>First time he comes in as normal. Buys something and brags about being anticop.>Then he comes in on my day off to invite me to a bar. Gets in an argument with my coworker instead.>Next time I see him he mentions another trans woman, and calls her a bitch because she's telling people he's a stalker.>Starts coming in every few days, coworkers mention he gives off creep vibes. Doesn't ever buy anything.>He tells me he's going to apply >Hiring manager comes by to tell me that he mentioned being excited to work with a trans woman when he interviewed, so she's not hiring him>Start seeing him around the neighborhood, he always tries to start a conversation.>The first time he's sees me walking with my gf he shoulder checks me.>Gets in an argument with a different coworker.>Now he's coming into my job with a trans woman. They never buy anything.I just want to wageslave and go home. I don't know what to do without sounding crazy to management.
>>41282173Fake news
>>41282173Idk if they will do anything at all but the sooner you file a police report the more helpful it will be. The longer it goes on without you officially protesting it the easier it is for them to say you wanted him, you liked the attention, etc. Identify him as a stalker to your boss and coworkers. Avoid all communication with him, but keep any notes or text messages he may send you. Document everything. These people typically escalate over time so while the cops will probably tell you they can't do shit because he hasn't done anything illegal yet, should he try something more extreme you've made it clear from early on that he's been messing with you, and then hopefully you can get an actual restraining order when it counts. Wait until he does something scary before taking it to the police and that delays the whole timeline.
>>41282173This is why I don’t want to be called a chaser
>>41282362i could start taking photos of him when he's not looking and id be able to post new photos at least once a week it.>>41282410im just worried im paranoid. he hasn't done anything scary outside of the coworker arguments and the one shoulder check. it's that he's always coming in and never buying anything. i don't even know his name. i wouldn't even know what to put in a police report. "creepy guy is always coming in to my job and i see him around the neighborhood, but he hasn't done anything else"
>>41282458Why do you think he is a chaser? Maybe he is just a creep who likes cis women anonLike 99.9% of creeps
>>41282458the fact that he applied to your job and told the hiring manager how excited he was to work with a trans woman makes you definitely not paranoid. Especially because your hiring manager correctly identified that this was fucking weird and didn't hire him and then warned you about it. Just from that, someone in management knows this guy is weird about you without you having to even say anything. He's starting fights with coworkers and he doesnt buy shit. This is a slam-dunk situation to bring up to management, you have multiple other people who can vouch for him being a problem and weird towards specifically you. You can ask the hiring manager and the coworkers he fought with for statements and that's something else to take to the police. Especially if you bring this up to management with coworker and hiring manager backing and ask for him to be banned from the store. Does the store have cameras? That's a way to ID him. It's also plenty to come to the police with a description and a record of incidents. You don't need his name to bring something to the police. Again, they may not do anything, but the sooner you have complaints documented, the easier it is to get help quickly should he escalate.
>>41282517Idk maybe you are right anon I’m wrong fuck whatever just call on that creep
i had a similar problem where i go to school. some creepy ass guy hovering around me always trying to start a conv with me and even tried taking a sneak peek of my penis while i was peeing
>>41282534Sorry for that anonDid anything happen to him
>>41282517>>41282530okay, i'll tell management. just a bummer because the hiring manager left recently so she cant vouch for it. at the very least they'll be aware and if i do make a police case later i can point to when i told management.
>>41282594Good luck anon
>>41282594good job. the sooner complaints are made the easier it will be to ban him from the store or get a restraining order with the police. Also be careful if your work tries to get you to fill out any kind of form, read that shit. I had a friend who had a stalker at work and HR tried to get her to fill out some kind of mental health assessment, ostensibly for her benefit, but in reality they were trying to trick her into giving them some kind of record to point to and call her crazy.
Am I the only one willing to defend the guy?PINK TRIANGLE ON HER SLEEVE
>>41282573no, i never told anyone i just avoid him like the plague and never try to be alone with him because i think he may try to sexually assault me
>>41282669Idk I hate this shit this is how tranny optics feels like for a manI hope he didn’t sour anything in your life
>>41282689wdym how tranny optics feels like for a man? like he's spoiling tranny perceptions of men for guys like you?
