do any trans women here have experience with starting to date men in their late 20s/early 30s?im getting srs this summer at age 29 and i think i'll finally be ready to start dating after i recover. im a khhv i've only been on a couple dates ever because i have always hated my body too much to pursue it seriously and i'm also a bit of a social recluse.i pass (in a cishon-adjacent way, haven't been misgendered in years mostly thanks to voice + 4 years hrt) and i have a well paying career but i worry that my embarrassing lack of experience at my age will be an issue :(
>>41504958being a tranny virgin is one thing, but still being one after 4 years of hrt is another
>>41504997anal grosses me out and i have a lot of bottom dysphoria so i've been waiting for srs
>>41504958you'll never see what dick sex feels like :(
>>41504958i was like you.. now i'm 31 and have done all kinds of wild sex thingsfirst couple times were awkward though..especially since i still wasn't quite sure my vagina even worked
like trans rights and whatever but never experiencing dick sex seems crazy to me
>>41504997im like 6y on hrt and a virgin lol
>>41505683why should we experience something like that. it's not for girls.t. another girl who cut hers off before having sex with it
>>41506012life is a set of experiences. to deprive oneself of an experience, no matter how unpleasant we think it is, seems shortsighted. what could we have learned from this. what could we have gained from this
>>41506027i can still have sex i just use my pussy to do it
>>41504958How are you going to recover if you are a social recluse living on your own? They wont let you get SRS unless you have a caretaker.
>>41506027Trauma is a real thing, and dick sex is traumatically underwhelming.Plus it's kinda hot that she is going to get boned by dudes and have no idea what it is like for them. Real fembrained stuff right there! >OP was born with a dick but is still going to be just as clueless at what a good blow job feels like as the next cisfem
>>41505063>>41505683i never wanted it in the first place. i thought i was ace before i transitioned so it would never have been used regardless. i can kind of see the experience angle but i would personally find it upsetting enough to not be worth it>>41505601that's promising ty for sharing. not looking forward to that initial awkwardness but there's no avoiding that. honestly im most worried about even finding a bf in general without the relationship experience. i dont want to be a burden while im learning stuff i should have worked out years ago lol
>>41506130my mom agreed to help take care of me for the first 2-3 weeks (my family is conservative so i was worried but she agreed to help). i have some online friends from college that agreed to help as backup if that falls through. social recluse may have been too strong of wording. i live alone and only leave my apartment to go to work, the store, or the movie theater but i keep in contact with friends online daily
>>41506037stop talking about your poopchute like that
bumping this thread because im also a turbovirgin and this is probably going to be me
>>41506147>i don't want to be a burden while i'm learning stuff i should have worked out years ago.awkwardness is normal, don't let it stop you from trying it; if you find the right guy and explain to him the situation then i'm sure he won't mind, will understand and happily guide you through the whole thing.
>>41505683Yeah. That's because you're a man.
>>41506147I kind of lucked into finding a boyfriend since he just asked me out in public which isn't very common these days
>>41504958Your dating experience will be the same as when you left it but worse.
>>41506027>life is a set of experiences.makes sense>to deprive oneself of an experience, no matter how unpleasant we think it is, seems shortsightedokay but waterboarding fits this description retard>what could we have learned from thisi learned you are a retarded person>what could we have gained from thisnothing at all
