>>41303772
wake up

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>>41303790

Hi I'm a visitor with a question:

Why most bi men are bottoms (to both gender)?

>>41304325
for me it swings
so im bad to ask

>>41304325
My butt's really sensitive so I like to bottom for both. I do both for women (cis or trans)

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>>41303749
Porn, futa hentai with mecha. Pic related is rough textless draft. Im gonna eat a shoe writing text poorly and suffer because I don't really have a story but my idea was to cold open then maybe get back to it with random horny ideas. This was all a shit idea and I bit off more than I like but I will finish something.
>Cook better
Yes, never settle.
>>41304325
Lack of self esteem.

>>41303749
urrrmmmm
this duck dick is not accurate.
it should be corkscrew shaped.
Whoever made this duck clearly has no ambition

i feel a straight attraction to both genders :)

This guy is fucking crazy. Holy shit he pisses me off so much whenever I see him.

>>41304839
Huh??? Context?

>>41304978
Guy in this class I'm taking. He has a reputation in our cohort for being a loner and a bit of an asshole and I'm beginning to see why. We're in a small group together.

He's crazy smart and is usually pretty quiet but he's hard as fuck to work with. When it comes to our work, he's fucking relentless, too. He comes across really deadpan which makes him hard to talk to, but that's not what pisses me off. It's like he has no filter when it comes to dealing with people and is blunt as fuck. He can also be a smug little shit which drives up the fucking wall. It's like he gets off on needling certain people.

I don't believe a lot of the other shit people say about him, but Christ alive, would it kill him to soften the blow once in a while?

>tfw no fujo gf

>>41305095
I hope 8ts just autism that isn't masked or aware of or something instead of just being a dick for the sake of it.
>It's like he has no filter when it comes to dealing with people and is blunt as fuck.
I do this often but apologize after. Makes things worse with some people.

>>41305095
From that description the dude just sounds autistic

>>41305149
>>41305217
That's possible. I don't think I've met many people with autism so it didn't occur to me. It explains why he'll word something so bluntly that it seems mean. It's pissed a lot of people in our cohort off (including me lol). He also has a habit of calling attention to stuff that's inconvenient but true if that makes sense. He's really smart and observant so I figured it was intentional.

>I do this often but apologize after
He doesn't really apologize when you call him out on any of that stuff and will usually say "it's true, though/but I'm right" or something like that. It seems like he doesn't give a shit about hurting people's feelings but maybe he doesn't get why the way he phrases things pisses people off.

I don't know if being smug or liking to fuck with people is an autism thing, but he's not like that with everyone.

>>41303749
>qott1
Any time I've tried to create, the experience was like self harm but worse. People think being depressed and brooding is good for creativity but that's horseshit, I burn anything I make long before it's done and I hate myself more for even attempting it.
>qott2
Indian food.

>>41305560
Sounds like textbook autism to me - especially the part about bluntly stating things that might be objectively correct, but that you shouldn't say due to social norms.
>I don't know if being smug or liking to fuck with people is an autism thing, but he's not like that with everyone.
Assuming that he is autistic, chances are he doesn't understand that he's being smug because he can't read body language or context clues. Obviously that doesn't exonerate him from doing or saying stupid shit, but there's a good chance that he doesn't do stuff like that out of malice.

>>41303772
The story which it borrows from predicts the outcome of such a set up.

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>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT
>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT

A reminder that at 21 GMT we will choose the next 2 movies for movie night!
You can give your recommendation now by replying to this post

>what the hell is "movie night"
its a special night where bigen comes together to watch on Discord two movies chosen by the community

>when will movie night take place?
its FRIDAY at 22 gmt

>where do we watch the movies?
on the Bigen Movie and Game Night Discord server:
https://discord.gg/hQuNJEWZ

>i don't usually post on bigen/never took part in movie night, can i join?
Of course, movie night is open to anyone, just remember to mute yourself during the movies, be civil and have fun!

fyi: this is the list of every movie we watched so far:
https://pastebin.com/Bc8pqK9h

>>41305977
>bluntly stating things that might be objectively correct, but that you shouldn't say due to social norms
That's exactly what he's like. He's also just really blunt in general like, when he's commenting on other people's work and stuff like that.

>he doesn't understand that he's being smug because he can't read body language or context clues
Maybe you're right. He knows he's smart, he knows he's seriously fucking good at what he does, and he knows he's attractive. That doesn't bother me as much but it pisses other people off. I guess they feel like they can't even take him down a peg.

>doesn't exonerate him from doing or saying stupid shit
Yeah he still pisses me off lol. He's busting my balls on Teams right now.

>there's a good chance that he doesn't do stuff like that out of malice.
Fair. Like I said, he's really observant and kind of an "analytical" type of guy so I assumed that would translate to social situations.

I think him liking to fuck with people is just who he is, though. It's not friendly enough to call teasing but I wouldn't say it falls under bullying either.

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i miss everyone who has ever been in my life and i will always mourn over what could have been

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>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT
>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT

The poll is now open, no further recommendations will be accepted.
The voting will stop tomorrow at around 4 PM GMT, so be sure to vote before then!

Here is the link to the server:
https://discord.gg/hQuNJEWZ

>>41303749
>What do you wish you could cook better?

i wish i had a 100k BTU gas wok to cook chinese food with

>>41304325
harsh truth is most people are spiritual bottoms
I'm not though

>>41304628
Are you every mans woman and every womans man?

>>41308955
I'm every woman.

>binge reads Someone Else's BL Comic
>tries to find something else by the author
>nothing
why would you write something so peak and then fuck off into the ether?

>>41309066
Damn, you get creampied a LOT.

>>41309739
I wish. No homo.

>>41309917
I wanna creampie you...
Is this the right thread to say this in?