>>41282655is this schizo. what does this mean
>>41282709https://youtu.be/v2vWDWxYJBc>When you interested in a transgirl but she's a transbian
>>41282716weezerposting
>>41282707I guess yeah It’s a pretty shallow fear I have desu
>>41282689no, it didn’t. i’m just extra vigilant now when i’m in the restroom or out in public. i only take off my hat, which is pulled all the way down over my face, when i’m with a family member, a friend, or in an lgbt environment
>>41282780What hat are we talking about? Does it hide your face
>>41282745there are crazy men being scary towards women, cis and trans, everywhere unfortunately. but most people still understand that there's billions of people and plenty are good, even if unfortunately we have to keep vigilant about the scary ones.when i was early in transition i remember i went to a friend's house party, and they invited their neighbor and his cousin, which i wasnt expecting. The cousin was p casually homophobic and i was kinda worried bc i was looking pretty girlfag, but as everyone was drinking and loosening up he let up on the homophobia and was being friendly. At some point while really drunk, he asked me if I was a guy or a girl. I thought what the heck, he seems like he's chilled out, and i told him girl. then he grabbed me into his lap and started groping me while talking about how straight he was and how much he loves pussy and fucking his girlfriend, all while feeling me up. I tried to leave but he wouldnt let me, he was way stronger than me and wouldnt let go. eventually I got away when some other people came and started talking to him without realizing what was going on and i was really freaked out about visiting those friends again bc i was scared I might see him again and if he'd be weird or angry at me, but i think he was too drunk to remember the whole thing. idk why im saying all this but i guess the point is that despite having to be vigilant about guys i dont hate all men bc of that guy or others like him who have tried similar stuff.
>>41282815i have short curly hair to my bottom earlobe and with the ball cap hat it makes it where you can’t see my eyes
>>41282840i still like men i just try to be careful tho. plus it’s always the most repulsive looking guys who do that shit. average to very attractive men aren’t creepy towards me and are very respectful and sweet to me
>>41282889hot guys can be rapey too. the guy who assaulted me was decent looking and in good shape, clearly went to the gym regularly. I still like men too but i dont lower my guard just bc theyre hot.
>>41282840>>41282931>>41282889Yeah idk what to say with this just like stay safe >>41282849Just wear a hoodie
>>41282931I understand you’re right anyone can be a predator
>>41282950i wear a binder now
>>41282745trannies often start out as wide-eyed and innocent lambs. But eventually, not far into transition, something will happen to her and she will become just another slightly jaded and guarded young woman. It's sad but that is the way of things. I think men get very distressed by the idea that women and trannies are always considering them as potential predators. But most people don't seriously hold all men accountable for something bad that happened to them one time.
>>41282707I mean you are all the same. Creepy closet homosexuals>>41282840I hate all men :(
>>41283564>trannies often start out as wide-eyed and innocent lambsBecause a lot of them are literal men who never had any girl friend. Anyone who so ever spends any time with girls would know how horrible and creepy men are. But lots of trannies used to be misogynist who never believed girls, so it hits them like a truck. Honestly trans girls like that deserve whats coming for them, maybe its justice.
>>41282173this happened to me too, this 40 year old coworker at my job came to my city for a work thing for a few days and he>asked if I was trans>asked if I was going to get SRS>said "I dated a trans once haha">asked me to go on a date "as a joke haha"Now he makes weird comments every few weeks over the phone to me like"haha, your voice is so high pitch" or "Never stay behind a bi person in traffic, you know they go both ways haha""everytime I write USB docking station I get worried autocorrect will write something else haha"It's so infuriating
>>41282173>I don't know what to do without sounding crazy to management.>Hiring manager comes by to tell me that he mentioned being excited to work with a trans woman when he interviewed, so she's not hiring himJust tell the hiring manager, she can communicate the situation to the rest of management.
