He says " I love making love with you " yet we could spend days without sex if i don't take the initiative to try to sexualize things Before meeting me, he was asexualIs he just playing a game or is it just a women thing ?
>>41278952Maybe he is still asexual. Are you sure you're not pressuring him?
>>41279082Not at all, in fact, he does sometimes initiate, once every 5-6 times or soBut it feels like he's doing it exclusively for my pleasure, like, he doesn't take as much pleasure as i want him to, or that's how i feel at least, because he always tells me that the fucking was great and all
>>41279162>our relationship and sex life is good>let me invent problemsCongrats, you really pass for a woman.
>>41279238I'm a cis male
have you considered that he might just have a low libido?
>>41279597But why does he want to have sex with me then I don't want him to feel like it's necessary for me for fuck
>>41278952>before meeting me, he was asexualI'm ftm and I was like this. I don't really enjoy having sex irl, and usually find it very underwhelming. Otherwise I require rituals to reach 100% sex readiness (dates and gifts, like a fucking dating sim). Fapping > sex with partner any day. However I engage in it because my partner likes it.
>>41278952He probably just has a low libido and doesn't get horny much, it's not your fault and considering he was asexual before he met you you should be flattered you were hot enough to change his sexuality
>>41279840Sure but i kinda feel like having a literally sexual slave at times and it's killing my libido and ego
>>41279741>But why does he want to have sex with me thenNta. Imagine a scale where 0 is no desire whatsoever and 10 sex addiction. You do realize the number 1 or 2 on the scale is not the same as 0, right?
>>41279866My point is : I think he doesn't like sex all that much and really just does it for my pleasure and i think it's toxic for meLike literally i'm starting to just push him away at times because i feel like he's faking everything
