If so, how was it?
>>41474349yes, lesbian sex feels like you're enmeshing your heart in someone else's, sex with men feels like they're using you to jack off
>>41474498>sex with men feels like they're using you to jack offI'm sorry to hear that that's been your experience, but idk a guy has never treated me like that during sex.
>>41474349Better post op
>>41474349it's nice-ish. They are very warm and I think they make the room as cold as possible on purpose. You're basically signing up for infinite groping which can be a little distracting if you're trying to fall asleep
>>41474349yes it felt really good when he put his pp inside my pussy
>>41474349It’s nice. I get very subby with men and it’s nice to have someone be so in control of your body that you can just release yourself into their care and desire. I’m otherwise a very independent person and ‘don’t need no man’ about my life, so surrendering to the primal urges of a man and allowing myself to be entirely his is so pleasant. If he knows what he wants but also how to get it whilst respecting you and making you feel good, it’s amazing. Sex with men makes me feel lightheaded, I can’t lie.
>>41474349It's the best
>>41474803>it felt really good when he put his pp inside my pussySame. Pretty much sums up my thoughts on the matter.>t.ranny
>>41474349I've never slept with anyone
>>41474349it can be baller, depends on the man. if he knows what he's doing, it's like being played with and dominated, it's very enjoyable. if he doesn't know what he's doing it's kinda trash, and you'll probably just end up blowing him to get it over with which feels like a chore
>>41474349it was good until he pushed too deep and activated my lower bowels…
>>41477497braaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaap hehe sorry chaser-kun, thats just extra lube >w<
>>41477497Thank god I have a vagina now.
>>41477626I’d rather poop on a man than that
>>41474349I never have.. but I kinda have a boyfriend now. I'm very nervous about how its going to go, and admittedly am scared. But it'll be both our first times, so it'll be awkward and embarrassing but we'll figure it out I hope and ideally he won't hate me in the end
>>41474349I haven't really slept with a man in three years and I'm going insane
>>41477796Why?
Sleeping with men is the best they have no boundaries and let you grope and lick and kiss and bite whatever you want because they're surprised you want to and flattered by it. The ones who aren't surprised still love the feeling of being craved too much to have self preservation. A hard cock fucking deep inside you makes you feel so consumed and fulfilled I want to fuck all the time. In fact the more he fucks me the better it feels, I remember round 7 one time I was just a boneless sloppy mess
>>41477825Neuroticism got worse and I got way more paranoid about putting myself out there
>>41477853>round 7How? My bf and I never manage more than 3 per day lol.
>>41474349First was high school sweetheart, the sex was whatever but I pair bonded hard and held a torch for him for a decade, still look him up sometimes to see what he’s up toSecond was some random weirdo off okcupid, 2012-era Redditor, probably a convicted pedophile by now, horrendous and sterileThird was some random from Craigslist, don’t rememberFourth was some guy with compatible mental illnesses, it was whatever, don’t really remember the sex but the bipolar-on-bipolar honeymoon period was the most intense I’ve had, 10/10 would folie a deux againHaven’t had sex since then
>>41477920What happened to end things with high school sweety?
>>41477781>But it'll be both our first times>ideally he won't hate me in the endIf you use your mouth some in the beginning there's no way he'll hate the experience even if you both mess up and it's awkward and fast.My bf and I were each other's firsts and it is a really treasured experience for me.
>>41477938I went to college on the other side of the country and he was 2 grades below me. We tried to do long distance, but he dumped me after a semester.
>>41477882Aw, ςοrry
>>41477888It was a cuddlefuck in bed day all day, started in the morning ended at night, he just has a ridiculous libido and stamina because he's insane and a pervert. Three is respectable glad you're active with your man
>>41474349no. both of my exes are men now but i still never slept with either. in terms of literally “sleeping with” and not just having sex, i actually did that with my more recent ex at least a dozen times. i never slept too well, i would get distracted by this person i love that i was cuddling
>>41477954Thank you anon I'll keep that that in mind what to do. If its not too personal and I know things differ between couples, but idk do you have anything else to share on it? Any stories, tips, what made things work for you two? Sorry I'm just kinda clueless and curious
>>41478202Are you curious about sex stuff or just things more broadly?
>>41477853Confirmed. Being groped, bitten and kissed by a sexually aggressive trans girl for the first time is life ruining.
>>41479243?
>>41479243Bet you took it like a champ, made her so happy with your body, good boy. Alas I am a mere gay man but I celebrate the success of all boy enjoyersStill ruined huh?
>>41474349i prefer top mtfs but they hardly exist men work, yes im fake bi
>>41474349every time i have sex with a man i regret it. this has not stopped me from having sex with men multiple times
>>41479601Why do you regret it?
>>41479617i end up feeling gross and used and 9/10 times it happens im drunk during the whole thing so i feel a little bit violated even though i wouldnt consider it nonconsensual
>>41479617Not that anon but most men are lazy in bed don't initiate anything don't kiss you don't pet you don't even work open your hole for you, they talk a big game online, meet up, makeout and grind for a bit before you suck him off a bit before he shoves it in your ass and lasts 3 minutes with no cuddles after, AND the smalltalk is painful and awkward
>>41479688>9/10 times it happens im drunk during the whole thing so i feel a little bit violatedTake better care of yourself Nona..
>>41479705That does sound awful but like, isn't that how the average hookup goes regardless of gender? Thank goodness I never let myself touch a man before we at least started dating.
>>41479846I am gay and have no idea if women suck at sex in this same way
>>41474349I never got it to work right, but for the small window when it did, it was blissful. I wish my butt was in order and more importantly I wish I had a pussy. I love being intimate with men so much, but my body doesn't cooperate.
>>41479818its hard. i am just really bad at saying no out loud even when im thinking it
>>41479937I was the same way... SRS was completely worth it for the sex I can have now alone, let alone the pp dysphoria.
>>41480481I want it, but I'm too fat to get it. Also I'm terrified of surgery. My phobia of surgery beats my dysphoria. Getting FFS was so traumatic for me even though it went well. I'm glad it was worth it for you. Maybe someday I can work up the courage for it, but I doubt I will.