Age Gap Relationship Yes Or No
exclusively
I was groomed online by a tranny cat fishing me as a 12 year old female. I was 12He admitted to being 30 and a trans woman after 2 years of talking to me daily
>>41282898Yeah absolutely >>41282926I wasn’t really groomed but I was hooked at like 15
>>41282944Not that anon but 10Also the women in the older one
>>41282966As long as they are old mentally or something and I also highly doubt anyone can do that
yes pleasei wish i had a 30+ year old man to hold me in his arms and whisper in my ears that would be really nice and make me really happy if I could fall asleep with him holding me
>>41282977This is abnormal anon
>>41282978Anon that is just how aging worksYou won’t look 19 when you are 29 at most you will look like a 29 year old that somewhat resembles a 19 year old. Time is always going forward it doesn’t care about you anon. Always going forward
>>41282898Absofuckinglutely not
>>41283016You're forgetting the other archetype; I would do this and am not fat/a manlet, however I am too emotionally scarred to stick around and be vulnerable
>>41282898it's the only way, really. if i wasnt groomed whats the point??
>>41282981why is this abnormal?? I thought it was normal for tranny boymoding failuresi have parental issues if that makes it moar normal >>41283016that’s ok as long as he’s cool and funny and takes care of himself and has hobbies and stuff, mega points if he has intersecting hobbies as mine and sometimes can listen to me rant about stupid thingsand also maybe let’s me mommy him sometimes that too although that’s not exclusive to short kings i just would like to try that sometime maybe lol
>>41283099>>41283068this seems to be the other archetype and frankly common and it makes me sad…i want to make a man feel safe and let him be vulnerable…i want to let him know but also feel it’s ok to be real around me…i want it so we can both be safe with each other…i feel so bad for men like this because often times life and society is not easy to men emotionally speaking and they end up like this to protect themselves…but i want to let them be safe and put their guard down…
is 22 and 29 bad
>>41283113well what does boring meanlike no hobbies? People kinda need hobbies but idk maybe im projectingOr something else? You might be more interesting than you think
>>41282898like 6 yrs at most for me
>>41282898I was talking to a 23yo as a 31yo and it felt kinda weirdNot enough to stop though It's probably why she eventually pulled awayI don't think she was ready to own that in front of friends and family if it ever became committed which is where it was starting to look like it was heading
>>41283141You need to go back. I'm in my 40s and only really date and hookup with 18/19yo twinks sometimes into their 20/21 if they stay cute but it's rare
>>41283231>18 and 19 is pedoPlease kys
>>41283236lol
Of course. It's about the person not the number.
>>41283099It’s not normal anon sorry
>>41282898Older women and younger guy is basedEverything else is cringe
>>41283242>NoOOoOo!!1!! you cant like young adults you have to like used up post wall 22+yo bottoms noooOooooOo pick me I'm still a twink!!11 pedo!!Many such cases.
>>41283285size difference + age gap is based
i feel weird for liking a guy 5 years younger than me. i'm a guy btw
>>41283291lhow does that make me a pedo
>>41283316oh yea im quite a bit shorter and smaller than him but also im a little like agere like mental thing whatever so it doubles kinda
>>41283115Yeah this post gets it, and has summarized my yearning quite well. I say "too emotionally scarred" but ofc I am ultimately imagining something like this one day, with the necessary level of trust>>41283099What hobbies and what types of stupid things would you be ranting about. Just out of curiosity
>>41283344???????????????? im fucked up ????whats ur point here
>>41283358i just am tho idk :/
>>41283161its ok to be a bit of a hermit moder>>41283284ok well ur stupid + lame + box fan>>41283340:(( even though you’ve been hurt emotionally i hope one day you can feel safe enough to be vulnerable, you deserve thatprobably would rant about textile stuff occasionally but mostly aviation and aviation safety, I honestly would love to fly a plane and become a commercial pilot but its also a major responsibility and you are solely responsible for all souls on board, and things can go really bad really quick if there is improper procedure, lack of safe practices and CRM (crew resource management), and if you start falling behind the airplane things can get dicey quick, and that’s when the Swiss cheese starts forming. thankfully we have lots of technology safety wise nowadays like TCAS, windshear detection, GPWS/eGPWS systems but accidents still happen. So maybe just solo flying for me idkThere’s other things I rant about but they are mostly stupid tech stuff and things like that
>>41283427Textiles and aviation is a neat combination. I get nervous driving other people around, I've always thought airline pilots must have nerves of steel to handle any of that. Like even with the safety measures you're referring to, it's such an absurd amount of responsibility>solo flyingOkay but think about how well having one passenger would play into the whole trust/feeling safe dynamic. Peak
i'm 39 and my bf is 25
>>41282898Depends on the ages
