For context, I'm a bisexual woman who, probably due to growing up in an abusive homophobic household, is strictly dominant in an often sadistic manner.I've had no trouble with women, they're quite easy and fun to toy with, but for some reason dudes just have insane confidence and think they can subdue me if they try hard enough.It's such a turn off when a cocky mf, even though he claimed he wanted a mommy to dom him, starts pounding me and calling me shit like slut to see if they can turn me submissive.Are submissive boys a thing or are they just performative? ATP I'm gonna give up on men.
>>41488531the castrated ones on estrogen do
sadism doesn't work anon, cruelty is how men challenge each other, you've gotta kill em with kindness
>>41488531They exist, but you aren't attracted to them. No woman is, it's entirely a myth.
>>41488556Funny reply idea, where you just deny OPs premise and never actually talk about what the threads about.
It's performative, you can't dominate a man. I'd let a woman dom me sometimes but it would be me letting her, knowing I could flip and rail her any moment. It's still nice to submit and let the woman take control if I trust her. There are ways to break a man if you wanted but it's beyond ethical you wouldn't like who comes out the other side and he'll resent you.
>>41488571Denying the premise is talking about the thread
>>41488572all sex is performative unless you are literal rapist, anon.
>>41488549Not that I don't act kind to them, it's in bed that stuff falls flat.>>41488556I'd like you to kindly point me to the ones that aren't homosexual please, it's all there is in my area
-41488580Beautiful cope
>>41488587>I'd like you to kindly point me to the ones that aren't homosexual pleasethey sit at home and are sad that they can't get a gf aka half of the people on this board
>>41488581Some of us follow our instincts, hollow one.
>>41488531Yes but they’re usually so fucked up and insecure about it that they’re too mentally ill to be worth dealing with.Getting ahold of one is like trying to catch a feral cat, and they always sort of resent you and their own submissiveness in a way that drives them nuts until they become nasty and awful all the time.Then half of them come out as gay.
>>41488531the actual submissive men have had their hopes dashed so many times that they no longer believe if's possible for you to be real. so you don't even make contact with themthe assumption is that, even if this is literally presented to them on a silver platter, you must be blustering or shit testing or trying to pull some other psychological trick, because that's what's happened every other time this mirage has appeared before themthis includes every reply you got above me in this thread
>>41488531I am a submissive boy, but I only like gentledom girls. I like it if you're assertive and boss me around, but if you start insulting me, beating me, and getting angry and violent I stop liking it.Most guys that are submissive are so because of childhood trauma, so if you don't like hugging or reassuring your bottom bf he'll lose interest
>>41488556sybau im cisf and i only like submissive boys anything else is cringe
>>41488531There are a lot of cues that we’re supposed to expect from women to determine whether she’s enjoying sex. Unfortunately they’re all related to her pleasure in a submissive whimpering but also voyeuristic way (women seem to love watching her man fuck and cum and such), so i think sometimes a dominant woman appears stoic and cold in the absence of this melty gazing up or back at him, and it’s hard to tell if she’s enjoying herself. Boys probably wonder if a dominant girl really exists in much the same manner you’re wondering if a submissive boy exists but flipped. And maybe due to experiences with an apparently mommy dom type who ends up having a switch wish to get off in the end. Convince a subby guy that you love annihilating him, that you love watching him in THIS manner and not the other, never let him get the upper hand and mix your dominance with affectionate lovey times and he’s yours forever, i bet :3
>>41488645>sybau im cisf and i only like submissive boysthe fuck are you doing on this board or are you some variation of femrepper?
>>41488656I like women and cute boys and there are a billion here
>>41488674>I like women and cute boysthen i misread the 'i only like submissive boys'
>>41488645The things I would do for a dominant woman.
>>41488531There isn't a lonelier life than being 100% submissive female-attracted man.
>>41488531if you want submissive boys, you'll have to go for gay bottoms. remove your boobs, get a phalloplasty, and inject testosterone until your whole body is covered in hair and you grow a beard. it's the only way sis>inb4 bottoms don't like poonerscheck this thread sis>>41485560
>>41488531I wouldn't mind subbing for a dominant woman but I fear she'd leave me cause it might get boring for her
>>41488545Tsmt
>>41488531yes. although I'm wholly ashamed of it. and there are billions on this planet of course they exist.>>41488597trve nvke thovgh...