>>41309928
>Is this the right thread to say this in?
Maybe? I just got here.

>>41303749
qott 1: trying to do music again after my last album came out about a year ago. Not going great so far, progress is very slow and i feel stuck on what sound i wanna try and pursue, or rather the means of pursuing it.

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>>41309066
Every woman says that.

Annoyed by the fact that I enjoy more online flirting with femboys and gentle bottoms over girls, but my penis still prefer bodies with curves...
Trans girls are perfection but I never met one with an ok mental health.

>>41304325
Personally I'm not.

I love everything about women. How they look and feel, how they sound, their mannerism and movement. Simply everything, I enjoy both being dominant and being very gentle with them, it's always hot.

Guys I don't find particularly hot or attractive. It's just super nice and comfy to hang out with a bro and jerk off and blow each other.

With girls it's always romantic for me, with guys its being fwb in the most literal sense of the term.

With girls it's physical attraction first. Whereas with guys it's more utilitarian.

>>41312119
Flirting in general is fun and I wish I was comfortable doing it irl rather than online.

>>41312726
i like flirting irl but then after that they want to have sex or something

>>41313173
I don't get that... I assume people see me as desperate.

>>41309917
It's okay, it can be homo.

>>41312119
>but I never met one with an ok mental health.
they would low key be peak bisexual partner if not for that seemingly ubiquitous issue

how common is self hate as a bi man i wonder. for as long as i can remember i've been sexually attracted to cock and the majority of my fantasies revolve around wanting to blow and frot with a guy and having him cum on my face and in my mouth. i probably never will though because i feel like that would be the easy way out and i would be admitting to myself that i will never be good enough to attract or have sex with a woman. even though when i'm horny all i think about is cock i don't have much attraction to men irl and don't like gay porn. i wonder if i'm just mentally retarded and not actually bi. it would possibly be better if i just died a virgin really so i didn't use anyone as a way to validate my gross and retarded sexuality. i wish i lived alone away from humanity and never had the sexuality i do. maybe if i was naturally physically feminine or attractive i wouldn't feel so much shame about wanting to do gay stuff.

I really need to stop doon scrolling /atoga/ the posters are simply the worst thing possible for my mental health and make everyone seem like a corrupt sociopath.
>>41313660
there is simply no way trans people on average have worse mental health than the autistic people on the website. I refuse to believe it.

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>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT
>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT

And we have the two winners!:

>bad biology
>Barnyard (2006)

So see ya later at 22 GMT!

>>41314228
now the weird part is that all trans girls are kinda crazy, but everyone in a different way. Also often they sound normal until something triggers them, then they switch into their psycho personality.

Yes of course even some cis girls are like this, but I still have to meet a tgirl which has not some issue...

>>41305095
You either have a big talk with him so he can get his shit together or punch him in the face so he can stop being an asshole.

>>41305149
>>41305217
Not everyone with these characteristics are autists. Met lots of people like that and they where just egocentric assholes.

>>41314228
>there is simply no way trans people on average have worse mental health than the autistic people on the website. I refuse to believe it.
most of the people posting on this website are trannies. That or incels. Though the point as >>41314303 said was that it's not the absence of crazy people that aren't trans that's disappointing, it's the absence of trans people that aren't crazy.

Though considering most can only strictly differentiate between trans people and perverts by identifying gender dysphoria, which is either a mental illness in itself or a symptom that is involved in the development or expression of mental illness depending on how you define it. Point being if they weren't mentally ill they probably wouldn't be trans either, regardless of which came first.

>>41304325
Is this true? I'm not and I don't know any other bi men

>>41313709
This sounds more like severely repressed homosexuality with internalized homophobia. Not bi but as in full gay just clinging to social expectation of at least partial heterosexuality. It can come in so strong you don't even think about men until you're horny and then the defense is down and it's the only thing you can think about in a depersonalized body part way
Usually comes from extremely religious and/or conservative upbringing but some people outside of that are still sensitive to it
Everyone has to work through the internalized homophobia to some level but that's pretty extreme. You need a lot of therapy probably

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>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT
>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT

A reminder that in 1 hour Movie Night is gonna start! Here is tonight's selection:

>bad biology
>Barnyard (2006)

>what the hell is "movie night"
Its a special night where bigen comes together to watch on Discord two movies chosen by the community

>where do we watch the movies?
On the official Bigen Movie and Game Night Discord server:
/!\/!\/!\"" insert here a newly generated link to the discord ""/!\/!\/!\

>i don't usually post on bigen/never took part in movie night, can i join?
Of course, movie night is open to anyone, just remember to mute yourself during the movies, be civil and have fun!

fyi this is the list of every movie we watched so far:
https://pastebin.com/Bc8pqK9h

>>41316366
whoops

here's the link :
https://discord.gg/kmJFT2KP


>>41315562
You're weirdly essentializing things without substantiating anything here in order to present your take on transmedicalism as sensible
Transgenderism isn't a mental illness, no matter how much (you)s calling trannies crazy brings you

>>41314228
Dare I ask what /atoga/ is ? or am I really that much better not knowing

>>41313709
you might want to talk about this with someone who's comfortable with being a gay man/ a therapist. This level of self-hatred won't be good for you down the line

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>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT
>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT

Good evening !
Its finally time to start another Movie Night! Tonight selection is:

>bad biology
>Barnyard (2006)

Here is the link of the stream, don't be shy and come join us! the film will start at 22:10 GMT

>https://discord.gg/kmJFT2KP

>what the hell is "movie night"
its a special night where bigen comes together to watch on Discord two movies chosen by the community

>i don't usually post on bigen/never took part in movie night, can i join?
Of course, movie night is open to anyone, just remember to mute yourself during the movies, be civil and have fun!

