>have nothing in common with trans women culturally, in terms of hobbies or desires>can't even relate to cis women except the rare really really weird ones>don't really have anything in common with men either Am I even a person? I feel identifying with anything other than "low-value weird male" would be ridiculous.
>>41330878Being trans woman and not feeling like a women, trans, or even identifying with the is a modern and made up problem. The same goes for being a trans man and not being or feeling like a man. You got what you asked for, you in the collective sense, but now you can do and define yourself any way you like. That does not mean you will connect with or relate to other people though. The opposite effect happens where now you can't relate to them, but that's what you asked for, so you are complaining you got what you asked for. Who's fault is that?
what does a trans woman feel like and how would you know when you are really feeling like a trans woman instead of some other type of person you dont even realize exists maybe
>>41330878same I kinda just exist as this weird halfway thing that gets along better with men but they all very clearly treat me as some weird other "male". women are fine around me but very clearly want nothing to do with me aside from like one or two weird female friends I have but at the end of the day still treat me like a man. im worried it's just because I'm some ugly manmoder who's visibility trans so no one really knows what to make of me.
>>41330910I think you're trying to assign the blame to me and my decision to troon out but even prior to transitioning I felt alienated. Frankly not much changed except my appearance and comfortability with it. >>41330919You can observe MtFs and see them express themselves both online and IRL constantly, and I'm just nothing like that. >>41330949I don't even have any friends.
>>41330878what are your hobbies and desires anon?
>>41330967I like cooking, baking, reading novels, writing, JRPGs, romance manga, collecting anime figs, and that's about it.
>>41330976i can't tell you how painfully normal and nerdy your hobbies aremaybe you're just too locked up in your own mind
>>41330988Only the cooking and baking seems fairly normal and even then it hasn't netted me any friends.
>>41330959>You can observe MtFs and see them express themselves both online and IRL constantly, and I'm just nothing like that.But the MtFs I observe display contradictory patterns of behavior. How do I know which ones are the trans women and which ones are something else?
>>41330959No, I am not assigning blame, but the blame is and was always yours. If there is anything like blame at all, rather than cause, you made a choice, and choice makers are responsible for the consequences of those choices, rather than blamed. You are just trying to remove your sense of agency from the choices you make, because that would displace the responsibility of your choices, which you recast as blame and victimhood.It isn't even an argument or an assumption anyone could hold that transition was going to thrust you into a new social world or change who you are on a fundamental level. If you are honest, not even you believed that. So the idea that you have anything to complain about, and what is worse, direct that complain at an LGBT community is patently absurd.
>>41331000You can't, but that's because trans-identification has skyrocketed, and genuine trans people are now a vilified minority in the trans community and called transmedicalists. That doesn't mean they don't exist, like pissing in a nearly empty pond to fill it up doesn't mean there isn't genuine pond water mixed in somewhere. You just can't see it anymore because you fucked up the situation.
>>41330994try vollyball
>>41330878Have you ever considered you might not be a trans woman? I spent 8 years transitioning and got surgeries before I realized I was a cis man You should try meditation
>>41331005You seem to not understand that this disconnect existed before I made the choice to take drugs. I didn't consciously choose to do anything, just existed as normal, and was still traumatized and ostracized by my peers as a kid because I was erroneously perceived as gay. >>41331052I don't like sports or get the point. >>41331082Yes, I think "exclusively meta-attracted AGP cis femboy" best describes me. I've also had surgery. But that doesn't really change anything, I can't relate to anyone anyway.
>>41331031Did you know transmedicalists are the mtf trannies that are most likely to detransition?
>>41330959being in college and surrounded by people my age is like the only reason I have friends.
>>41331213Idk, so am I and I still haven't made any in 15 years. We're fundamentally different.
>>41331127Do you have a diaper or age regression fetish
>>41330878Same except I dont view myself as a low value weird male. I just view myself as a creature that does not belong in this world
>>41331301>have nothing in common with trans women culturally, in terms of hobbies or desiresI just said thatNo, I'm just a manchild.
>>41331155Source: I made it up
>>41331031I feel like if it was a real thing I should be able to tell so you are telling me transgenderism is not a real discrete thing which was my true belief all along
>>41330878I'm literally just transitioning because I'm a massive anomaly (height, frame, hip to waist ratio, ect) to the point where some people have asked if i'm intersex. Even if i end up aging into a cutehon i can't imagine it being any worse than the alternative.
>>41330967playing piano/guitar, weird /mu/ music taste(Freak Folk, Electroacoustic, Berlin School, Noise Rock, American Primitivism), knowing too much about tea and certain post modern authors.
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>>41330878>low value weird male>nothing in common with tranniesackshually
>>41334552MtFs are women, I'm not, I don't like the things trannies like. Smartass.
>>41330976>>41330878>>41331223are you me