>>41283505Ya you kinda have to be built different to be a pilot I feel, you need such a high degree of diligence and focus on procedures but also training and a good understanding of the mechanics of flight as well to know how to deal with the unexpected at a moments notice, it really is not for everyone. Despite my interest idk if I would even be able to do it properly myself and pass a check ride or be a competent pilot, there’s so much to take into account. And with other souls aboard, it would truly be one of the biggest responsibilities a person can have.Also one passenger would play really nicely into that dynamic like on a cozy Cessna or maybe a cool HondaJet lol but also some of the tragic accidents happen with one pilot and one passenger aboard that the pilot really cares about : ( like their wife or something, even with that hell even more so I would want to be on my top A game. But if it’s someone I really cared about, like my boyfriend or husband the absolute sinking feeling I would get if I had an instrument failure flying IFR or a bird strike at a low altitude it could very well impact my ability to fly the plane. But at the same time, I would hopefully go into pilot mode and aviate to the best of my ability to save the person I loveTbh flying is really scary but I also think it’s really cool
>>41282898mathew mcconohaughey meme
>>41283614Yeah I can see certain parts of that skillset being unlearnable/very hard to train. I have to imagine there are a lot of equally important jobs in that industry at least. Also yeah I didn't consider the dangers of the two person scenario, but it has to be the most mentally strenuous thing in the world if something goes wrong. Something about the "impending doom"-esque nature of a plane crash or a boat sinking (a la Titanic or something) is so much worse than a car crash where it kinda just happens instantly and you have like 1 second at most to react/process before impactI mostly had/have car and mech autism personally, me being scared of flying as a kid might have been a factor in inspiring this. Unfortunately, 12-year-old me might have been too optimistic about mechs ever being real
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It depends, but be careful.I'm 30, trans lesbian, and have dated a 19, 22, and now 23 year old at different points in time (all trans women). Quite a while ago, I even dated a man who was 8-9 years older than me for around 6 years. Presently with the 23 year old.My exes usually tend to hold that I'm the best thing that happens to them. Doesn't really stop them squandering it and crying about it when they break up with me. I'm on good terms with most my exes and breaking up just means we go back to a strong friendship...with maybe one or two people being an exception.With the recent relationships, I'm quick to indicate that the relationship probably won't last forever but every day they smile and enjoy the relationship is a day I'm glad to have spent by their side. With my current relationship, I'm mindful I'm her first partner so I point out what we do, what's socially acceptable, and what she needs to watch out for in the future. For example, while I believe she's mature for her age (thank god she's employed and has a residence) I also tell her it's a phrase used by abusers to prepare people for later. I also mention stuff like the stereotype of the "older 30's trans woman who just fucks 20 year old trans women until she fucks off to Seattle / Portland / Local queer capital" and how I was worried about that stereotype when I started dating her.Given how good I am to partners, a couple have ironically joked about it because the mildly funny contrast that I'm actually good compared to the other older 30's trans women that are creepy or sexually pushy. Your odds of running into a good age gap vs a bad age gap relationship are, apparently, are quite slim.After my current relationship ends, I'm never dating anyone in their 20's ever again. There's a lot of stupid drama and bullshit that people get sucked into in their 20's that I no longer have patience for. After my current girlfriend, I'd maybe go so far as to say that I'll never date again.
>>41284383The odds of her and I making it to a sweet wonderful 73 and 80 are unlikely. Especially if I'm her first relationship at 23. The opening stages of a relationship are getting to know eachother, our goals for the future, the things we love, and the things we dislike. We are still learning about eachother and taking things slowly. Whether we last or not, however long or short, the days I spend with her are days I want her to look upon fondly even if one day she should move on or if we one day drift apart. That is not wasted time.I am not some early 20's trans girl who shits on poly then promises herself monogamous partner #3 in 2 years is "the one" and gets consumed in the honeymoon period / new relationship energy. My longest relationship was 6-7 years and even that came to an end earlier this year. I just accept that things don't last forever and make it clear to my partners I don't expect it to. We are always better breaking up on good terms rather than staying together far too long and learning how much we can really learn to despise eachother.In real life, recently, I knew two 4chan trans girls who were cheating on their partners. Within the year, I met two more 4chan trans girls cheating on their partners. One told me that marriage lasts forever and disputed the median length of a marriage being 13 years because she thought there must be a few serial breakup addicts who bring it down...despite the fact she was cheating on her boyfriend and broke up at 3 years. The prospect of taking relationship advice from 4chan when I've met so many of you and your messy lives since 2013 is, frankly, a ridiculous idea.
