can i ever be a real girl if i transitioned at 19yo? or is it over for me? i pass irl, every cis person (even 1 tranny i met irl) is shocked when i tell them i'm trans, ev&oe i'm 6'0, but i still have a fucked up ribcage and height.
>i already pass>ermmm will I be a real girl if transition?
what do you think being a 'real girl' is nona. what do you feel you are missing
>>41269892I feel like the answer is "an actual, natal female reproductive system"That is, xe wnbaw
>>41269908boring doomerism OR sneeding meanie
>>41269892when i look at the mirror i feel ugly and see all the imperfections with my skull and height and ribcage and lack of boobs to compensate for my height>>41269908low effort bait o algo. back to sharty with u
>>41269937i didn't ask for the things that make you insecure, i asked what you felt 'real girls' have that you do not. i understand you feel insecure about your body. all women do!
>>41269944i have cisf friends, i know all of this is brainworm bullshit. but i can't make it stop
>>41269971i think i was trying to get you to take a step back and think about what it means to be a woman. as you have found out you cannot magically turn off your insecurities about your body. i think if you can decouple those insecurities from your conception of what a 'real girl' is, though, it can be a starting point to finding some sort of relief from the brainworms. cis women know cis womanhood and its cool that you have cis friends for that perspective. but fully accepting your own womanhood means reckoning with the fact you are not them, you are trans. and trans womanhood does not have to be some sort of poor imitation. again that doesn't mean you will suddenly feel good about your body. but it is a starting point! because you will never feel better about your body until you've accepted that you are as much a woman as any cis woman might be. this doesn't need to be some kumbaya thing either like i think a lot of trans women are gross and weird and manish. you don't have to be them either lol
>>41269937>back to shartyI love how it's never a concession that lacking the critical female organs is a significant hurdle to overcome, psychologically and socially, but instead always people doing bait o algo. Your hugboxxing isn't helpful, and your inability to actually sit down, acknowledge the elephant in the room, and sympathize and comfort anon from your own experiences being similarly afflicted reek of malebrained social incompetence. You cannot foster a community, because whereas OP only lacks female parts, you lack the female spirit. (You) will never be a woman, and this time I'm not being tongue-in-cheek about it.
>>41270110not OP im the other anon here >>41269916. lacking the critical female organs is a significant hurdle to overcome, psychologically and socially. plenty of us do overcome it because we got that dog in us.
