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HELP
my son has been acting really faggy lately
we tried to force him to do soccer camp last summer and it was a disaster and they said he wouldn't stop crying and we had to drive 4 hours and come pick him up
we added an after-school "stem enrichment" program in hopes of a softer masculinization and that failed to take either

how do I get my son to take estrogen? I don't think being male is working out for him and I don't want to risk further embarrassment to our family
this is tearing apart my marriage and my wife has been threatening to go stay with her sister for a week if I don't "sort the troubled little guy" out
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>>41499470
ok retard literally just ask ur son what he wants to do then give him support and love. why do people struggle with parenting when its literally just that simple
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>>41499499
At this point I kinda don't care what he wants. He acts like a girl so I'm gonna make him one. This has been years of putting up with him having tantrums when we try to get him to do anything remotely masculine. I tried to get him to help me work on my car - my daughter loves it, she hands me the different tools, she gets really into it. My son - he hid his barbie in the waistband of his sweatpants and the second I started wrenching he ignored me and played with the doll. it's hopeless.
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>>41499553
you clearly fucking hate him lol. you need to actually understand and love ur kids for who they are instead of projecting who u want them to be on them. this is obviously bait but when u actually become a parent u should know this so ur kids dont despise u
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>>41499615
how hard is it to just play soccer for TWO WEEKS without crying all day and demanding to just be let to sit in the cabin and play with your damn dolls?
the other boys laugh at him
he's screwed as an adult, something needs to change
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>>41499622
then ASK HIM WHAT HE WANTS AND UNDERSTAND HIS NEEDS!!! like holy shit take him to an acting class or dance or something i was a faggy kid and i ate that up. and guess what im a fucking adult now and im fine i make 6 figures as an engineer. literally just support his fucking decisions dude
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>>41499622
Most children would be screwed as adults, that's why they're children. If he expresses a desire to be a girl, fine. Decades of studies have shown that just imposing a different gender on your kid because you find it more convenient will almost inevitable be a disaster. You think your kid is annoying now? Imagine how annoyed you'll be when he writes a book about you.
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>>41499470
faggot here
a lot of my faggotry stems from my dad being disappointed in me
everyone here has a bad relationship with their dad
the best chance you have at straightening him out is making him feel that you love him and you're proud of him
if he likes something don't treat it as gay make him seem like a cool masculine kid for liking it
make sure he sees himself as masculine and masculinity is a positive trait to have
then maybe throw in some "the ladies will love you"
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>>41500751
just reading this feels like i'm being fixed
it's too late to fix me though
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>>41499470
Soccer?? To make him LESS QUEER?? HAHAHAHAAH. Soccer is the gayman's soft ball
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>>41500751
would he be proud of me if I made him into a beautiful woman?
just like, anticipating his future needs?
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>>41502802
I wish my dad had done that to me!



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