Fuck my t4t life. This dating pool is hell. I want a boyfriend so bad. I dont fuck with cis ppl my cope is another trans person could never be capable of inflicting tangible harm on me. I need a guy to kiss so bad. Im poly and actually drowning in women but i also want a boyfriend!! The only ones that fuck with me say theyre asexual but only talk about sex. Can we start crowd funding these guys dicks please?More importantly how actually do i meet the men thatre ready to date?? Where are they??? How do i find you???? These apps are horrible. I live in a city it shouldnt be this hard
>>41328250i dunno anon. if you figure it out please let me know. every one thats been interested in me has been uninterested or unable to have an ltr. that said, my dating pool isnt totally grim since i do like some women. but i still prefer men.any guys in replies hmuim gonna take drugs to distract myself from my thoughts hold on
>>41328250I get sad during sex because I don't get the whole experience of penetrating a cute girl desu I am an aap loser this is why we are all asexual raging incels.
>>41328396This is my strat as well my gf buys me pre rolls ive been unemployed for 4 years due to disability. There maybe be things related here.>>41328422The asexual does read as a cope sometimes lmao. Like idk looks like dysphoria vortex to me. Im convinced i could fix at least one guy by sucking him off everday is that bad?
>>41328464I think 3 out of the 10 times I've gotten head I've been hard enough to enjoy it and have it really click in my mind otherwise I just feel kind of bored and angry even tho it was my dream to have otherworldly girls worship my body I think some plastic surgery would help. I gained good muscle but it doesn't scratch the bottom dysphoria itch.
>>41328520Thats so rough and i get it. I actually cant finish while topping because the only way is some form of dessociation despite liking it. Silver lining i can go for hours if i want
>>41328396I want you.
>>41328530so many of my ftm friends chose d/mdlb or nullification fetishes so they can live in headspace and feel as good as possible. chasers do it to me automatically and it kind of disarms me but I wish I could fuck like the alpha because I put a lot of time and effort into masculinization just to be reminded that doesn't cure autism.
>>41328565>so many of my ftm friends chose d/mdlbim ngl i get so sad when men are into mommy dom especially trans men come on guys you can be manly cant you be into like raping and beating women and being their big brothers?>>41328555whats your discord? are you hot also where do you live (roughly)
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>>41328576id onamonapia aggressive deer noises cause im a deer girl but i dunno how to make "EEEH!" sound intimidating.EEH! EEEE! EEH!!HH EEH!!also im a little high rn but not totally fucked rn im mostly good but ill update you guys as it goes along
>>4132857518, west coast, i look fine but not masculine at all lmfao
>>41328601add me princess_womb sorry if i act weird
>>41328565Mommying a guy sounds so actually unappealing but also ik if a guy i was already close with wanted that from me id crumble.
>>41328612it'd be a decent trick to getting a sexually active boyfriend if you don't mind him being a mindless creature. I'm sorry you keep running into hypersexual asexual boys.what type of boy are you looking for if you can't finish while topping?
My best friend on and off situationship of going on 3 years said he missed me and sent me a sketch journal he did about his feelings on seeing me again. So now my lock scresn is the lead dog and the conflict hound. Its so fucking over
>>41328638I want a guy who will take me places and hold my hand and get me flowers on my birthday. The bars so low im really flexible on the other stuff
>>41328654wow, in 2016 I tried to do this to girls my age but got rejected for being ftm. I guess the dating pool is full of tragic shit but maybe that's the nature of the beast? a lot of us never learned or are never ready to date but just end up in front of things.I hope you find a boy who's upfront and active and still sweet, I don't know what it's like for you I live in the middle of nowhere. I find people local online at random.
>>41328736I cant understand not liking these things. It feels nicies. Half the problem is dont actually know how to find ppl to date. The other half the problem is im a mentaly ill artist with a bad personality whose only real value besides being wonderful is i lucked out being hot. So when i do meet someone acting interested its probably some guy whose gonna try and corner me later asking if im ts.
>>41328802I think you might be stuck waiting for online stranger then. idk how your poly would interact with that because it might take years. and I spent years because I want a mono dynamic dreamie. I'm a mentally ill artist and I ruined my past dates by getting high and drawing vore and how much time that takes up. I feel inapplicable to the sort of relationship anyone wants.
>>41328250Most straight trans men won't date trans women bc they're ex-lesbians and addicted to pussy. I don't agree with it, but it's how they are. You need to find a bi trans guy if you want literally ANYTHING decent.
>>41328601>>41328606I always forget that the women typing this shit on here are like 20. Fuck my retarded boomer life
>>41328422Just get jacked and get a strap on retard. That’s my plan. I will fuck a cute girl one way or another
>>41328250>>41328464I like everything about the sounds of this except for the part where I don't trust myself to be emotionally mature enough for any kind of poly scenario, especially one involving 1+ hot women
>im polyfound your issue
>>41330696This actually. It limits my dating pool so much. I wish i was mono tho desu. But besides my gf not touching me shes pretty cool. But ik im also too insane to have just one person bear the brunt of my attentions>>41330518I got this vibe desu. I didnt want it to be real >>41330658I slipped into poly it was something i didnt really think about. The trick is to find ppl who are willing to talk about things even when the convos gonna suck
I think my only hope is to date a butch lesbian and gamble i get the one thats about to expload. Maybe my influence will courrpt him into the cockroach man of my dreams. Thanks for the input anons
>>41328250>this dating pool is shit>also im poly burn down ur house and complain that youre homeless type of shit
>>41331864Ok but if i did burn my house down i would complain about itI help strangers then also complain about having to do itAlso its not my fault, an entire polycule of eight people, descended upon me with crimson wings as soon as I came out ~xoxo gothstacy
>>41328250You ugly?
>>41333040I wish i was sometimes(i dont). I think im average but ppl fall for me alot~gothstacy
>>41333134If you aren't ugly, getting a man won't be hard
>>41333246Im aware i could have a man in my house within the hour. but im more concerned about wasting my time on an abuser playing the long game or wont introduce me to his friends after months. Which is why im on t4t stuff~Gothstacy
>>41333417Be happy with the t4t stuff then.Problem solved.
>>41333452Yeah but where do i find the t4t guys. That was the thread. Im so cool with dating trans men but they im losing hope theres any thatre emotionally avalible. i know they exist but idk how to meet them. I need to find them~gothstacy
>>41333588does your polycule live together or are you e-dating
>>41334477I dont have a polycule. I have a gf and we live seperateey. We date individually and its been a chill arangement so far, but she doesnt have much time with me. I can do w/e as long as i give a heads up. Tried dating apps and going to bars/block parties. I only attract creeps or guys who're barely keeping it togeather. Im open to doing alot im trying to be more adventurous. ~Gothstacy
Date older men, obviously. Just don't fall into the trap of expecting a married man to leave his wife for you. You either date a single guy or you accept forever being his side piece.
