i’m having sexual thoughts about someone for the first time in my life and it’s very confusing. he’s just so amazing, calm and steady, cute, tall, kind, smart, i can’t help liking him i’m scared that i would freak out if i ever had sex. what do i do?
>>41473078you were probably never asexual. you just needed the right person. most asexuality is just trauma.
>>41473078How old are you? If you're like 18 it's probably fine
>>41473078take it slow
>>41473134okay. i do have some trauma>>4147315222
>>41473159how? i don’t even know how to flirt
>>41473374just let him do the work
>>41473078>i’m having sexual thoughts about someone for the first time in my lifeAre these thoughts like "I want to kiss him" or are they more explicit?
>>41474630how? >>41474712more explicit
>>41474630This seems like bad advice. Men like to know when they're desired too.>>41474856Are you dating him or anything?
>>41475236we’re not dating. we are just friends but he has made it clear that he finds me attractive.
>>41475474Sounds like you should try flirting with him or even asking him out then, Nona.
>>41475847i don’t know how to
>>41476248not that anon, but literally just tell him you like him
>>41476248Just look up how to flirt with men? The simple stuff is not too difficult.
>>41477683i’m afraid that he will think i’m cringe
>>41473169nta but for most people 18 and 22 are literally no different.some people make it to 30 never growing out of being 18
>>41478882Why? Would you rather some other woman become his girl?
>>41479555i think i want him to be mine
>>41479703You're gonna have to do something to make that happen then. He might be hesitant especially if he knows you're trans and purportedly asexual.
