>cis women are very alien, mostly hedonistic interests, nothing substantive, very prone to socially punishing non-conformism>cis men see me as an outsider regardless of what I do, also they are very emotionally blunted and generally not so fun to interact with anyways>trans women are 95% people who were completely mentally destroyed by society, and end up some form of bottomfeeder NEET/addict/loser/polycule-haverHow do you even socialize as a post-everything tranny who "made it" in most ways?
>>41481117Well, you're still here, soo... you haven't made it.
I'd date you but I'm probably not your preferred demographic
>>41481228what are you
>>41481117Based GuP picrelAnyway I feel you OP, interacting with most groups given everything you mentioned is truly a bothersome and often an impossible task. I truly can only relate to my bf and a few select others that share the same autism as me
>>41481246A short guy.
>>41481209>"made it" in most ways>in most ways>>41481228Feel like you don't really get what this post is about, but thanks I suppose, chaser-kun.>>41481260Where'd you find your bf
>>41481324>cis men see me as an outsider regardless of what I do, also they are very emotionally blunted and generally not so fun to interact with anywaysAre you talking about in a dating context or socializing context? Men are blunted in general
>>41481117By filtering via the context of your life. E.g. I am getting my PhD and once I move on to get a job I am going to be socializing with other pretty intelligent and driven people. Would supplement this with people interested in similar art as I am (particularly music) and people interested in my sorts of hobbies.>>41481293How short and what are your accomplishments?
Don't worry: you being trans isn't hurting your ability to socialize. You being an insufferable cunt is what's doing that.
>>41481376Under average height. I have a house and land and I live comfortably. It's good enough for me frankly
>>41481324I met him online by pure coincidence, I wasn’t looking or anything at the time, but circumstances at the time got us talking to one another, and that coincidence has now turned into a years long relationship
>>41481376>PhD>other pretty intelligent and driven peopleI really wouldn't count on this, from my experience getting a PhD at a well regarded school.>>41481389What has made you so mad?
>>41481411A comfortable situation is nice, but surely there's more you want, right? Play an instrument, take photographs, anything like that? Imagine yourself fully self-actualized: what are you achieving?>>41481433I felt like the people I was working with (the other PhD students) were all for the most part thoughtful and interesting enough people, and I am (fingers crossed) assuming that won't change majorly when I move to industry. Maybe it varies by PhD program or maybe my standards are just lower than yours, which is possible because prior to getting into academia my friend group were literal mall rats.
>>41481549What is your definition of achievement? I enjoy doing nothing and bathing in the peace, I have more than everything I need. I do enjoy seclusion out in nature a lot but I've had enough of traveling for a while so where I live is fine. I can play guitar and piano, draw, ride horses whenever I want but those are just hobbies really. Out of those things the only thing I consider an achievement is being debt free and not renting or needing to work anymore.
>>41481634"Achievement" is relative and I meant it in that sense, hence why I asked about imagining yourself self-actualized and reporting what you see there.Anyway, I understand what you're saying on a logical level, but to me it's hard to emotionally wrap my head around. One of the first red flags with my ex was he would talk about wanting to just get a farm and move there away from everyone. It sounds like you have things much more put together than he did, which is good, but ultimately his sort of want for a passive and peaceful existence really clashed with how I go through life, where stagnation, inactivity, and the surrendering of a higher calling to me feels simultaneously like the most beautiful siren song to just let my head lay down and rest and dying a hundred thousand deaths as the world passes me by.
>>41481733Men and women process emotions differently. After all of that I think some time to do nothing is fine, but I can go out and do anything I want if I feel like it or have a reason to do something
>>41481117women, men, trans women cover a WIDE gamut of people. what are YOU? and what are you INTO? if u cast a wide net in the sea, you're bound to drag in trash
>>41481782At the very least you make a stronger case for it by having worked hard for the peace and sounding like you are a well-rounded person with a good set of pursuits (also horse riding sounds fun). I'm sorry if I sounded judgmental earlier, I am just in a higher anxiety state right now I think. The issue with my ex was that he would be so completely fine with just sitting around playing video games, even during periods where he wasn't working he always seemed to want to rest and it felt like it was on me to push us to do anything more which was exhausting. It'd have been different if it was something like photography or even guitar (and he was really good at guitar!) where at least something was being created. Oh well.
>>41481117>How do you even socialize as a post-everything tranny who "made it" in most ways?you put on a mask and mimic one of the other 3
>>41481117Try to find other people like you regardless of gender, that's what I'm doing (I'm failing miserably and feel so isolated and rejected that I don't even feel human anymore).
>>41481117anon you sound retardedyou should t ry doing meth
>>41481117you're hanging out with the wrong cis women then ya fucking goof
>>41484643What are the "right" cis women? I've apparently never met one.
>>41481117you find cis female friends who have some brains and arent judgemental. youre kidding yourself if you think all of them are like you described. most people arent friend material no matter who you are, gotta find the ones with chemistry
>>41484673>cis female friends who have some brains and arent judgementalWhere? I've never met any.
