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Anonymous

10/27/25(Mon)18:39:58 No.41490483

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Anonymous 10/27/25(Mon)18:39:58 No.41490483 Archived

>Spent months crushing hard on a friend
>Get into a situationship
>Unable to spend time with her as much as I would like due to life circumstances
>Tells me she is unable to be in a relationship for mental reasons and she’s incapable of being loved
>Exactly a week later she tells me she gets a bf and she’s posting all about it on social media and our mutual friends are dming me about it
I kinda want to stop talking to her all together but I don’t want to stop being friends. I’m fine with not wanting to be in a relationship but it just kinda sucks to be told that then immediately after she gets into a relationship.
On top of this, regardless, we were planning on getting an apartment together regardless of a relationship and she called that off too for vague reasons that keep changing so now I’m stuck living with my parents after getting kicked out where I was living.

Would I be stupid for ghosting her?

Sorry for the glorified Reddit post I’m just really mad and I don’t have anyone to talk about this with.

Anonymous
10/27/25(Mon)20:05:19 No.41491645

Anonymous 10/27/25(Mon)20:05:19 No.41491645

>>41490483
what an awful person

Anonymous
10/27/25(Mon)22:11:36 No.41493396

Anonymous 10/27/25(Mon)22:11:36 No.41493396

>>41490483
It sounds like you just dodged a nasty, hardcore avoidant attachment hoe. Universe is looking out for you

Anonymous
10/27/25(Mon)22:20:53 No.41493498

Anonymous 10/27/25(Mon)22:20:53 No.41493498

>>41490483
i think you should kill her desu

cord
10/27/25(Mon)22:31:23 No.41493592

cord 10/27/25(Mon)22:31:23 No.41493592

>>41490483
definitely just distance yourself. don't be upset but realize your own worth. sucks she couldn't just be upfront with you