>be gay man>idea of topping makes me so uncomfortable i could never do it>idea of bottoming is also repulsive to me since im a 6'2 hairy man and i think its degrading>think anal sex in general is disgustingwhat do i even do in this situation? should i just be celibate forever?
>>41462674Just find a Side who likes to frot
>>41462674Acquire a loving, supportive partner who likes you for your personality and the fact that you're kinda cute and then be honest about how squeamish you are about all kinds of gay intimacy and let them very very gently introduce you to how it isn't gross and disgusting or scary.
>>41462674Can relate felt that way for years, but recently I think the loneliness and porn consumption made something snap in me and say fuck it. Now I'm trying to get some hole. Maybe it will get so bad for you you do the same
>>41462686this, so many think sex is all penetrative.
>>41462674As a gay man with internalized homophobia, I'd be fine with that. Frotting, bjs, hjs, fjs and oral is also hot.
>>41462674>idea of bottoming is also repulsive to me since im a 6'2 hairy man and i think its degradingStuff like this makes me realize how homophobic and misogynist the gay community really is. There is no "consent" is there? These are just roles forced upon people.
>>41462755We're men aren't we?
>>41462686>>41462698ive considered it but i think that also has its issues. id rather have actual sex with someone but unfortunately my body fucks me overoral also has the same issue as bottoming for me>>41462755not really sure if its misogynist bc for me at least mostly just comes from what other people think about gays. i would agree that ive internalized a lot of homophobia though
