/lgbt/ - Am I gay? I've only ever been romantically attract - Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, & Transgender

Anonymous

10/21/25(Tue)04:15:26 No.41417536

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Anonymous 10/21/25(Tue)04:15:26 No.41417536 Archived

Am I gay? I've only ever been romantically attracted to men, but I have a much easier time jacking off to straight porn, but it needs to be said that since I've been doing hardcore gooning and edging sessions for the past 6 or 7 years, I've gotten totally desensitized to the point that nothing excites me, and I feel like I'm doing it out of habit, I also started questioning this gay stuff in the same time period so I don't really know if I'd be super into gay porn if I wasn't desensitized, how do I determine it? I just can't have any romantic feelings whatsoever for women no matter how hard I try, but they come naturally for guys I like.
>inb4 get on grinder and test it out
No, I'm saving myself for marriage, and whilst on the topic, are gays really promiscuous?

Anonymous
10/21/25(Tue)04:19:49 No.41417555

Anonymous 10/21/25(Tue)04:19:49 No.41417555

>>41417536
Stop porn for 2 months and see what happens. Porn is bad for you anyway

Anonymous
10/21/25(Tue)05:36:22 No.41417931

Anonymous 10/21/25(Tue)05:36:22 No.41417931

>>41417536
idk a lot of gay porn is just kind of bad
>are gays really promiscuous?
some of us are avoidant autistics

Anonymous
10/21/25(Tue)09:27:43 No.41418859

Anonymous 10/21/25(Tue)09:27:43 No.41418859

>>41417536
>for the past 6 or 7 years
say that again

Anonymous
10/21/25(Tue)09:29:22 No.41418867

Anonymous 10/21/25(Tue)09:29:22 No.41418867

most people are bi. but also, gay porn is profoundly disgusting and considering how gross 95% of straight porn is, that's something

Anonymous
10/21/25(Tue)09:31:09 No.41418885

Anonymous 10/21/25(Tue)09:31:09 No.41418885

a lot of men are genuinely homoromantic heterosexuals and this makes it so that they'll literally never be able to have a normal relationship with any woman, and most of them will never be able to figure out why.

Anonymous
10/21/25(Tue)09:33:12 No.41418900

Anonymous 10/21/25(Tue)09:33:12 No.41418900

>>41418885
>homoromantic heterosexuals
what is this 2013 tumblr? if "homoromantic heterosexuals" are a thing then so are "heteroromantic homosexuals" but if anyone said they were that they'd be accused of having a cope and mald delulu beard fantasy

Anonymous
10/21/25(Tue)09:48:40 No.41419005

Anonymous 10/21/25(Tue)09:48:40 No.41419005

>>41418900
>heteroromantic homosexuals
Thats all women
>>41418885
Its possible to find women who have masculine character so its not so bad

Anonymous
10/21/25(Tue)12:18:15 No.41420060

Anonymous 10/21/25(Tue)12:18:15 No.41420060

this is me but it attraction to women goes away after not watching porn for like 2 weeks and im back to being a man loving bottom. I think its the testosterone desu - I was on HRT for two years 16-18 then took a steroid dose of testosterone for a year. I was gay since I was a preeteen, never attracted to women sexually before testosterone, but when I started taking test I began to goon to str8 porn hours a day, genuinely so attracted to women. It really freaked me out I was in love (lust) for the pussy, but could never see myself in a relationship with a woman. Stop watching porn, you'll figure out who you really are.