>>41431010
it's weird, but it's not wrong if the love is genuine

>>41431010
as always, its ok if youre hot

serious answer no, what do you possibly get out of such an age gap

double serious answer, post better bait pls

>>41431023
I think it is.

>>41431032
It's not bait, I really like him. I just look young for my age and he looks older for his age, and we didn't know how big our age gap was until we had already started liking each other for a few weeks.

this makes me kinda personally uncomfy.
there is a big power gap. where were you at 19? and that's assuming you had similar childhoods, some families are very strange and at 19 you might not have had much chance to be a person away from that. then from his pov you are known mostly in contrast to that. what's better? the new family or the old. that kind of thing can fuck with some people i guess.

>>41431023
i don't like this at all.
(the love is genuine) implies (it's not wrong).
so that means
(it's wrong) implies (the love is not genuine).
but if you've already told someone you love them, made promises, assured someone you care about, etc. you are not gonna be excited to think that the love turns out to not be genuine. so, wanting to avoid problems like that, you just make sure that it's never wrong. it's not wrong. :)

>>41431010
>>41431473
age gaps are only wrong when the older person holds a lot of power over the younger person and is using that to coerce them into sex
it depends entirely on the context

>>41431633
>and is using that to coerce them into sex
it's important to remember that all forms of coercion can hurt people. focusing it solely on sex gets a lot of interference from the "every guy is supposed to like sex" bs

>>41431010
Nice larp.
This sounds like pdf cope, why did you even troon out? To keep your dick and fuck twinks which look already younger in general. AGP Tranny top on a sub twink? trannies these days

>>41431677
please rinse out your brain holy shit. like you managed to get the right answer for entirely the wrong reasons.

>>41431010
do you have a job OP? does he have a job? Do you earn significantly more than him?
If you dont take advantage of him due to his age there really isnt a problem here and I (as a younger person) think its kind of based because older people are hot

>>41431010
sounds hot. I hope you're both fetishising the shit out of it

>>41431010
no
>t. 20 year old

>>41431010
No but I recommend just dating inside the 22+ range since 19yo's are typically in uni / studying and are in an entirely different phase of life. That can complicate things quite a bit. But if you're dating a 23 yo the difference is typically negligible. You might have more experience and dealt with more wagecuckings but its a similar phase of life.

>>41431633
what if its the 10 year younger person who made the first moves, and makes more money

>>41431010
>31yo trans GIRL
You are a grown woman. Try dating someone in your age bracket.

>>41431010
Legally no it's totally fine. Everyone will think poorly of you though. They will consider him a victim to your grooming. 10-15 year age gaps become less problematic as time goes on. Like a 30 year old dating a 45 year old isn't that strange. The thing is, people view 19 as someone young. Not a child, but still very much someone that needs guidance and extra patience. 25 is when people start seeing people as like a full adult, a peer.

>>41431549
>where were you at 19?
Not OP but I was dating a 30 year old guy. It was great, we didn't end up working out and had a healthy splitup, I am fond of our time together. I'm 32 now.

Age gap stuff is so overblown. I personally would not want to date 99% of 19 year olds but you can date them ethically. They are adults and though they may be figuring things out they are capable of making decisions and protecting themselves.

I'm fairly sure even research has been done on this and age gap relationships aren't even statistically more prone to abuse.

I want to the sugar mommy of a 19yo twink

>>41431010
it's only weird if you don't peg him sis

>>41433010
We haven't had sex yet but we're both switches so... maybe.