fyi: this is the list of every movie we watched so far:
https://pastebin.com/Bc8pqK9h

>>41304289
Grab a brush and put a little make-up
>>41304618
I’ll corkscrew you, anon
>>41305106
I’ll pray for your fujoshi waifu to find you
>>41305723
>Any time I've tried to create, the experience was like self harm but worse.
Im absolutely fascinated by this concept. I want to make you paint. Brings a whole new meaning to a tortured artist, huh? I bet you can’t be alone with your thoughts either.
>>41307578
Same, unfortunately. I wish people tried to form deeper connections with one another instead of treating everyone like they were disposable.
>>41308084
I wish i had the money to give you that, anon
>>41308955
Lol

>>41309457
Ah, first time? I loved reading oneshots and encountered this all the time. That being said ill add “Someone Else's” to my reading this. I’m trying to get through the bl Read Sign” it’s cute, but not peak.
>>41310040
Welcome to the thread
>>41310575
Sounds cool, good luck. What genre?
>>41312119
Trans girls really are the best of both worlds. Im so glad I found a trans gf. Id say just dont give up, but it really was a fluke we were even able to find each other. I think love is like winning the lottery.
>>41313173
Kek

The only people that are not transmedicalists are zoomers… You definitely need disphoria to be a transexual. I thought /big was safe from the tranny talk?

>>41316985
>Brings a whole new meaning to a tortured artist, huh?
not at all, I just don't pursue it. The results aren't good so I figure nothing of value lost and committing enough time to get decent results seems pointless when I hate every step of the experience.
>I bet you can’t be alone with your thoughts either
I've spent a rough decade living on my own left mostly to my own thoughts. Before that I didn't live alone but I spent most of my time by myself too. There's few things I'm better equipped for than being left alone with my thoughts.

>>41317013
As a bi guy I really just have no opinion on it. People can do what they want. Sometimes I get along with people and we find each other mutually attractive so we'll hook up or whatever. Not gonna interrogate someone about why they're trans or not.

SSRI withdrawal seems to be better at preventing homosexual thoughts than the actual SSRIs themselves. Gonna start taking my pills once or twice a week instead of daily, so I’m constantly in a state of withdrawal.

>>41316577
>You're weirdly essentializing things without substantiating anything here in order to present your take on transmedicalism as sensible
If you say so
>Transgenderism isn't a mental illness
what is it then?
>no matter how much (you)s calling trannies crazy brings you
Sorry my anecdotal experiences aren't pleasing to you, though you don't make much of a case for having a sound response when you resort to presuming my intent in sharing my experience on a thread that encourages it

What's next, am I ragebaiting if I say olives aren't great?

>>41317315
Huh, all I can think is that you don’t like not being instantly good at something. Were you a “gifted” kid?

>>41317329
Yeah im gender agnostic too. This is the way.

>>41317329
That's great, the conversation isn't about whether you find it important or not though, so I don't see why reply to it if you have nothing to say about it. Just to dismiss it?

>>41317370
Indeed.

>>41317377
*shrug* you weren't quoting anyone and I just got home. As a /bigen/ regular, I was giving my take on tranny talk.

>>41317361
You're right, you've got me now. You've boiled me down to a category now you are relieved from the need to consider my humanity and just respond with the standard output for the box I've been slotted into.

>>41317398
But you didn't have a take.
You had the absence of a take, so why mention it?

>>41317427
Because the question was about the nature of /bigen/ and I think majority is just kinda cool with whatever.

I suppose that makes me not a transmedicalist and I am not a zoomer, so that would also contradict your first assertion.

>>41314619
It wasn't exactly a big talk, but I think I understand him a little better now.

I called him out one-on-one about how blunt he is about people's work (which is the major issue). Turns out he was genuinely trying to help us, I think? He seems to think that being anything less than super direct would make what he's trying to say unclear or confuse us.

At one point he literally went "how will they know it's wrong if no one tells them it's wrong?" so I think it's possible that he just doesn't know how to filter things.

That wasn't all we talked about but I think some of the anons on here were right that he may be autistic.

>>41317448
I'm not the guy that said that.
Is "transmedicalist" just a term to boil down people who think transgenderism is medically definable?

>>41317465
I think it has to do with requirements for transitioning or something.

>>41317499
Google seems to say it's just thinking it's a medical issue, primarily characterized by gender dysphoria.
So yeah, I don't know what else anyone would argue it as, since the only alternative I've heard is you're trans if you say you are which is just slipping back into xe/xir brainrot that I thought we had finally managed to shake as a species that can think rationally when it wants to.

>>41317539
I think transmedicalists have extremely strong opinions on what counts as valid dysphoria, whereas I don't find it to be a concern. If someone feels like transitioning for whatever reason, whether it's extreme physical dysphoria, mild dysphoria, boredom, transmaxxing, feeling like it's a better fit for them socially, being a pervert, HRT makes them feel better, whatever... that's not really related to whether I'm attracted to them or get along with them.

>>41317584
But the argument isn't about what you like. You're a bisexual, so am I, we'll fuck whatever we like and what we like is about as non-specific as you can get.
The argument is what is considered actual trensgenderism as a definable term, and why giving it definitions that make it inherently undefinable isn't a solution anyone can do anything with.

>>41317627
The argument was about whether I was a transmedicalist. I am not, because I don't think a strict definition is necessary. They can simply modify their bodies as they see fit.

How was movie night guys?

>>41318393
pretty tranquil movie night this week
zzz

>>41319404
I cast earthquake, killing them both.

>>41319404
God of air, but no way someone born amab has hips like that.

