I'm a tranny married to a cis man (I'm 31 he's 36), straight marriage is like, he's always available to do fun stuff together (like play video games or partying together), he hugs you, dicks you down, cuddles you, protects you. But in exchange you have to clean up after his laundry/dishes/house cleaning and do a lot of blowjobs.I'm personally very happy with the dynamic but a lot of (both cis and trans) women talk about how they hate it. I'm curious, what are gay and lesbian marriages like? I've heard people talk about different marriage dynamics in non-straight relationships and it's very interesting to me.Also someone said I act/look like a futch (?) a while ago. What are the different lesbian categories? I'm not really into women unless I'm stranded in an island of only women or something like that then yeah I'd fuck women. But I like seeing boxes with different characteristics and seeing where I fit there and where other people fit there.
You didn't mention how many years you've been together
>>4146197711 years together, 7 years married. I'm living like the average double income no kids straight couple desu. Considering kids but they're expensive. Priority for finances is FFS then a puppy for me then a house down payment. I'm also not ready to be a parent ngl I'd probably take classes or something and definitely go to rehab first lmao.Also probably relevant, I got SRS a couple years ago and before that we didn't have sex regularly bc anal HURT and being naked made me dysphoric. Now we're fucking multiple times a week and he's like, visibly happier now.
>>41461880>straight marriage
>>41462139That's a long long time. You were always trans back then too? You should post your SRS doc (not that I'd ever encourage SRS)
Those are some life goals>late 20s cis m chaser
>>41462151Yeah I'm 15 years HRT, started at 16. Met him while playing a video game together then we got married like 4 years after.Got standard PI SRS from Brassard in Montreal. Government paid for it, there was an option to get approved for overseas surgeons with other techniques but I compared surgeons and chose Brassard because he has the least amount of botched horror stories.My pussy looks normal although idk what normal pussy is supposed to look like, I browsed pussy pics and some of them look like mine so I guess it's good? It smells like nothing like 99% of the time except if I don't shower for 2-3 work days there's a bad pussy smell if I spread my legs.Function wise, to this day I can not fucking believe how good clitoral orgasm is. It's not even comparable to orgasming with my old dick. It's like waves and waves of intense pleasure over a few minutes.I self lubricate a lot like I keep a towel near my bed to wipe it after masturbating. The pre-surgery handbook said Standard PI isn't supposed to self lubricate though, so I might be a weird outlier thing.Vaginal sex is less sensitive but it's great in like an emotional/intimate way, like omg he's inside me and our bodies are connected together and it feels good to be filled up by his dick like that. I've stopped dilating also because dick is enough which is great because dilating SUCKED. The first year of recovery you have to dilate so much that you basically can not work for a year. It's more tiring than a full time job and you have to do it every single day.Also why are we talking about this ;_; I typed out this whole fucking blogpost bc I'm on speed and then I remembered I was actually asking people about lesbian/gay marriages.
>>41462308You're more interesting because the chances of gay married people, let alone gay married people posting here is lmao
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>>41462308some girls rly have my dream life i am so happy for u
>>41461880>>41462139>>41462308im happy for you :) its nice to see that some of us made it
