies aren't that attractive to normal people, that's why.
>>41267580I think it's more that a lot of guys just aren't willing to admit they're into trannies. Trans/femboy stuff is too popular online to just be a fringe thing.
>>41267531I've had 2 bfs. One left because I couldn't take care of myself, which I can't really blame him for. The other one tried to troon out on me almost immediately after I moved in with him. The risk of a GAMP being AGAMP is just too high, so now I'm in a T4T with another tranner. It's bliss.
>>41268250>leaves bf because he troons out>dates another tranny instead I don’t see the logic
>>41268287He sprung it on me with no prior discussion, assuming that I'd be fine with it because he perceived me as bi. This was An Issue, and he desisted. Also, he was very attractive as a cis man, but would have been a total brickhon; whereas my girlfriend is a hot girltwink. If I'm going to date a tranner, I'm going to date my pick of the litter.
>>41267531kill yourself. pref method and fucking your eyehole to death
>>41269187Why are you so angry?
>>41269187Sweet English bro
>>41267531as a chaser, i feel like they're so rare that there's no choice but to stick to dating cis women
>>41267531the fact is most trannies who get into a monogamous relationship with a guy probably aren’t the type to spend that much time in online trans spaces. they’re probably more likely to want to assimilate and want to be stealth and leave all of this behind them as much as they can. now if i remember correctly most trannies are gay so that already cuts the number down a fair bit. then, given that most straight guys aren’t willing to date trannies, it’s probably the ones who pass and are the most well adjusted (and thus are most likely able to go stealth and not be in terminally online spaces) who end up getting with monogamous guys. do keep in mind that this is mostly conjecture and i haven’t reviewed any of these studies so i have no clue how good they are
>>41269662There’s no way that many people are willing to date pooners
>>41269681indian men will fuck anything
>>41269662>the fact is most trannies who get into a monogamous relationship with a guy probably aren’t the type to spend that much time in online trans spacesaside from those straight female trannies who try and catfish straight men on dating apps, then it's really almost impossible to meet one out in the wild. hardest game ever for the chaser
>>41267580Well thats why it pays to be a bichad.I like beautiful women and pretty boys, and whats in between these areas?Handsome women. But, generally I have found handsome cis women are studs, and I dont have the build or charisma to crack a stud (yet, working on both)However sometimes in my left coast metropolis I see a handsome bitch and shes a tranny, damn, id tap that, but theres a lot of you fucks who only top, which I cant get behind kekI get this is a super niche interest considering that many trannys are 1) ugly which writes off most (need a looksmatch I dont date down) or 2) t4t / tops which disqualifies me, but id date a tranny seriously if she was 3) beautiful, strong features, normal and dateable.There are some of #3 but iirc last time i used grindr a year+ ago they were usually OF whores and if theyre on hinge i cant tell.You arent out of place and trust me even as a bi dude some women will dip if i tell them i cracked a man, men dont usually want to be monogamous anyways, its just the lgbt curse to feel peripheral and unwanted. It never goes away no matter how good you look, how much you make, because it comes from a personal insecurity, as I am sure you know. Treating that is quite the challenge