>>41488712Obvious pooner psyop
Excuse me, miss. I am a Feral Femboy looking for a Forever Home. Submissive guys really do exist.
>>41488829if male chasers transition in order to get a trans girlfriend, why shouldn't females do the same? girls should do the same effort guys do to get a SO
>OP leaves after 1 replynice bait
>>41488531Bruh
>>41488897Who respects transbians? Nobody. I'd do almost anything for a tranny gf but I wouldn't give up my masculinity.
>>41488587Fuck homoeexual ones>b-but they are gay!?!?Yes and?
>>41488531>Are submissive boys a thing or are they just performative? They exist but they only submit to real authority, and you probably don't have any
>>41488615100% true literally meWay easier to be cookie cutter dom man at this point
>>41488531i thought i was a submissive boy for a long time and then i grew up to be a girl so desu maybe not
>>41489769actually on second thought all (straight) men rely on women for sex and to stroke their egos and nurture them emotionally so maybe submissive men are the only kind that exist
>>41488531they absolutely dodominant women, however, do not
>>41488531tourist for /r9k/yes we exist, many of us of virgins evenI regret being such a recluse in my youth, I shouldve searched for a sadistic dom gf when I was 18I am 24 now, well at least I look young ig :/
>>41488531Maybe you should be pegging them instead. You can’t be bottoming and say you’re the dominate one.
>>41488531As bisexual male with a growing interest in submitting to women (after being quite Dom with women for the most part) and speaking only for myself lol....the answer is I dont know. It really depends on the woman. I mean, you have to be worthy...but if you are then I feel like I could surrender to you and please you in any way you need. I dont know if I could ever give up penetrating a female but that doesnt nec have to be a dominance thing and I could def do it without being an aggro douche
Op has already ditched us so there's no point in posting anything but I'll post what I think.I think the trve sub men are the weirdo autistic virgins taking E and playing vidya or watching anime all day which would very likely repulse OP in the first place were the two to ever meet.The sub men OP runs into are the BDSM tourists who do it for the fetish other than the deep, burning servitude-based connection that goes beyond sexuality. The trve subs OP is looking for wouldn't even allow themselves to be caught by OP looking at her, let alone approaching her.Speaking on my behalf, I'm a sub who'd surrender himself in body and soul to a dominant woman, but the shortlived interactions I've had with dominant women on FetLife left a very bad taste in my mouth. So basically I don't make the cut at all and should a dominant woman become interested in me, she'll instantly lose interest due to the inherent autistic uninterestingness of my character.Basically there's an invisible and unsurpassable wall separating OP from the men she wants to get involved with and the same applies to the men who are looking for OP.tl;dr everyone loses
>>41488531This is insane, I feel this way about women. I'm usually dominant and into other men, but I'll sub for women on occasion (for similar childhood traumatic reasons). But it always ends up with them wanting me to choke them, or beat tjem up, or they want to get tied up when they learn I know ropes. Not even anything fun or weird like having me sit on thir face. I feel your pain.
>>41488531hi, im a cis guy who is terminally submissive. even the mere thought of being dominant in the bedroom disgusts me deeply
>>41490671I heard you dominate men and know ropes so you have my full throbbing erect attention. My throbbing focus is completely on you. I'm sorry you get relegated to such monotonous dynamics with people who claimed to offer you better, that must be a sour disappointment. Won't pretend I want your luck with women to be better since I prefer you be for men, but for your own fulfillment it's worth continuing to try and to believe in people because giving up hurts worse
>>41488531Real subs are just rare in general actually. Even women are like this.They aren't "submissive" they want you to be the faceless aggressor in the pursuit fantasy they've developed due to their low self esteem. Most submissive men are the same way, they just want you to pursue them and treat them like a prize.
