been on hrt for a month after realizing that repping as a cis fag was not working, and it's quickly dawned on me that my potential dating pool is literally 0. Like no straight man is gonna want to date me, gay men won't want to, bi guys will probably just see me as a dude which I don't want. chasers want trannies who at least sort of look like women, and I, at best, look like a stereotypical boymoder. And even boymoder and gamp chasers still want someone who has been on hrt for a while. Is there any hope to me or do I have to wait ANOTHER year to lose my virginity.
>>41414759sex is mid nona
>>41414778i dont just want sex tho i want a bf i can cuddle with and watch tv and make out with an stuff
>>41414759>it's quickly dawned on me that my potential dating pool is literally 0>bi guys will probably just see me as a dude which I don't wantso it's not literally 0 you're just convincing yourself to be unhappy for no reason
>>41414759>chasers want trannies who at least sort of look like womenpeople don't often accuse you of being smart do they
>>41414794idk i just remember when I was with my ex and identified as cism bi at the time, I was initially really put off by him being trans at first even tho he passed welltho in fairness to him, a lot of that was because I was scared that dating a tranny would invite "transness" back into my life after I chose to repress. And I guess that fear wasn't unfounded cuz here I am eight months later, a tranny
>>41414831I'm autistic with a special interest in grammar and spelling so yeah but that's because where I live people are stupid and can't talk good
>>41414759nobody is gonna see you as a woman right now and you need to accept thatyour best bet is dating a bi mtf (they have 0 standards) or settle with a bi dude
>>41414759you can just date a bi cis girl and let her pinkpill you. or sissymax and get a bf that forces you to wear lingerie at home
>>41414917I'm an androphile
>>41414832ngl it sounds like you got some shit to figure out before you go trying to date someone. if you just wanna get plapped download grindr, men on there will fuck anything. otherwise chill out, sex is still going to exist a year from now you aren't missing anything
>>41414933>OR SISSYMAX AND GET A BF THAT FORCES YOU TO WEAR LINGERIE AT HOME
>>41414939in truth sex isnt rlly what I'm after I just want someone to cuddle and watch movies with andwho treats me special. like seriously I feel pretty alone and abandoned by most ppl in my life and i feel like my mental state would be much improved
just become gynephilic and date one of those weird TERFs obsessed with fucking trans girls
>>41414985how old are you
>>41414987>one of those weird TERFs obsessed with fucking trans girlswhere can I find them?
>>4141498919, I'm in college and all my friends are too busy to hang out, and people have told me I'm kind of draining to be around for too long so people don't want to hang out with me all that much anyways
>>41415015join a club. college is full of them. also leads to dating if you play cards right
>>41415015i mean maybe you're just an annoying piece of shit and you should stop being an annoying piece of shit and then people would wanna hang out with you
>>41415034I've been in a club for the past year, it's how I met most of my friends. It's just they're all too busy to do shit outside of the club. Only one that isn't is the club's VP who's a trans girl that's like nine years older than me and who I'm like 50% confident is/was trying to fuck me.
>>41414759>for the next yearyeahhhhhh, it's a biiiit longer than that>>41414786>i want a bf i can cuddle with and watch tv and make out with an stuffme too nona :(
>>41415052if your club has a tranny VP you are playing easy mode. that means trans are just accepted and you can fit in. plus she wants to fuck you. I lost my sympathy you're not a go getter. go fuck her brains out.
>>41414759its def possible, I usually boymode in daily life and have barcode arms like OP image but I have a cool bf, I'd rate myself just above average but am kinda chopped in some areas, I just always self-care and try improve my physique and girlmode whenever hes around or when we go out
>>41415052if you're a fag in college and you can't get laid it's legitimately a skill issue
>>41415069its a magic the gathering club so its rlly not surprising that there are trannies. as for if she wants to fuck me, I'm not confident enough to shoot my shot but like what got me to think she was trying to was that when I went over to her apartment the first thing she asked me to do once I got inside was to take off my jeans because she didn't want the denim to ruin her couch. I have never had anyone ask me to remove my pants ever, but she's also giga autistic so part of me thinks that's just her being autistic. other thing was she described how one of her exes met her and the way she described who her ex was was a lot like how I am. They broke up for logistical reasons, not due to a falling out afaik.
>>41415069also idrk if i find her attractive or if i just like getting attention from people and she's legit my only friend that hasn't been too busy to hang out
>>41415074ok but how long have you been on hrt
>>41415103holy fuck you autistic ass nigga. if a tranny told you to strip your pants in her goddamn apartment she was trying to FUCK. this is so RETARDED I cannot believe you. you think jeans on a couch is bad? who the fuck thinks this. you go fucking call her right now to go out and every goddamn day you find some way to kill some time until she is wearing jeans. then on the day she wears jeans (you wear jeans every day) ask if she can show you some card moves at her place. then when she goes there the both of you stupid ass niggas get your pants OFF and sit your UNDERWEAR asses on that couch and get cozy before one of you gets FUCKED. good fucking lord.
>>41415103>someone asked me to take my pants off but i don't think they want to fuck meholy shit you may actually be retarded. like actually retarded to a medically significant degree. how did you even make it this far in life being this profoundly stupid?
