If your friend or partner said multiple times over the entire time that you've known each other that they'd pay for something that's really important to you, like FFS for example, and then way later said they didn't actually think it through at all and that it's just something they said without actually meaning it at all, how would you feel?
>>41271263Block and move on (and self harm)
Personally, I would probably kill myself.
>>41271263My wife paid for my ffs after like 5 years together
>>41271390Did she talk about it a lot before doing it or did she just do it after a while?
>>41271263that's called emotional manipulation OP, not on in any shape or form
>>41271499She knew I wanted it for years and decided to get it for me like 2 ish years ago. I'm so lucky, I def didn't pass before but do now
>>41271527That's really nice of her!
>>41271274Does the self harming come before or after the moving on?