>>41318393
it was that shitty cartoon cow movie

>>41319404
I'd impregnate water

Ah what the fuck am I even doing with my life

>>41321269
Fishing for attention apparently

>>41319404
if a femboy/ftm looks at me that way I cannot resist.

>>41321501
qurl shut the fuck up that's what everyone on here is doing. you're not special.

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>>41321669
Actually write what's going on instead of that "aw im so sad :((" bullshit retard

>>41320168
>>41321544
Omg the “breedable ftms” guy posts in bigen

>>41321269
What ARE you doing with your life?

The stuff in the U.S. is starting to get kinda scary…

How often do you hook up

>>41322918
I don't

>>41322918
I have a gf now, but when I'm single maybe a couple times a week. Scheduling is always a pain lol

>>41322172
Why would I be talking about ftms?

>>41322918
I used to hook up a lot. Pick up chicks in bars go cruising… Not anymore. I haven’t had sex in months. I want something real.

Bump.

>>41325124
why

>>41325312
I only browse in private browsing and I accidentally closed my window, so I needed to get through a new 120s timer so I could later post when I felt like it.

page 9 bump

ok ok but what if i'm like. not really particularly sexually attracted to women but very romantically attracted to them. and like moderately sexually attracted to men but only romantically attracted to them in rare circumstances.

i kind of don't care about anyone right now so this isn't urgent but it would be nice to know wtf is wrong with me

>>41327017
I think the gap between romantic and sexual attraction is entirely internalized homophobia
Your sexual attractions are your attractions
Romantic attractions are more cerebral exertions of how you try to get emotional validation, they're easier to layer and subconsciously misguide

Biggest age gap you've done?

>>41319404
who drew these?

>>41328276
Went out with someone im pretty sure is 20yrs older then me tonight.

I’m frustrated, horny, and suicidal.

>>41328276
>women
When I was 34 I slept with a 22 year old bartender and a 50 year old from my job within like a month of each other
>men
When I was 23 or 24 I hooked up with a 50-something guy, nothing big in the other direction

>>41328276
fucked a guy who was 30 when I was 23, so nothing really insane

Bump

>>41328276
my girlfriend's brother. i'm 35, he's 20. previous biggest gap was... my girlfriend, who's 25.

slow sunday bump
finally done with getting my appartment in a decent shape for my so to come visit tomo

>>41313709
I have similar feelings as well. The cock itself is hot, but men are not attractive to me irl and I don't like gay porn either.

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>>41303749
BOO!

/BIGEN/ HORROR HOUSE presents: 30 Frights Till Halloween - MIDNIGHT MONSTER MADNESS MOVIE MARATHON!!!

Tonight’s showing: Dr. Jekyll and Sister Hyde (1971), followed by Courage the Cowardly Dog - King Ramses' Curse (2000).

Film starts at 10:00 PM EST!

¡¡¡BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!!!

>>41333861
Nice

Existing in a less shitty society would fix me.

>>41337238
>dating your looksmatch and lowering your standards is the key to happiness as a man.
Would you say this is true?

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>>41328276
im 23 and i had a fling with a 32 year old over the summer
best sex of my life im ngl

>>41336800
for me it's getting pegged

Are twinks/femboys a thing irl or is it just a meme?
If so where do I find them?

>>41336800
The tried and tested method of blaming society rather than improving yourself

>>41337275
>Would you say this is true?
Absolutely. If nothing else than because beauty doesn't last; everyone becomes ugly at some point. Obviously noone is saying you have to date a whale, but growing old with someone average looking with a good personality is far better than doing it with someone who looked beautiful when you met but has a shitty personality. Looks fade, but bitchiness is forever.

>>41337639
Why do you not see each other anymore?

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Drawing with extremely low efort just to get anything on paper. Every weekend I feel like I got worse. But idk anymore.
>>41316577
Atoga is ask the other gender, threads. They suck.
>>41336800
I could deal with society if I got with someone that nags me to do better as a motivation.

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>>41338521
You're having trouble finding twinks? Femboys are unicorns but twinks grow on trees. Go to anywhere that young men are that's not very chud coded or obviously just go to where gays are.

Does being bi mean you are better at coping with or abuse as a child or does it mean you were abused by both men and women? >>41339469

>>41339500
Maybe emotional abuse from peers but idk, I'm not a doctor. Remembering anything social from when I was younge makes me feel sick though.

>>41339364
i find the most femboys in chud coded places, unironically. i think my wedding ring makes them spawn, though.

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>>41338715
>Why do you not see each other anymore?
he has an ongoing issue with cocaine that i may or may not have gotten involved with (last he told me he was “sober” but then he went on to tell me he only does it on weekends to “ease withdrawals” so who knows) and he also went back to his ex
he tried coming back into my life a week or so ago and he told me he “had feelings for me at one point” (whether that was true or not is up in the air) and that his ex dumped him but then he started acting flaky bc he still wasnt over his ex
as of today he has me hardblocked on everything and his ex took him back…. for whatever reason
i do miss the bomb sex that weve had but ultimately its not worth the effort if hes not gna make an effort to improve himself so if he tries coming into my life again ima just shut the door on him bc he has proven nothing to me except for the fact that hes manipulative and a liar

>>41319728
>no way someone born amab has hips like that.
think again
https://unseecc/album#KoCunkAhn4zL

>>41341211
Link is dead, but i already have a gf so i probably shouldn’t be looking anyway.

>>41339315
I like your drawing.

>>41343579
The shaft head tilt pose is unironically a huge pain in the ass.

i had no idea this gen still existed

>>41343766
from back when are you?

page 8 bump

>>41343766
People started moving to discord movie server and they allowing the text channel to go on even after 4chan came back, anons don't post here much often anymore. The result is a dead general.

>>41341189
>he has an ongoing issue with cocaine
Props for not being picky I guess

>>41346654
Life goals unironically.

