FTM here, I need more tips on how to behave more masculine, I feel like I behave more feminine and I think it might be the reason why I'm not passing that well, regarding my face looks quite masculine. I'm Pre-testosterone.
hit women. punch anyone in the face who fucks with you
>>41477004well for one, picrel strikes me as feminine.Pre-T. is also an issue. JSYK, hrt is a hormone, and those change brain chemistry.One of the first notable things will be your shift in behaviour.
Shut the fuck up you stupid foituboi
>>41477004don't say hi or bye to people, try yo or whats upnod your head for yes and no instead of speakingslump your back and don't hold your arms upwalk with your feet outward, stompsit with your crotch spreadtalk monotone 24/7, do not singsongpush things harder, open doors fastnever smile unless you need to or when formaldon't make eye contact unless neededswap politeness for being respectful
>>41477004ah yes go on the failed male board and ask people how to be a mantry wearing an amazon basics skirt, looking in the mirror, regretting all your lifes choices and sinking ever deeper into the closet faggot
>>41477004What are your interests, hobbies and passions ?What is your type of man / woman ?What field do you work in ?
>>41477004literally just body language and "autism" (European social customs/behavior)
Mtf here who's very versed in male socialisation,,, (due to my freelance work) unfortunately I think alot of it is being alot less close and emotionally vulnerable ): less hugs and more dap ups. It fucking sucks so I reckon just be urself and the hrt will help you pass more! Maybe hangout with dudes more and observe?? I'm sorry this is a really nothing burger answer
>>41477004have a vauge undercurrent or very slight vibe that you are willing to get physical with sebody if they push you too far.If you overdo this you come across as scary and hostile. You just want a touch. It adds seriousness and gravity to your actions.Oh and if you say you are going to do something, do it like you mean it. No empty threats, promises, commitments, ever. Everything is a competition now. You are competing with other men for a good spot on the respect hirearchy.
>>41477246>Everything is a competition now. You are competing with other men for a good spot on the respect hirearchy.Spot on
>>41477004>I'm Pre-testosteroneBecome post-testosterone. The mental effects are rather noticeable.
>>41477377Seconding. Become post testosterone and also get the fuck off 4chan. If you stay here you will never pass no one ever passes on 4chan you need to get away from this place while there’s still time
take your current "a bit too aggressive" attitude and make that your new baselinemake this calibration once, lest you turn into an asshole
>>41477080That's actually good advice
>>41477004smoke cigars and drink rum. maybe start balding, idk
>>41477004Get off the internet and make friends with actual men who aren't on the internet.>but that's hardYou get out what you put in, stop being a fucking princess about it.
>>41477020this is comically poon/lesbian-brained
>>41477080I always find this annoying when transmen try to take up space, offer nothing to conversations, and just do performative arrogance.If being an aloof dood was what it means to be a man, then every modern woman basically is
>>41477004Just be a stupid fucking ignorant retard, and the rest will fall in place.
>>41477004start t
>>41477004The problem is if you force yourself to be masculine or male-brained it will only lead to becoming a try hard, studs and butches are a great example of forced performative masculinity to not become this you need to find hobbies you truly enjoy that are predominantly male leaning, learn to not worry what others think of you and learn self-sufficiency.learn subtle social cues, example is uptalk, uptalk is predominantly a female speaking pattern but the major for you is not passing as male because you are pre hrt is you will not understand what’s it’s like to be seen as one by random people so in the endeavour you will still be seen as a women just a more interesting one. once you take hrt and start to be seen as male you will learn as you go
>>41481076Everyone's going on about interests and presentation but not the icky, nasty, slavish parts that are essential but impossible to cultivate after childhood: accountability and "Sei ein Mensch" psychology of male socialization.
>>41477004>Pre-T>""""Masculine face""""My advice to you: Stop talking. You can not come off as more masculine when you're not similar to men at all. The best alternative is silence. You can express yourself when you actually look male, and that's where you find out how "masculine" you really are. Until you pass, confidence will be taken as naivety, because you are a woman (Worthless and inhuman) or a very young s01 boy (A disgrace). Don't be shy, be silent. You won't realize how feminine, or at the very least non masculine, you are until you actually get to experience the fraction of masculinization that men have been exposed to since they were 12.
>>41481076Stud slander.Legitimate butches/studs blow out the majority of FtMs, if you were to give them a low dose of testosterone they would mog 99.9% of them.This does not include fatties.
>>41480613The problem I have with ftms is they have the same unearned performative machismo of a grade school boy who has not yet had to compete for his spot on the playground hierarchy. The shit they say and the way they act constantly invites a rough hazing, if not a full on beating, but they don't get it because nobody wants to catch a hate crime felony. The truth is that if you missed the hyper competitive and violent socialization of growing up a normal boy then you're always going to give off bitch vibes and your attempts at masculine behavior will just out you as an alien infiltrator.It doesn't help that 99% of ftms are 5'2" fat baby faces who at best look like really femme gays despite their beards.
