I've been seeing this guy for like almost 2 months. It's really casual but I like him and he very clearly likes me back. Obviously I stealth and he doesn't know I'm trans and I'm pre OP and if things get serious he will definitely end up with seeing me naked and I don't want the worst case scenario happening so I want to at least give him hints or something about my situation before I really start falling for this guy and start taking things serious. I need help anons. Serious only please.
>>41465260just straight up tell him you're trans in a text
>>41465260How did you even meet him? I usually meet people online and I'm always open about being trans from the start...
>>41465260i don't but i'm also post op
>>41465280I think this is a bad idea, OP should say it in person because things can get out of control in text and it displays a bit of an insecurity or fear of it. If she says it in person and says it earnestly it’s gonna give the best results. You just have to be honest with your partner and shit and tell them how you feel, and if it’s over text because there’s no other comfortable way to do it then be conscious of that and make said anxiety clear. Unless he’s chuddy he’ll certainly at least not chimp out
You may wanna get to know what he thinks of trans people first
>>41465348this is retarded op just do it over text quickly and briefly, don't jeopardize your own safety in things like this.
>>41465260these things are really serious and can be embarrassing in public but should be done in person. I suggest booking a hotel with him and bringing a bunch of lube before you let him know. be sure not to mention this to anyone.
>>41465260Don't worry, he knows. That's why he's dating you.
He knows, don't worry about it. If you tell him he'll be forced to leave you to preserve his "heterosexuality"