>>41415103>be me>have undiagnosed nervous issue>sensitive to heat, causes full body itches>scratching doesn't help, basically like fire ants swarming my body>really bad day today, low sleep and paged like crazy (AWS outage)>itchy all goddamn day, struggling to make it through>end of work day, draw a nice warm bath, rest my nerves>finally find some relief>decide to get on my desktop for some late night browsing>read this very post>literally made my blood boil and gave me an itchy nervous breakdown
>>41415155up until about six months ago when I started starving myself I was a literal landwhale if that info helps put into perspective somewhat why I'm like this
>>41414759It’s the same for me I just look like a twink
>>41414759im the same as u nona but i just look like a faggy moid rather than boymoder.pnghavent even like held hands or kissed someone on the cheek romantically everyone i ever talk to ghosts me within 2 weeks
>>41414759whoever told you this is wrong. i was worried about the same thing but dating has actually been pretty easy and normal.t. 6'2" straight trans woman 2 years HRT
>>41414786god this is so real i need to be touched so bad. i need a guy who is nice and caring and wants to kiss and cuddle me ill give him the most freaky sex ever if he wants it idk ill do anything
>>41415103how RETARDED do you have to be to have someone ask you to take your pants off not take the hint and then be mad no one wants to fuck you
>>41415218well you see, nona, I have only been on hrt for a month and nobody wants to date a faggot whose dick is actively shrinking and body is reshaping and doing all kinds of weird puberty shit, and I think that makes a difference
>>41415231you cute? wya?
>>41415279i am fairly cute ive heard but im in a similar boat to OP. 1 year hrt boymoder. chicago area
>>41415283im not too far. any pics? how tall are you?
>>41415362im 5’10 and 130lbs what about u
>>41415362don’t mind sending pics but over discord if ur down. also im brown if thats a dealbreaker lol
>>41415390>>41415403tall and burlydrop your disc, depends on how brown
>>41415421pretty brown. you’ll see momentarily. discord is s_priv0216
>some brown nigga is getting game on OP's thread whining about not getting game despite trannies throwing themselves at him
>>41415479as a newcomer ive honestly been shocked at how easy hook ups seem on this boardall this time ive wanted man-ass but with more anonymity than the apps and it was this easy the whole time
>>41414759dw loony troon pills will kill your sex drive
>>41415479I really should just kms shouldn't I
>>41415588they already kind of have but I still want a man to call my own
>>41415699you've got it in reverse, the man owns you
>>41415755desu I'll take it at this point. like ik everyone here is clowning on me for not trying to fuck my friend but I'm not a transbian so idk if I would even want to pursue that even if my friend is dtf, so I'm desperate for a man to give me attention ngl.
>>41414759lmao you shouldn't even be dating that early in transition chill outgo make some friends or something
>>41415794what if ive been on hrt for a year and im at the exact same point in my transition
>>41415794i'd say this too but then i keep finding out abt people who literally get gfs/bfs before even starting e and i wonder how that shit is even possibleaka i need to kms but still I can't comprehend the fucking social logistics of ts
>>41415816I just feel like rushing into a relationship when you aren't happy with yourself yet is generally a mistake. You want to end up with someone you actually love for who they are as a person (and who loves you for the person you actually want to be), not just somebody who was convenient to patch a temporary hole in your life or give you validation. I didn't even have my first kiss until I was like 4 1/2 years hrt, and given that I'm still happily together with him almost 3yrs later I think I'm better off. >>41416021>people who literally get gfs/bfs before even starting e and i wonder how that shit is even possiblelol I've literally never seen that last except for a couple instances where they were legitimately like childhood friend-soulmates. There are more than enough BPD breakup nightmare stories from people like that who rushed into it posted all the time if you want to stop feeling jealous.
>>41416138>I just feel like rushing into a relationship when you aren't happy with yourself yet is generally a mistakewhat if it's impossible for me to be happy with myself? should i just be alone forever, for other people's sake?
>>41414831good file name nona
>>41414759I want to feel her self-harm scars and force her close to me.I want her to recount the sting as she digs her nails into my thighs.
>>41414759>do I have to wait ANOTHER year to lose my virginitywait till you find someone you love to give your virginity to, dont just throw away your first time with some bum who wants to use you
>>41416934I really doubt that it is anon, and you're still pretty early in transition so relax. Not jumping into a relationship you aren't ready for is just as much for your own sake.
>>41414759no youre wrong and dumb. peoples sexualities are way more nuanced and complicated than you think. i literally had a chaser cis girlfriend when i was pre-hrt who saw me as a woman and treated me as a woman and wanted me like hell and was always encouraging me to wear makeup and telling me to stop thinking so lowly of my self and my womanhood. i miss her pussy ngl
>>41414759if gay men dont want you how come you think the bi guys will see you as a man.
so what happened after you took your pants off?
>>41419498she took off her denim skirt and started grinding on me in her thong. I didn't really understand and asked her if she was okay. she said her hips were itchy and asked me if I could rub them with my hands, so I did. I asked her if it helped and she said yeah, but now her knees are feeling weak, so she knelt down. it was all pretty weird to me. she didn't want to be talking to me while facing the other direction, so she turned around. suddenly she had an unusual thought and her jaw dropped as she stared back at me, but she was kneeling down so she was just looking at my boxers for some reason. she said her head was itchy and put my hand on her scalp to massage it for her as she stayed kneeling there. after about five minutes of her pretending to blow bubble gum while making popping sounds I figured this was weird and put my pants on and left.