I think i’ve been suicidal since my cat died, and that was years ago.

>>41347350
My condolences anon. Have you thought about getting a new cat?

My gf really likes animated hentai, so I decided to watch some with her. I can't do it. Drawn hentai is great, I used to read hentai manga a lot when I was younger, but the animation quality on animated hentai and the way the genitals move is too odd and distracting.

>>41345709
lol no they didn't
trans destroyed these threads

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>>41348810
Look at this fucking retard

>>41348819
if i want to fuck balding men i don't want them in women's clothes

>>41303749
1. A little bit of money
2. Yes

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>>41303749
>QotT #1: Are you making anything?
love to my enby
>QotT #2: What do you wish you could cook better?
cakes... I suck at baking

>>41348560
I do have a new cat (sister had a litter of kittens), and I love her. But I really miss my old cat. It also feels like the world has gone to shit since then so it night be a combination of things.

>>41348690
I’m utterly fascinated by this. I never really read or watched tentacle stuff, but I’ve read a few good stories. I had a past gf that really liked it snd got off on it too. She said that it was also nice knowing that because it was animated she didn’t have to worry or wonder if someone was actually getting hurt or trafficked on camera. This was before the great pornhub purge and there were a some studios that trafficked women.

>>41351138
I think the lack of budget is just really obvious. For a nice drawing, you don't need a budget, but for animation, you do.

>>41348690
Most of them are using tweening and work on basically bo budget so at the best of times you get okay key frames and that is it.

>>41351138
>Lack of trafficking
A lot of hentai studios use exploitative third party animators for between frames. Doujinshi is as grass roots as it gets other than watpad and other smut writing sites.

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>>41345709
>>41348810
>4chan general became a discord full of trannies
shocked.

>>41345709
>People started moving to discord
thats been going on across all of 4chan for about a decade now. this site is archaic as fuck and filled with nazis and people dont wanna deal with that shit. people want a safe community they can use from their phones. Its not discords fault that it became the better service, its moot and asian guy whose name i dont remember's

>>41355765
>>41354645
Isn't that a description of discord as well. Most the complaints of discord I hear are that the majority of public discords being full trans, nazis, and shit people.

>>41352569
Lol, if i was still seeing this girl i’d go tell her. I think she was more concerned about people not being taken advantage of sexually anyway so it might’ve not made a difference to her.

>>41355765
every single 4chan discord, especially the main ones for general threads, are fucking cancer

>>41356815
Oh.
>>41356917
I use discords for magical girl animes and they aren't linked to 4chan. Most were cancer. Had a lot of people DM me randomly about suicide contemplation frequently too.

>>41356998
Yeah, she wasn’t great. Exploitation is exploitation.

>>41356772
4chan sells anonymity for me. I can talk whatever shit I desire and go back to my average life. You can't do that on other websites.

>>41358853
Agree

Anons I need a sanity check because I am so worked up I can’t think straight.

I am a graduate student at a university somewhere. I am not the TA for either of them but two upper class men (male and female couple dude is bi idk about girl) hit on me at a party and invited in as clear of a way as possible to be part of a threesome.

They are both very attractive. I have cum buckets just to the thought of this.


However I am a human being with impulse control who cares about his career: what are the ways this could blow up in my face/what can I do to protect myself?

There shouldn’t be an academic integrity issue rn (there very will could be in the future if I TA for another upper level course) and they are both consenting adults but I have worked my ass off to get this opportunity and am not gonna let my dick ruin this for me.

Is it better if I very politely decline their offer just so I don’t get involved in potential drama? It is taking all of my self control to not go over to them rn and fuck them both silly.

If I do have to say no and then see them around campus it will be excruciating

>>41361000
I see red flags.

>>41361027
How so?

>>41361000
I have fucked coworkers and it hasn't hurt my career at all. Students have been banging each other since the dawn of time. People online are petrified of everything, just go for it.

>>41361000
I think as long as you don't have any position of power of them at the moment, you are good to go. If you do become their TA or whatever in the future you would have to break it off, if you still are seeing each other at that time.

god i need to suck a fat twink dick and glup down his bitter cum

big plus points if hes a pothead

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>>41363150
Someone posted something very similar to this in a different thread and now we’re dating.

I went to a dungeon again for the first time in a year. It was good.

>>41366483
damn dude actual fairy tale romance

>>41366490
like an escape room thing or more like a sex thing

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>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT
>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT

A reminder that at 21 GMT we will choose the next 2 movies for movie night!
You can give your recommendation now by replying to this post

>what the hell is "movie night"
its a special night where bigen comes together to watch on Discord two movies chosen by the community

>when will movie night take place?
its FRIDAY at 22 gmt

>where do we watch the movies?
on the Bigen Movie and Game Night Discord server:
https://discord.gg/

>i don't usually post on bigen/never took part in movie night, can i join?
Of course, movie night is open to anyone, just remember to mute yourself during the movies, be civil and have fun!

fyi: this is the list of every movie we watched so far:
https://pastebin.com/Bc8pqK9h

>>41366508
Like a sex thing. I got to tie someone up again, which was nice. I’m a little rusty so i’ll probably be tying up things around the house to practice.

>>41363150
Why a pothead? IMO potheads are some of the least attractive people imaginable

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Yesterday I got hit with "I'm not really feeling it, but we should be friends" by the first person I started dating.
Feels kind of like getting kicked in the gut. I like him a lot. Trying not to fixate on unhealthy stuff or fall into bad thought patterns here but it's hard. God I wish I'd figured out the basics of this stuff in high school. It sucks being a 29 year old man crying myself to sleep over somebody I went on two dates with, but this shit hurts. He seemed like a miracle and stumbling into another one feels hopeless.
Sorry for sad blogging.

