I want to go to a therapist to talk to about my AGP/AGAMP or whatever the fuck I have so I can figure out if I should transition out or not, but I'm paranoid that they're going to either be some gigawoke that tells me to do it without much consideration or a conservative that just dismisses it all.
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>>41414674Any modern therapist who isn't a shithead is going to tell you agp stuff is internalized transphonia and all you have to do is actually explore by DOING things. Overcoming those ideas will be part of it but most importantly express your gender wishes by going through with them step by step and see how you harmonize with it. How it makes you feel will be talked about.There should be lists of gender therapists online. Most countries should have lists made by patients about which therapists are trust worthy. If you dont know where to ask reach out on reddit or check local trans discord servers or even telegram groups.
>>41414674AGP isn't real, so I'm sorry to say anon that the goal in therapy is going to be helping you get past this weird internet-poison hangup you have so you can transition.
>>41418125AGP is real, I masturbate to the fantasies of being a woman every day.
>>41414674Nta but, how can I find a therapist if I'm trans (and in a place where it's really not trendy to, think deep south for an idea) but I want to talk about non-trans related issues such as fucked up childhoods, even more fucked relationships and general misery with the aim of me finally stepping out of and over all that shit and becoming more productive?
>>41418125>>41418061I don't doubt that there's probably something deeper than just a fetish I have, but at the moment I don't really have dysmorphia that's bad enough for me to immediately want to get on HRT>>41418678This feels like something most therapists would do, are you worried that you being trans is going to affect your interactions with them somehow?
>>41414674The first step is to accept that AGP/AGAMP is the nature of transexuality and your feminine desires are not purely sexual in nature. The second is to find literally any millennial therapist and be up front and honest about your problems
>>41414674Don't just seek therapist.Be the rapist.
>>41421070>I don't really have dysmorphia that's bad enough for me to immediately want to get on HRTIf youre still young it will come, I felt the same way when I was younger, thought I could ignore it and go about my life. Now more than ever I wish I had started when I was 18 and if possible even younger. Theres no better time than now, if youre young theres still plenty of time to stop if you determine its not for you
>>41414674I'll save you some money>Are you looking for someone to confirm your suspicions that you're a troon>Are you looking for someone to tell you "No don't go down this path">Are you looking for someone who will listen to all of your cope about why you shouldn't troon, to then, despite all the "evidence" you've racked up to deny that you're "tru trans". Someone who is resistant or neutral or uninformed to the idea of transness in the first place to listen to all of that, then still tell you you're trans and it's ok to transition? >Or the opposite of the above>Or is this a means of putting off a scary decision because you're too afraid to trust your gut either wayBasically anon, definitely question why you're looking for outside input and permission to pursue or not pursue this. Unfortunately, even with therapy. The answer is to go inwards. You are the only person who gets to decide what you want to do with yourself. Ideally.But yeah therapy, definitely a good idea. But it's not going to do jack shit without introspection. Here's some advice. Every time you come to this website. To look for outside input. Open up a notes app instead. And start journalling your thoughts. Not for an audience who will give you some response one way or another. But for yourself. You can start developing a sense of trust in yourself and your decision making now. I can't tell you what to do either way. It's your decision. Go get some therapist absolutely. But also start doing self inquiry. And remember. This website is a place for maladaptive reassurance seeking. Every time you come here for advice you're training the neural pathways in your brain to stop trusting your own judgement. Take care anon
>>41421270I'm 23, first started thinking about it a few years ago and repped thinking it'd be better to just live a normal life but now I'm getting worried about a John 50 scenario. >>41421664Thank you for the advice. I've already been thinking it over in my head for a while but it's been a mess of what-ifs. I was hoping to go to get an objective and neutral POV to help sort through my feelings. Would you say there's any worthwhile places online to get advice or would it just be better to stick to IRL interactions?
