>tfw I will never be a meido servant to a stern but loving chaser masterwhy live?
>>41452567never includes ever so keep waiting it's okay
>>41452567You'll find him, Honey. He, or someone like him, is out there searching for you right now. You've just gotta get yourself out there and meet him. I wish you the best of luck.
>>41452567You will be and I will always love you, I want to rp with you, I will inject your estrogen, and then I will ...
>>41452583I've been waiting a while now>>41452596I put myself out there by shitposting on 4chan>>41452603I'm pretty bad at rping, sorry anon
>>41452567Do people actually want that? Maybe its just the area I live in everyone here just goes ghost, or only wants to fuck, last girl I met on tinder we hit it off, but were incompatible sexually (dom/dom never works and I don't bottom) introduced her to one of my other friends now they're living their best transbian life>tfw you see your friends happy
>>41452665yeah? most trannies are submissive and want some kind of stable long-term thing
>>41452671Deff the area I live in then, fuck my stupid country life, chin up femanon you'll find your happiness out there
>>41452692it might also be where you're meeting them, maybe tinder is used more for hookups idkthank you though, I hope you find what you want in life
>>41452699>checkedMeh I've tried Tinder, Boo, and whatever other dating apps are out there, literally living in the mountain state, so the dating pool around here is already shallow, add the fact that I'm over 30, that pool shrinks to a puddle, at least I got my cat
>>41452743shame you live so far away, we're similarish ages and you sound nice
>>41452611That works, but you should really get out and get involved with your local community. Creative projects and local support clubs will be good for meeting more people, then once you know them and know where they hang out, you can usually find a chaser in that area.
>>41452832Tbh I'm doing the whole caretaker thing for my 93 year old grandma, once shes gone I'm getting the fuck outta here, I've spent the last 5 years of my life making hers comfortable
>>41452856I live in a bit of a backwater so idk if they'll be many chasers, but I probably should get out more>>41452903where are you going to move to
>>41453046Dunno wherever the wind takes me
anyone in NY want a live in tranny maid?
>>41453071I live in PA, think you can accommodate?
>>41453071Zaaam I'd move to NY
>>41452567>>41453071>>41453182All of you missed out. About a year ago, a wealthy chaser was unironically advertising in search of a submissive tranny to be his maid 24/7 and he’d not only cover the costs of living, but also offer to buy them just about anything within reason, if they filled their role to a T + sexual favors. He even fit the role of having a dominant personality.
>>41453468Wow some guys have all the luck
>>41453468Well did he do it? Did he find his someone and move them in?
>>41453507>>41453544I don’t know. He basically offered it to me after I reached out on a whim and submitted a genuine response and interest to his request. I was pretty onboard but hesitant out of typical fear for safety, as well as probably too old for it. The days grew closer to when I’d move there (coincidentally was also in NY) and it felt not only too real but the weight of how serious the situation would be just became heavier and heavier for me.I really enjoy the idea of living out the life of a maid working for the fantasy Master/Owner but it dawned on me if I’d be able to stomach going through that again without questioning the moments where I’d very autistically be uncomfortable in arbitrary situations (let alone being pressured for sex). I learned that as much as I love the fantasy of this and have lived it in the past, I really just want something that is emotionally real to me (and probably more autonomy than a servant). So I apologized and cancelled. I assumed he found someone shortly after because submissive trannies are a dime a dozen here and he’s had a previous maid before.Regardless of everything, I hope he and his new maid are doing well.
>>41453617That's wild
>>41453617Do you still have his discord/contact? How young did the maid have to be im like almost 24 TT
>>41453652Being a tranny with comorbidities, I delete him (and a handful of other contacts/friends) out of a distressful night. Either way, he’d prefer to remain anonymous until he shows himself and Id like to respect that, despite my depressive breakdown.>24 years oldHe’s not picky about age (as long as you’re legal or not like 60+ but even then if you look young it’s fine). And he’d like it more if you look attractive but he even stated in his original post here he was more than willing to help fund and help mold a maid to be her most presentable and fuckable self she could be (covering surgeries, HRT, etc.)If things don’t work out with his current maid, he may come back here posting offerings for a new position again I’d imagine. Or you could even just keep making threads like these in the event he (or someone else but be cautious) is in the market again.
>>41453617You both seem like good reasonable people. I'm glad he's offering such a potentially beneficial experience to people who will truly fulfilled by it, but you made the right choice not going. I've been freeuse before and it's mostly great but when it's 2am and you're dead asleep and you sincerely don't want it getting fucked anyway makes your stomach turn, makes you shake with anger. I would never agree to a fulltime bdsm relationship, his offer while generous would wear on anyone normal
>>41453755Though I agree with you, he was more than reasonable on how flexible the expectations can be and if you had hard limits such as “no surprise midnight sex when i’m asleep” he seemed like he’d respect that (remember I didn’t commit to him, just mainly did a lot of talking and fun roleplay, as well discussing if we’d be compatible). If things for any reason, wouldn’t work out between the two, he’d offer to cover you staying at his place until you could find your own place/job (again within reason). His only stipulation if you were staying for the long haul, was that you’d wear one of the plethora maid outfits you two would pick out for a given day/event, and be able to perform sexual exchanges for him at least more than once a week. Probably even be reasonable if you needed a time frame break from intimacy stuff so long as you made an effort to “return to work” at some point and not take advantage of his charity.He’d even go so far as to offer leverage if it helped you feel more secure in taking up the role of his maid. It just wasn’t for me though. I’d probably still want to enjoy the fun maid outfits and roleplaying as a docile yet efficient and effective servant, but just not with the cloud of sex hanging above my head.