>>41488531I'm submissive until the post nut clarity hits.I love the dark/monstrous feminine but I don't go for the whole "submission as a lifestyle" bit.My mother was overbearing and codependent. I never want to experience that dynamic with a woman I date. I'm strongly attracted to very butch, muscular, and damaged women for whatever reason.t. bisexual man whose fetishes are driven by trauma and compulsion
>>41488531we exist. you just have to find the ones who aren't complete pushovers out of the bedroom and can stand up for themselves. bonus points if they're inexperienced so you can teach them how to pleasure you and they'll hold onto it forever
>>41490778The absolute truth
>>41490796>>41488531>For context, I'm a bisexual woman who, probably due to growing up in an abusive homophobic household, is strictly dominant in an often sadistic manner.2/2Have you heard of Laura Reynolds? She's an openly AAP woman who is basically straight but wants to be very dominant and fuck like a dommy masc gay guy. The way you write reminds me of herhttps://youtu.be/z8cBtru-RbUhttps://youtu.be/VtYqh_zPr-Y
>>41490777Immediately willing to debase yourself, reverently devoting your full attention, making an ass of yourself because of how horny you are. This is why I mostly fuck men. It's too easy. You're pathetic.
>>41488531I'm a regular guy that's submissive. Want to be a service top.
>>41490943Mmmm, and absolutely worth it for this moment. Ugh, it's pitiful, like a dog wagging his tail because you're petting him and doesn't understand you're calling him a stupid messy mutt at the same time. That warm dizzy gooey needy feeling is so so good I don't have the self preservation to conduct myself with dignity
>>41488613I'm a submissive guy and I tried sucking dick and I didn't like it lol. I think I'm more bicurious. I don't feel much attraction to men.
>>41490912>you'll be sucking my toes until graduationthis image made me make the pleading emoji irl
>>41489559very true, they exist, but bisexual woman don't get the job done because it's performative if you can overpower the top
>>41488545Even prior to estrogen I was very sexually submissive
>>41491114>bisexual woman don't get the job done because it's performative if you can overpower the topThere was a passable trans woman at the bookstore last week who was taller and more muscular than me, dressed in all black, and it had me feeling some kind of way. Physical presence, height, build, etc. matters a lot in these discussions
>>41491114>if you can overpower the topI could literally throw every single one of my sex partners across the room. The reason it's hot is because she pinches your nipples and says things in your ear that make your arms feel like noodles.
>>41488615this, I'm primed to think people hate me, or are trying to scam me somehow.unhappy childhood, and then some.
>>41488545I try so hard to fetishize trans women but always ended up thinking theyre beautiful and stare at them in awe. I'm not rly sexually attracted to them however
>>41491248>I'm not rly sexually attracted to them howevertbhon ;_;
>>41488531the thing is most CIS men turn into ugly ogres at some point in life whether that is their 30s or 40s at latest. Life basically pushes them to act like this look because they don't look cute anymore. The only ones that are submissive and have a penis are the trans woman on this board but you aren't attracted to them. Some of them I'd say aren't really trans so that may be closer to what you'd like.
>>41491354You just hate men what the fuck. Men are even hotter as we age. Also leave trans women out of conversations about men they're women
>>41491394>You just hate men what the fuck. Men are even hotter as we ageI didn't say they were not hotter. I said they stopped being cute. >Also leave trans women out of conversations about men they're womenthen they don't exist
>>41491443Manly masculine older men ARE cute, like kitties or puppies or babies, they're adorable, and I want to molest them and call them my baby boyAlso backpedaling on your part because you clearly said Ugly Ogres. Dominants attracted to men see the Cute, not everyone likes girls. I don't think women look cute, they look exhausting to me
>>41488531>I've had no trouble with women, they're quite easy and fun to toy withBeing born male means that women are creatures far beyond your star, they live in an Eden barred to those marked with the sin of being males - even estrogenized ones. What is it like to be desired and wanted?I wish I could be you or be with you, if all this isn't a larp..............suicide soon i expect
>>41491940teeheehee i'm a woman~
>>41492010my heart is to black and cold now don't talk like thatnobody wanted me except as the object of violence and utility that is the only use that the females of the human species have for malesruinedlike a feral dog or cat who could have been nice and fluffy if someone had adopted them when they were younger but now they're too jaded and reacted to be anything other than scared or viciousbest off put down....
>>41488531Marry me, right now.
>>41491940>suicide soon i expectdo a flip retard
>>41488531i begged a woman to ash her cigs on my arm every single time she smoked around me. i'm pretty sure actually sub men exist, i in fact am one of them.t.subby man
>>41488531Yes we do
>Do submissive boys existObviously they do, finding a guy who wants to sub is about has hard as finding one over 6 foot, some surprisingly women dont seem to have an issue doing that.
