how do i bottom for anal sex if im too anxious about something going wrong / am kind of grossed out by it. i douche and nothings ever happened yet but thats besides the pointwhy are my partners never worried about it like i am? are they stupid?
>>41484215Anyone who has fucked a lot of ass understands the small chance of there being specks of shit, things just be like that. If you eat healthy amount of fibers and there shouldn't be any sticky or runny mousse shit people tend to be worried about. I've had many distinct pieces of feces rubbing my shaft as I go balls deep in someone's ass and honestly I don't reall give a fuck. If I know my partner is queasy I might discreetly wipe it off my cock when I pull out completely as I watch their hole gape anyway.
>>41484215Half the reason I only top is dysphoria based but the other half is I’m too nervous about using the less dysphoric option for this exact reason. I’ve had things go wrong when I topped other people before and I didn’t really care because I’m grown I know what I potentially signed up for, but if it was the other way around idk how I would recover from thatt. pooner
>>41484320My lil dood, if you're afraid of little shit during thorough assfucking you're acting mighty fembrained. I really don't give a fuck, I have wet wipes at arm's lenght for a reason. Just let yourself go and enjoy my cock slipping through your sigmoid colon.
>>41484424Why would I care if some retard who can’t even proofread a bait post gives a fuck or not. Maybe even autists can be right about some things though. You kind of have a point, making up bullshit reasons for why I don’t like bottoming is weapons grade copium. There’s nothing to be afraid of, shoving 8 inches of plastic in someone is just better in every conceivable aspect