>>41453544>did he do ityes, a few months after he found someone he gave an update and said he was looking for a second maid, attached was a picture of his current one with a timestamp. not sure what happened to him after though
>>41453755And also, yeah. I’ve had too many experiences of being used like a flesh toy, dehumanized, and felt like discarded trash in past “encounters” that I’d never want to risk falling into that pit again. It can be fun and safe with the right person, but my luck has just been a strong of awful people to the point I’ll now suffer being alone rather than go through being traumatized or devastated because of another.But fuck is it painful being alone…>>41453883I probably missed that post, but I was also struggling with the threat of homelessness (which is why his offer was even more desirable, although incredibly toxic for me).
>>41453862He seems like quite the character, you obviously respect the way he handled himself and you've described his offer rather favorably. I'm glad he left such a good impression but that still means you made the right choice not going. By my own nature the sex would be my favorite part, what he offers is only worthwhile for someone who sees the entire experience as a bonus. Sex shouldn't feel ominously looming over your head, you protected yourself. I just feel appreciated and cared for when a man impulsively grabs me and puts a load in me at once because then I feel like I'm necessary for his basic needs. I like knowing I'm valued as much as food water and electricity>>41453883I don't like sharing though, but bravo to him truly for being able to afford two in New York. Wish him the best, I think it's cool when people chase their dreams
>>41453990>respect the way he handled himselfMind you I kept close talks with my therapist about it, and she was extremely skeptical about the kind of guy in a position as he is and with some of his wording, appeared “concerning” but not by themselves an immediate red flag. I’m not out to paint him negatively and I’d prefer people came to their own conclusions about said person rather than due to my experiences; I just also want to add how I felt and was thinking during my time in that moment.>By my own nature sex would be the best partI’ve probably out grown the last of my youth (or maybe traumatized) because sex is great when it follows a feeling of romantic connection for me, rather than feeling like someone’s cumsock. Maybe there are people fulfilled with that feeling alone, or maybe there are people that have yet to experience the worse end of that spectrum. But more power to those that are happy in those positions.I think I’d probably enjoy feeling like a house-wife to someone I felt connected to, now that I think more openly about it.
>>41454148how old r u
>>41454170It’s not relevant, but i’m not in my 20s anymore
>>41454148>having awife who loves and supports you>loving and supporting her backGod thats the fuckimg dream isn't it
>>41454369Probably all it will ever be: a dream. I’ve resigned myself to just try and be complacent with a career while I look for communities to find fulfillment through, instead of through a partner.
>>41454426It's such a double edged sword, because on one hand I have friends who deeply care about me and I care about them, I'm making art that makes me happy, I have communities that Ive built up, but also I feel sad and alone, I feel like I'm missing a deep connection with someone, closet I came was being in a ldr with this really wonderful woman from Italy whom I was prepared to move across the ocean for, then life got to busy for her and she went ghost earlier this year and Ive felt fucking empty ever since
>>41452567All I want is the opposite of this. A trans housewife to do all my chores while I pay the bills. Take her on expensive dates and all that jazz, really treat her like a lady.
>>41455953I would do anything to be a housewife for the love of my life
>>41455953you could have any tranny you want anon, this is pretty much every trans woman's dream lol
>>41455953Majority of the time this scenario is a fantasy. Most relationships statistically end in divorce, so with that in mind, if the house-wife isn’t working on a career, she’s trapped serving her partner if things for any numerous of reasons don’t work out. It sucks because the bread winner holds all the power and it’s very easy to abuse that power freely.
>>41456790Women are essentially like children, anyway. Let's be real here for a moment.
>>41456790im okay with my husband holding that power over me though
>>41457560How sure can you be of your husband, though? What if your husband starts shitting the bed? Would you want that for your life? A poopy bed?
>>41457631i simply wouldnt marry a man who would shit the bed
>>41457646What if he WAITED until you married him, you FUCKING RETARD?!?!?! Just go with women instead, less drama and evil.
>>41457646Don't listen to >>41457686 nona, she's just a bitter transbian.
>>41457560>>41457646This mindset is how you end up with a serial killer as a “partner”. Lay in the bed you make, nona.
>>41458070Exhibit #6,568 of transbians not wanting tstraight trans women to be happy! Don't fall for it!
>>41457631probably means he has a medical problem, and I'd stick with him through that obvs
>>41458182Would you eat his shit?
>>41458217of course
>>41458107Not even strictly a transbian thing. Can end up in the same situation if they were trans or cis. It’s more just an abuse of power thing (forcing one person in the relationship to rely financially on the other). Even self-aware and due diligent BDSM practitioners can bring up the obvious as well as provide reassurance for the submissives. The subtle hint you think it can’t even be discussed reeks of not only insecurity but another abuser in the waiting.
>>41452856are you sure anon? i live in the bay area and im basically force feminizing myself by taking hrt while i live and work on a farm. i clean up poop several days a week and clean dishes and sweep and mop and frick. i couldnt be a better gf to a potential man at this point idk doods
>>41458581((like not to be weird but if you accidentally stay off hrt for a while and go back on it yr body might just go into overdrive if you know what i mean))
