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Out of all the women I've dated, the one I miss the most was a femrepper. It's weird to admit, but it's true.

I'm a cis man who doesn't have any LGBT friends and my mental image of transgenderism was based off an mtf in my neighborhood. He was a middle aged dad who suddenly started wearing these ridiculous floral dresses and pearls that made it seem like he was trying to look like an old movie star... everyone in the neighborhood thought he was a perv. I read up on AGP but had zero interest in FTM issues.

My ex wasn't a pervert or flamboyant. I met her when she was working at an Aldi's and I thought she was just a serious, introspective redhead. She had a feminine body and I thought she was attractive.

I had to ask her out 3 or 4 times before she agreed and once we started dating it was amazing how well we understood each other. We would talk for hours and had amazing chemistry.

She ended up becoming an alcoholic due to family issues / behavior patterns and I broke up with her because, as the child of an alcoholic mom, I couldn't handle it.
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>>41464064
>break up with someone
>miss them
wtf do you want nigger
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>>41464064
How do you know she was a femrepper like did she tell you or what
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I mean a malebrained woman is the ideal partner for 99% of cis men desu
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>>41464107
Yeah we talked about it.
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>>41464110
She was a lot easier to relate to but I think her self-perception of being male brained caused her to have self esteem issues when comparing herself to women who were better at being feminine.
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>>41465725
He had self esteem issues from having no penis you're gay and should fuck men
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>>41465753
Tomboys don't make you gay
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>>41465753
I'm not attracted to biological males.
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>>41464064
>can't handle a little alcoholism
Good times make weak men.
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>>41465852
and yet you love a man more than any woman you were ever with
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>>41465882
Delusional NLOGs who call themselves "femreppers" aren't men retard
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>>41466034
Nta highly doubt they called themselves a repper
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>>41466034
What does nlog mean?
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>>41466092
The transphobic anon was trying to say OP's ex was a woman, and described him as the sort of woman who thinks she's "not like other girls"
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>>41464064
as a transbian with a preference for mascs I've dated many femreppers

sure maybe some of them were just "tomboys" but a few came out as NB or admitted they wanted to be men. There comes that awkward point in the relationship where they start aasking about "hey what if I had breast reduction" or start suing a masculine "nickname"

Definitely an attraction that has a "wish I knew how to quit you" element. why I find them absolutely captivating they are not men in the body of women, they are boys in the body of women.

Very frequently they are quite immature and lacking in self-confidence. Behind their exaggerated masculine swagger they tend to be quite nervous and needy, like a child who acts like a movie star to appear tough.

They also lack loyality, both to their lovers and themselves. A lot of them hold onto the "bisexual" label even though their relationshps with men are frequently different, often dating much older men who come off more as "father figures" and appearing to be less passionate. Also frequent flip flopping in presentation. One ex would cut her hair short and then space out meetings with her family with hopes of growing it out. She was absolutely terrified of being seen as "queer" by her family and honestly it was the main thing that made me fall out of love with her.

but still, when its good its good. Beautiful with a cocky swagger, charming grin and an ability to make you feel like a woman rather than an "effiminate boyfriend". IF only they could fuckin' stand up for themselves
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>>41466065
>>41464391
Same shit.
Women live on tutorial mode, the ones that bitch about not fitting in one way or another because of their self-inflicted issues yet don't try shit to solve it deserve even less respect than the average female.
That especially goes for foids who want to be treated like the men they make a mockery of yet "repress" any attempt to even live like one, truth being she most likely couldn't even handle it despite how "malebrained" she thinks she is.
>>41466113
>transphobic
Nice cope.
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>>41466248
>foids who want to be treated like the men they make a mockery of

She wasn't some sort of man hating radfem.

>the ones that bitch about not fitting in one way or another because of their self-inflicted issues yet don't try shit to solve it deserve even less respect than the average female

She genuinely did struggle to fit in with other girls. I saw how her female coworkers treated her at the grocery store she worked at. I think it was a combination of her being traditionally attractive + not excelling at female social dynamics. It seemed to trigger other women (at least those in the same age bracket, her boss liked her).

>>41466169
>She was absolutely terrified of being seen as "queer" by her family and honestly it was the main thing that made me fall out of love with her.

If you are a trans woman then how did she mange to not look queer while dating you? I dont get that.

>why I find them absolutely captivating they are not men in the body of women, they are boys in the body of women.

I'm going to assume you didn't mean that the way it comes across.

>>41466113
>>41465882
Why call her a man? She was a biological woman who used she / her pronouns and was trying to deal with her dysphoria without transitioning.
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>>41466248
If you kill yourself you might be reborn as one of the women you envy
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>>41466354
Trans is a thing that you are, not a thing that you do. He was born a boy, the reason he wants to transition is because of his brain. Not medically transitioning doesn't make you not a man, it makes you a man with a female body

He LOOKS like a woman, he isn't one, even if he never transitions. Gender isn't a thing you do it's what you are
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>>41466354
>man hating radfem
The mockery comes from her claiming her common female insecurities somehow make her a "boy on the inside" in some way.
>She genuinely did struggle to fit in with other girls
>other girls
Case in point.
The struggles and expectations society as a whole, including both men AND women, puts onto a man isn't comparable to how other catty bitches treat another woman for not acting exactly like all the others, which is also a primarily female issue as a whole. She isn't special, but it's not like there are any normal non-genderfucked tomboys left to go for.
>>41466410
>the women you envy
picrel
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>>41466539
If you're a pooner this is even more retarded, if you're anything else my statement still stands
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>>41464064
i have 3 exes as a boymoder and theyre all femreppers. aap x agp attraction is real
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>>41464064
not an ex but a crush, she was all touchy feely and led me on but then got all terfy and started using me as a social prop to put down and elevate herself... we really connected and were getting closer until I ruined things by trying to clarify what was going on between us and hit the brakes
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>>41466505
"He" enjoyed having sex with me and had an amazing female body so it is hard to see "him" as anything other than a tomboy with a unique soul. I also don't get why trans people want others to respect their chosen pronouns but then don't use the ones that reppers use.

I've also gone through all the brain scan studies and there's a reason we can't just give dysphoric people MRIs to see if they're trans or not. There are many women with autism who have stereotypically masculine brains and who are not dysphoric. Conversely, there are "male brained" AGPs who desperately want to be women.

In short: I did not date a man in a woman's body, I dated a woman with a somewhat masculine brain but who was still a woman.
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>>41466830
Oh yeah if they take it in the poon its over nothing else really matters
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>>41465882
he loved a WOMAN fucking retard
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>>41466855
It's not that deep calm down
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>>41466912
I'm not upset
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>>41466881
Gay men always try to turn male attraction to tomboys into something else. It's jealousy probably.



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