what was the gender and sexuality of your friend that committed suicide
>>41413599I have never known anybody personally who committed suicide, but my mom knew one guy in her home country (Soviet Union) who jumped off his apartment building because his gf broke up with him
>>41413599Straight male. He shot himself over losing a girl.
>>41413599i have a friend who attempted but thats it. straight male afaik but theres a very real chance hes gay (or god forbid, a repper)
>>41416589>>41416561>>41416338This is disgustingWhy is the male suicide rate so highAnd nobody talks about thisFuck this world Rip to all
>>41416605>Why is the male suicide rate so highMen don't get support from anybody in society they are just left alone to rot or take care of themselves. They also have very few people who will ever care about them besides their parents and maybe siblings.For many men a breakup means they lose their entire world and happiness but for a woman it's just another tuesday and they can get a new constant supply of dick the following week
>>41416605>>41416642ok no more incel circlejerking time for bed you two
>>41416648Anon you wouldn’t get itI’m sorry but like they are literally all guysI’m not ignoring the issue
>>41416667i said bed. NOW.
>>41416648I just pretend to be an incel online even though i'm a sub gay bottom because i'm bored and i have trauma
>>41416683I need my good night kisses first!!!!>>41416685Yeah I pretend aswell hahaha
>>41416605Man, what the fuck is anyone supposed to do for most men? Genuinely? I have tried to help other guys out of their ruts, only a few ever took me up on the help. They won't go out for a saturday drink that I will pay for, they won't text back when I do check-ins, they won't do shit. I fucking hate the state of things but a lot of it is our own faults.
I've been in and out of group therapy for people with extreme emotional dysregulation a few times, and even after I rotated out there are some people I very strongly suspect killed themselves but lost contact with. One was an ex-convict gay man with two prior sex offences that involved teen guys, he was an extremely cynical hedonistic atheist who had near zero understanding of moral abstractions outside of pain and pleasure but deep down I think he really did feel guilt over what he did. The other was an intelligent but very death seeking bisexual cis woman who tried sticking to Buddhism devoutly but had real problems with drug usage and just couldn't stop cheating on her partners. She would randomly do shit like accelerate into incoming traffic all the time... also she was raped a lot. The third wasn't in the same therapy as me but met through friends was a younger queer indigenous man with gender difficulties and some severe physical and sexual trauma I didn't know the full extent of. I wasn't particularly close enough to any of them to be able to save their lives (and it's usually a long spiral of decline up to that point) but I still think about them sometimes. Like I didn't do enough or how they might have healed. I don't know. There was someone else I spoke to here who apparently wanted to kill himself for being French Canadian but said that reason was so cringe he just wanted people to believe his suicide was over being ftm. I should have asked for his discord. I know people will probably make mean jokes but I wish I could hug people like that, people with "dumb" reasons for being upset. It's alienating.
he changed his gender identity many times since id met him. at first he was ftm and the last time i saw him he was genderfluid, he had always been confortable with male pronouns so thats what i will use.iirc he was bisexual but mostly prefered female.he was a big fan of omori, i should have told him when i finally finished the game, instead i didnt and in a few days i would have never be able to do it. ill let you guess the way he did it
>>41417090Please don't beat yourself up for not telling them :/ all the other moments mattered I'm sure