>>41481117I usually find autistic women to be very nice company, they are usually treated badly by the normie women so they'll be really happy to have a new friend as well
>>41484667>>41484678ok so either the only women you've ever hung out with are your mum and maybe sister and being a dumbass just runs in your family or you're just misogynistic enough to be repellant to any woman that isn't an npc
>>41484698Oh, so it's just the usual bait and switch.>meet bad women>"just meet good women">where do i do that>"you're not good enough for women"In short you have no real answer and are just posting kneejerk reactions in defense of women instead of helping.
>>41484711no my kneejerk reaction was to say you sound like a cunt, I was giving you the benefit of the doubt
>>41484719>my kneejerk reaction was to say you sound like a cuntYes, in defense of good women who you claim exist but can't recall where. You've either never seen one yourself and are operating purely on the belief that women can be good, or you believe all women are good and the only issue is that I don't agree with the idea that 100% of the demographic are super interesting angels.
>>41484744Girl just find some autistic women they are usually cool, I met most of them randomly irl or on internet tho so idk about where to find them. I guess nerdy spaces irl if you're into anything like that?
>>41484759I have met autistic women, and they did seem cool, until I learned they vehemently hated trannies, the employed, men, trannies again, NTyps, and anyone who watched sports or cooked for themselves because it was too normie.
>>41484744>Yes, in defense of good women who you claim exist but can't recall where.have you considered that they might all just be avoiding you?
>>41484771You might have just met the crystal cafe type? The ones I met were better adjusted and tended to be more empathetic with me and actually try to understand me. My best friend rn is an obvious autist who got diagnosed recently and she's always been super nice to me and treats me like a regular girl
>>41484782I'll admit she's apparently really bad at cooking though... Pretty much survives on takeout and super basic meals it seems, but that might not be that weird for a millenial office lady I think...? I mean if she can afford all that takeout ig it's not so weird that she'd choose to eat it almost everyday instead of learning to cook right... I'll simply cook nice food for her everyday if she ever takes up my offer to be roommates
>>41484771bestie I promise you peoples negative attitudes towards neurotypicals are not a factor in them not liking you
>>41484777This is no different from the boymoder brainworms where they think everyone is clocking them but still use she/her to be polite. I tend to avoid thinking in conspiracies.>>41484782That's great for you. If only someone knew where these types of women hung out. They aren't at my job or in any third spaces I'm in for malebrained or fembrained stuff.
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>>41484806The psych ward? Some of the evilest women I've met have been in and out of the psych ward like it's a vacation home. Unless I'm supposed to meet them while I'm there myself, in which case I would agree that never having attempted suicide continues to be one of my worst life decisions.
>>41484802They tend to keep to themselves and not go out much for non-needed reasons so all the ones I met irl were when I was a student or through friends who brought them along. I guess niche irl events like anime cons or non-mainstream music concerts would have a fair amount of them too, they'd be the only women likely to attend so it'd be as simple as befriending the few women you see there.I met bestie in a forum but that's kinda cringe cause distance sucks so try to meet someone irl first before resorting to that
>>41484816cousin what the fuck are you talking about
>>41481117You are a sage now. You've gained insights most mortals can't comprehend. Unfortunately this can be lonely. Most cissies are simple, judgemental and boring. You will just have to rigorously filter the good people.
>>41484819>when I was a studentThis is 1000% true, spergs who never went to college when they were young will never have a fulfilling social life
>>41485249>spergs who never went to college when they were young will never have a fulfilling social lifeWhy is this so painfully true? What did we even do to socialize before universities existed?
>>41483269BRB gonna roid up and listen to every JRE episode and open a Robinhood account.>>41484622Depends on your age, I feel like it would be easier if you are young. If you are in your 30s, most people in your age range are late transitioners with very different experiences, and cis people tend to be less ok with troons by default.>>41484698I love how anyone who points out that women tend to shy away from certain interests gets battered with middle school tier insults. It really makes you think.>>41484680They seemed easy enough to find in school. As a working person, I don't think they even exist.
>>41485923>I feel like it would be easier if you are young. If you are in your 30s, most people in your age range are late transitioners with very different experiences, and cis people tend to be less ok with troons by default.It's so fucking over.>t. 31
>>41481117>self proclaimed success>asking board of bottomfeeder NEET/addict/loser/polycule-havers for advice
>>41488222I love 30 year old trannies.
>>41488222Same.Where are you from, anon?
>>41488732At least somebody does...>>41489861PNW, not a transplant tho just a homegrown midshit
>>41488682Well rounded people seek out different or opposing perspectives.
>>41491099they also seek out drive thrus
>>41481117>cis women are very alien, mostly hedonistic interests, nothing substantive, very prone to socially punishing non-conformismNo idea where you people get these ideas from, the vast majority of women in my life all have at least one creative pursuit, are often engaged in the local community and are 100x more open, curious and accepting of others compared to the men I know who are all either nihilistic consoomers or thoughtless hypercompetitive grindsetters, all locked in chud-adjacent mind prisons.