>>41368553
It's alright to feel down after being rejected. It gets easier each time though.

What if I only want to fuck guys when I'm horny and then immediately regret it when I cum?

>>41368911
Subconscious self-hate

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>>41368553
its nothing to be ashamed of anon, breakups suck, especially if its your first one. just let the hurt pass

>>41368960
I don't think so anon.

how the fuck do you flirt

>>41367767
pothead twinks and women are super cute

>>41329636
that's how it is

>>41375889
Pics like this (of real people) where you can see the adonis belt and the 'base' of the dick are top 3 best poses ever and you can't change my mind

>>41375928
yes so long as one of the other ones is looking at a boys cheeks and seeing his balls from behind

>>41375960
Also very based

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>>41375960
Frog pose pictures are elite.

>>41376801
I never knew this pose actually had a name

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BIGEN MOVIE NIGHT FLASH ROUND:
HALLOWEENTOWN
OR
DRAGGED ACROSS CONCRETE
VOTE ENDS IN 1 HOUR!! https://discord.gg/kmJFT2KP

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>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT
>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT

And after a FLASH ROUND we have the two winners!

>SPY KIDS 3D: GAME OVER
>HALLOWEENTOWN

So see ya later at 22 GMT!

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>drunkenly texted my ex and got left on read

MAKING ME tonight's biggest loser

>>41376801
boys are even better at this cause their balls can hang down and touch the floor

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>>41378253
It does, though I don't think it's fully proliferated so lots of people don't tag it as such.
>>41380358
Them ignoring you is literally the best thing they could've done for you.
>>41380518
true but if I post those I'll get shot.

>>41374108
Idk sounds embarrassing. When I was younger i’d look up and memorize really corny stupid pick up lines. If girls loked me it made them laugh even though it was stupid. They just liked the attention. I think a lot of flirting is just looking and paying attention to the other person after breaking the ice and making them feel comfortable around you.

Liked*

How exactly do you tell if you're bisexual

>>41381057
if you wanna suck cock while fucking pussy youre bisexual

>>41382046
I feel so much friction towards my perceived same sex attraction tho. like it feels dystopian to be attracted to men.

I can't help but feel like things like forearms and cock are attractive. Just something about them is hot to me.

>>41383023
>like it feels dystopian to be attracted to men
how and why?

I think I could’ve accidentally crypto-flirted with a minor because I took for granted he’s my age since he attends a college class that he’s already experienced with and is taller than me. I might need to blow my brains out.

>>41380580
pic reminds me of this super cool girl that used to post here
I feel like an old man thinking about the good old days lmao

>>41383096
idk it just does.

>>41352551
Yeah it's super obvious and frustrating for me. Maybe AI will make it better, but probably not lol

>>41383023
I struggle with something similar. Idk how to be self-accepting. Easier to just shove it down.

when did you fellas realize you were bi? There was a very distinct moment for me
>be ~10
>have very close friend
>cute blonde kid who smiles a lot
>eventually stay over at his house
>he has a computer
>this was back before the internet in every house
>"hey anon, my cousin told me about this site..."
>clickity clack at the PC
>Its a porn site
>a weirdly tasteful porn site
>neither of us really knew what we were doing
>click on a random video
>typical stuff. guy with big dick fucking a girl.
>my eyes lock onto the dude's cock
>utterly mesmerized
>we just sorta sat there and watched for a moment
>hear friends mom coming
>shut it down
>it was a sleepover so i was staying the night
>we both slept out on his huge couch
>there were two couches, we were both going to sleep on either one
>friend speaks up once his parents head to bed
>"Anon... wanna get naked?"
>fuck it, why not
>he slid over to the couch i was laying on
>we still felt weird about it, so we stripped down underneath a blanket
>carefully lifted up the blanket
>"uhh.... you have a nice body"
>"y-you too..."
>lay the blanket back down
>we just sorta laid together for a moment
>eventually he got his clothes back on and slid back onto the other couch
>we never mentioned it again
>eventually i had to move schools
if i stayed at that school, i wonder if we would have been together, or if it was just a weird experimental thing for him.

im not sure if im bi or just have a porn addiction
i think you guys will ask if I find guys irl hot, i think I do occasionally but rarely as much as women. meanwhile in porn i usually look at cock or imagine sucking cock

I should get a boyfriend but how....

>>41385466
i like to think of it in a different way. can you imagine yourself dating a guy the same way you date a woman? where do you see yourself in a bi relationship with another man?

>>41385478
you might be onto something. because more recently i have had thoughts about cuddling with a boy and it was cute...
not sure if that's just because i read some yaoi or something

But also you say, "the same way you date a woman". idk desu, I'm kinda autistic so it's hard for me to tell what I want in a relationship but when i dated girls I just liked having someone that understood me, would spend time with me, and that we could cuddle and maybe have sex. all of those except the sex i could probably imagine with a guy.
With a girl i'm not really sure what role i would take, but with a guy when i jerk off i usually imagine myself very much as a bottom. probably not possible since I'm 6'2"

anyway writing it that way now makes me think im definitely into guys. but then a lot of the time i feel delusional for thinking that because when just looking around I usually notice women's tits and ass or if they're wearing a crop top or some shit like that.

>>41385624
You don't have to like everyone equally or in the same way. I keep frozen yogurt popsicles in my fridge as a snack. My favorite flavor is mango, and if I could only ever have one flavor it would not be particularly hard to make the decision. But I don't have to make it, so sometimes I'm in the mood for strawberry or cookies and cream flavor and I eat those instead.

Anyone here got experience with gay/lgbt bars? Are they a good place to look for traps/cds?

