> t.rannyI’ve known her for years at this point, she’s progressive, gay, very vocally pro trans, and has a trans flag in her apartment( havnt ruled out the possibility her roommate is trans desu)But on the other hand what if she sees me differently, what if she treats me differently? I feel like you can’t really trust cis people on that front, even if they’re progressive. I know I don’t NEED to come out to her. Im straight so im not gonna date her so she doesn’t have to know, but idk maybe it’s time to break stealth for her?
>>41285711It depends, it could be a bonding experience but at the same time if she's that enthusiastic of an ally it might be a little awkward
>>41285728Yah I’m scared of getting g the gay best friend treatment. When I came out to my super progressive cousin she started treating me like that for a year it was really awkward. This friend has trans friends tho so maybe she’s normal about it? She is very pro trans but she mostly only talks about it when it comes up
>>41285711She will hate you unless you passTrust meEvery lgbt person is like thisYes other trannies too, especially them. If you don’t at least have effort into your honnism they will hate yout.knower
>>41286023I do pass that’s why she doesn’t know I’m trans, but I’m scared that once I tell her that she’ll see me as a man
A long time ago I came out to a friend and she just stopped talking to me, it was a few years before I started hrt and we were sitting on a fountain talking about stuff, few days prior she posted about trans stuff and how she'd love having an experience like that, stupid young me saw it as an opportunity to talk about it to someone, we used to reunite there every few days so I took the first chance I got, the entire mood changed, she turned serious and just told me "why don't you tell your friend about it, she seems more into you" and then she just stared at the street and left a few minutes later.
>gay best friend treatment
>>41287145I’m so scared of it happening again
