/lgbt/ - How do you really know you've felt romantic attrac - Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, & Transgender

Anonymous

10/27/25(Mon)00:23:56 No.41482724

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Anonymous 10/27/25(Mon)00:23:56 No.41482724 Archived

How do you really know you've felt romantic attraction if you're a handholdless virgin? I know what sexual attraction feels like but how can you tell the difference?

Anonymous
10/27/25(Mon)00:42:14 No.41482876

Anonymous 10/27/25(Mon)00:42:14 No.41482876

>>41482724
It just feels different. Like how being happy feels different than being scared
Some overlap but largely a different spectrum of emotion, at least for me

Anonymous
10/27/25(Mon)00:46:14 No.41482917

Anonymous 10/27/25(Mon)00:46:14 No.41482917

>>41482724
I never really felt it 100% for sure until I got physical with a guy for the first time. I definitely was incapable of feeling it pre trooning, and after trooning I just kinda knew based on how much I desperately wanted a relationship that I was capable of it. I don't think it can be described well. It's kind of an obsessive longing for someone, but you'll just kind of be able to identify it if it happens.

Anonymous
10/27/25(Mon)07:06:12 No.41485028

Anonymous 10/27/25(Mon)07:06:12 No.41485028

>>41482724
bumping for opinions, I'd like to know too

Anonymous
10/27/25(Mon)07:10:20 No.41485041

Anonymous 10/27/25(Mon)07:10:20 No.41485041

>>41482724
Their overall well being and happiness is of great concern to you. That you would cuddle them and enjoy spending time with them. Like a best friend that is undeniably attractive. Sex is great but its not the be all end all. Its honestly just cosy. But dont be too idealistic, they are human and so are you. People will make mistakes, what those are and how you communicate and handle it will determine alot.