so, i have a bf now but neither of us have... done it... we are both men & i see him for the first time in ~3 weeks. i will not enter my lovely boyfriend under the guidance of a reddit thread; i believe it takes more preparation than with a woman, if that takes preparation (?) . so, how do you clean your butt and mouth for sex? how do you give good blowjobs? how do i make my skin softer and shave my body hair with no electric razor. i love him and want to make him feel good, but i lack the data necessary to go about this without worry.