>>41386452
I've been to gay bars, it's mostly cis men, I've even hooked up with one cis woman at a gay bar lol. But at goth/edm clubs, that's where you can find traps, at least in my experience.

>>41386457
I don't do well with clubs... I'm a loner and I haven't got any friends, at least none who know I'm bi, so I always think that going to those places while I'm alone would be pointless wastes of time.

>>41386464
At gay clubs guys will likely approach you if you sit at the bar. Goth/edm, it's trickier, you have to be dressed up in something that matches, helps to be a bit high.

>>41386477
Yeah... just worried it'll be masc men who I'm not into so much.

>>41386489
The people you're trying to hit on probably feel the same way about you hitting on them so don't worry about it

>>41386489
Just be friendly and turn them down politely if you're not feeling it. You can still be friends with people.

>>41386495
Mmm. Yeah, I'll probably just pussy out and spend yet another year alone and repressed.

>look at the tagmap
>ton of hits in vancouver
>none on the island
rip

>>41386507
If you refuse to change then nothing will change, yeah.

sick of living in the middle of nowhere

>>41386375
yeah i think thats fair, but choosing ice cream is a lot different than chosing a lover. at the end of the day I have to choose someone to date, probably not gonna be poly. obviously for hookups I could probably do whatever but I don't think my first gay experience should be a hookup? I'm also probably not outgoing enough for that

Seeing bisexuals gushing over other bisexuals is sweet.

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>>41368553
Man I wasn't ready for how much this stuff hurts. It's just kinda going in a 3-4 hour cycle of feeling normal and then back to being 10 seconds away from crying at any moment.

>>41380358
at least ur not hardblocked by ur ex :/ (although its probably good for me)

Hi, I've posted here before on similar topics but I'm in the middle of another spiral.

If you achieve orgasm reading something dirty do you think that means you want to act that out in real life or that it informs your identity somewhat? If I read anything sexy with a dominant woman in it I get aroused and worry I am actually a repressed transgender woman who wants a submissive bf...

>>41393332
your gender has no bearing on wanting to be dominated by a woman. i dont get this. just enjoy what you enjoy without ripping apart your whole life

>>41393338
Yeah but what if I relate to the woman doing the domination. Idk often how female doms are described dominating a guy seems a lot more idk sensual? I can get off to mlm stuff too but I do like submissive men regardless of who is dominating them (the submissive has to be attractive to me though can't just be a fat balding guy). Idk, I am just a bundle of neurosis lol.

>>41393402
i mean if you want to be the dominator in that situation, once again, you dont need to be female to do that. You can act however you want. in fact, its more likely fat balding guys are into straight dominatrixes, rather than their gay counterparts

>>41393412
I know I know.

It's just that I'll decide to jerk off, got look at erotica with submissive male tag and often I'm jerking it to a woman dominating a man. Then after I finish I freak out thinking it's a sign I actually want to embody a dominatrix or something.

Tbh half the time it feels like mental self harm because when I open something I just know if I orgasm to it I'll obsess over it for ages because in my mind that's "proof" I'm trans.

I suppose I should just realise (or try to remember) that this probably all means nothing and I'd probably know if I was really AGP. I'd be into like transformation porn or forced sissy or something...

>>41393459
theres a lot more to being actually trans than just being horny. a lot of trans people dont get that, and thats why so many of them are miserable and suicidal. dont dictate such a huge life decision around a sexual fantasy
i can kinda already tell by what you're typin here, you arent trans. You just associate with a woman in porn. lots of people do that. If you really want to get as close to that as you can, be a crossdresser dominatrix. Theres a genuine market for it. or just a regular male dominator. You'll drive little femboys fucking nuts, brah. especially if you have muscles to back you up

Came out to my group of friends I see weekly
I knew it would be chill it just seemed like a bigger deal to tell them than the people I don't see that often
The one dude was even like "I'm sorry I'll stop making gay jokes"
Told him I appreciate the sentiment but I'm not a bitch
Being a bi man is this weird mix of low level stigma constantly surrounding you but then very upfront chillness when open. I know it's never been a big deal I just held onto it for so long when I never needed to

>>41393481
Well basically I don't tick any of the trans boxes and this one thing is like the one "piece" of "evidence" that has kept me trapped in obsession loops for like 5 years. It's not like I can say I'm not into the idea of a woman dominating a man. Hell maybe I'd try being that man at some point, who knows.

But yeah idk I've been stuck for ages. There's a magic mushroom clinic that just opened in my city unironically I think about going there and like unfucking my mind by rewiring my obsessions. I was going to get that TMS magnet stimulus but they said I should try more drugs first and now I'm waiting for this new tablet on to reach full strength. I don't feel anything different atm and I can still obviously spiral a bit.

I often wish I had no fetishes and was entirely gay or straight so that this would all be simpler in my head.

Shit sucks man, don't have OCD and don't let it loop forever like me. I've wasted half a decade of my life waiting for it to get better and basically not moving forward with much.

TLDR: I've been worried it's gender Dysphoria even though everyone says it's not and I can't escape the feeling that it is.

>>41393524
if you only feel gender dysphoria during sexual moments, its not gender dysphoria at all. you're just horny. when you start feeling it in everyday moments, then you can consider it harder

>>41393520
I find people being (ironically) homophobic pretty funny ngl. Especially shit like the whole "throwing rocks at twinks" thing.

>>41393536
Idk even know if it's really Dysphoria desu. It's just anxiety over the fact I MIGHT be trans and have to upend my whole life and identity because I think a woman dominating a man is pretty hot even though I often consider myself to be wanting to be the dominant party during sex.

Otherwise in day to day life I don't really think about women much. I mean some can be cute but I don't see a hot woman and desire to be her. In all my straight fantasies I'm the dominant party I guess, so they don't cause me much anxiety.