>>41477004Stop doing that and start doing this!! Start ur fucking T and Lift heavy things so you can be my musclesub faggot dog boyfriend. <3 nobody cares if ur terminally fembrained so long as u have a hot mommy goth gf it's how cishetmen cope with being complete fucking faggots :)
>>41477004Listen to metal and german industrial metal.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tzTjmZE1ijAhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jvyOp1_mFDshttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dlQG3gYeu5chttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XDPyhB6S0f4
>>41481751>FoidbabbleNo one cares nigger, OP and yourself WNBAM
>>41481620You know, not everyone who grew up as a boy got into fights. I'd say most of the guys at my high school probably didn't.It probably has to do with the setting. I've heard in other schools, fights broke out every day. But in those schools, girls fight each other, too. I've never been in a fight before, but the closest thing to one was when I pulled a chunk of this boy's hair out so he had a temporary bald spot. That was in elementary school as a little kid. And it was a really shitty elementary school.TL;DR getting into fights as a child seems like a poor person at a shitty public school thing, not a male socialization thing. Growing up as a boy isn't Lord of the Flies.t. mtf
>>41481820I don't wanna be a man I'm a sexy enby sweetheart with a whore Madonna complex
>>41481751LESBOS? IN MY /LGBT/?
>>41481863I'm not a lesbian I'm a straight enby
>>41481935what does that even mean nigga?
>>41481959Well yknoww
>>41481807You also have to embody the vibe, spirit and aesthetics of this vid, I'm sorry but I don't make the rules.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FcxyJ2P8J-g
>>41477004If you dont already move masculinely, it means youre fembrained, you are not a transman, youre a dime a dozen girl following a dumb trend in hopes it will make her special (it wont)
>>41477004be more quiet and stern. confidence can be usefulit also depends on ur sexuality. its sad but if you are/act faggy you will always be seen as less of a man. its a lot better now than even like 5-6 years ago but its definitely still thereno fagvoice or fag interests. a good general interest is just lifting. u dont have to be buff (and maybe shouldnt, only other gymbros will fully appreciate it) but generally being toned and being actively into lifting instantly makes you percieved to be more masculinealso dont post those images of those little cartoon drawings like u did here. yes i know wojaks and glegles are little cartoons but the one you posted is like tumblr/pinterest in origin. generally the more niche, toxic, or exclusionary the website you get the more malebrained it is. so stuff like 4chan and (to a lesser extent now) reddit are malebrained and tumblr and pinterest and twitter are more fembrained.none of this is individually that big of a deal and most people wont notice but they can add.theyre kinda fembrained or fagbrained. to most of socierty, being fagbrained is just being diet foidbrained. nothing wrong with either but thats how it istry not to beat yourself up and get deep into toxic masculinity. even if u dont become an incel misogynist or whatever you can really fuck yourself up. stay safe <3t. manmoder bullied for fagbrain my whole life
>>41477004Normal guy passing through. How do I shut the fuck up? Man, I just deleted a message I really regret in a big group chat after someone posted a photo of me and I went>"man I look a bit silly in that photo, haha"to that effect, but with the disposition of the nerd emoji. I seemingly have the inability to shut my mouth and keep getting myself in trouble from YAPPING. Even on here no one (You)'s my stuff and it's just me talking to myself
>>41481132fatties makes up the majority of themIf you have to remove the majority of people that use the label as not actually apart of the label then the argument is lost
>>41477463>mtfs dont pass on 4chan cuz theyre malebrained on incel nrd site>ftms also dont pass on 4chan???
>>41482622It must feel cool as hell to be the one woman in your friend group that can lift stuff and do things. It must make you feel so primed.
>>41482622I'm only counting people who do physical labour.When I exclude fatties, I'm imagining a post menopausal woman with short hair. Really I'm just drawing from people I've seen. However I have never been friends with a lesbian, so perhaps I am being too judgemental. But I do not view people who are very fat to be masculine.
>>41481857>You know, not everyone who grew up as a boy got into fights.>t. mtfLOL
>>41483427they're right tho
>>41481935lol wat the fuck is "straight" as an "NB"?Stupid fuckin theyfabs
>>41483495All NBs are straight/bisexual if you think about it
>>41477004honestly listen to cumtown man, it will kind of show you what it is like to be a guy and how guys like to joke around with each other, I've included a good bit to get you started brohttps://youtu.be/pkSYR9HSmfw?si=vXTtkUVjHT1xDfbv
>>41483870thats pretty gay and retarded and chinese my dude
>>41483495I say enby bc I don't want ppl to get confused over NB some ppl say "non black" with that ! and I'm str8 bc it's rly cozy and I like men and only men. I like being the woman in a relationship but a they them outside of it and mommy in bed yknow :> like they she but only they them in public cuz I only want my lover calling me she her
>>41483939yeah that's what being a dude is all about and you're gay too by the way + i am = meet me
>>41483427If the implication is that I didn't get into fights because I'm fembrained, I appreciate the compliment, but I don't think it's true. Like I said, most guys didn't get into fights, I'm pretty sure.
First step is to stop posting tumblr tier shit like the image you just posted
>>41477004Say slurs and Don't ve a libtard
>>41483983mmmmm ok, tranny
I just carry myself a bit like im too cool for anything
Uhhh be from new york or have family here. I'm told it makes me seem more male but also my inability to speak quietly is annoying. Being beat as a kid helps aswell. You get called a faggot alot & that eventually beats some of the femininity out. Or atleast into deep deep repression. Most men have that.
>>41481098Cool drawings.