>>41393562
hmm, i see i see
anxiety on your level sounds like a bitch, man. i feel for you
but do yourself a favor and dont go trans. it will ruin your life even worse than it seemingly already is

>>41393569
Yeah not planning on it.

If I was to identify the absolute kernel of fear behind my obsession it'd be the idea that I am just unable to live happily in my own body and love myself as I am.

Before all this I never ever questioned my gender and since it began about five years ago it's been misery ever since...

Anyway maybe if I get a cute bf I'll be cured or something.

>>41393999
well if you're really curious, try sleeping around a bit, if you're comfortable with that. you'll learn right quick what you like and dont like that way

>>41394114
I'm a 26 year old virgin held back by the fact I'm very mentally ill and I don't really know how to approach people. Sad part is people say I look pretty good but I just feel like my life is slipping away rapidly and I'm already passed what was meant to be my fun years due to my awful illness...

>>41394179
when it comes to gay dudes, you dont really need to approach people. just go on a dating app and post some pics of yourself that look at least like 5% flattering. i guarantee you can get a guy who would want to fuck you within 30 minutes on grindr. less than that if you're good looking, as you say.
I recommend not doing anything without protection. Dont listen to the sex addicts around here who'll tell you to raw dog it. oral is safe basically always, unless you have an open bloodstream in your mouth, such as a cut in your mouth. Do condom-only for buttstuff. its not worth it getting a life altering std for some mediocre dick.
Also, when talking with others about this stuff, just be open. Guys go crazy for first timers and they'll be very gentle. just make sure its not someone you arent attracted to. dont let your hornyness lower your standards
if you're REALLY REALLY picky and want it to be special, get a prostitute. male prostitutes are often cheaper than female ones by a pretty good margin. but yeah, its pretty unnecessary considering how most gay men are literally throwing themselves at each other trying to get fucked constantly

>>41394234
Idk that just seems really sad and seedy. I sort of want a partner not just a fuck buddy. I would date a chick too.

As for my OCD, idk I'm terrified I'd trans out and ruin any relationship with someone as well as my own life, but I don't want to live in fear anymore. I need to live life. I just wish I wasn't into BDSM and shit, stupid fetish that's caused me no end of mental confusion regarding this obsession.

>>41394279
yeah its seedy as shit and i hate it. but it can be good for understanding if your situation is something you actually want. real gay relationships are very, very difficult

>>41394285
My situation?

>>41394291
well wanting to dominate other dudes. sometimes a fantasy is only good as a fantasy, not in real life

>>41394294
I guess I'd be really into dominating other dudes. But I'm worried I'm actually trans while doing it lmao.

Anyway sorry for spering out. I sometimes think here is where I'll get some no bullshit replies from other bi guys.

Honestly I've got to stop fapping and ESPECIALLY stop using ai generated Gooner material. It's just so bad for me.

The world needs more cute men.

>>41395454
Agree highly.

Especially a cute guy with a nice firm tummy that's sensitive to touch.

>biggest lgbt subgroup
>deadest /lgbt/ gen
Explain

>>41396945
Most of them are out there living their best lives instead of being on here

>>41396945
All the cool people left

>>41396945
This has been brought up many times before and the answer is still the same: all the other gens are filled with drama and sperglords, which obviously brings more traffic.

>>41399101
That doesn't explain at all why this thread isn't active lol

>>41399294
The same groups of people (usually tripfags) arguing with each other day in and day out about stupid shit is activity. Bigen has little of that and are, on average, far less histrionic than troons.

>>41399464
>the reason this thread is dead is because other threads are more active
This gen used to be one of the cosiest

bump

Not to harp on about stuff and this is the last question I'll ask on the topic, but do you guys often "visualise" yourself during fantasies? I find mentally I'm always focusing on the object of my desire (man or woman) and I worry it's because I hate my body or something.

Also how do you even approach people (especially men) and inquire if they are interested without coming across as a rapist stalker?

>>41403736
If you're on meds already, you need to be on stronger meds

>>41404245
I'm trying different meds right now and I think they help but not enough :(

whats up bigen

don't say my cock

>>41405924
the plug in my butt

>>41405955
based

ive recently caved and bought a dildo to prove to myself im gay. was kinda expensive actually. maybe should have just done what i did last time and used a banana

>>41405997
how much is an expensive dildo, i got a pretty nice 8" one for $50 aud

>>41406043
Are you in Aus? Can we be bfs :3

>>41406068
i am in malbourne

>>41406115
My condolences (Brizzy)

>>41406143
i think i should be the one giving condolences

>>41406152
Yeah there's a lot of crack heads at queen Street mall. I got attacked by one out of nowhere last week.

>>41406170
if the junkies here start shouting at me i just shout at them in return

>>41406220
Fair. It's just really sad, I do look at poor sods and realise that despite my issues I'm pretty lucky. Anyway Brisbane sucks because there a minimal cute boys around...

>>41394953
>Generated gooner material
Please get away from ai.
>>41405924
I hate mondays
>Whats up
Dog

>>41405924
Trying to prevent cascading problems at AWS lol

>>41407108
Couldn't work for a few hours today thanks to you guys. Very cool.

>>41407194
Blame/thank the EC2 guys lol
Just making sure our service doesn't collapse now

>>41407100
Yeah I'm trying to abstain and just use my imagination atm...

>>41406043
no im just a kike it was like $25
but then also lube and an enema bulb and shipping and it was almost $60 altogether

>>41407100
what's updog?

>>41407108
oh shit you work at AWS? what happened lmao

>>41408950
>oh shit you work at AWS? what happened lmao
Honestly not 100% sure, just trying to fix my team's shit. But all of our internal resources use AWS.