>debilitating baby fever>born a boy only into guys There's worse things than death here.
>>41508468It’s genuinely so bad. I wanted to be a mom since before I even knew what being trans was. And as a kid I used to insist on playing the mom when we played house. All I actually want in life is a boring ass life with a husband and two kids but instead I’m a fucking tranny, what shit luck
>>41508468let me let u in on a secret: if ur cute and feminine enough, god has made it so that if you find a strong masculine man to pump his virile semen inyou on a near daily basis, you'll actually become pregnant. just look really cute and act girly and itll happen trust
>>41508522Pretty similar here. To even get to a place where adoption is even a possibility, I need $40K to even enter (it's that expensive), which means I need a good job, and given the current job market I have many sleepless nights over the fact that even this clumsy solution really doesn't seem feasible.>>41508662Epic posts like these are just masturbatory, because they do nothing to address the reality of the situation. It's still excruciating.I pass, I'm cute, post-surgery I can actually look at myself in the mirror for the first time in my life. And yet such a basic thing effectively permanently evades me.
>>41508693>post surgeryyou got SRS? I just take the point of optimism. the unfortunate truth is that such procedures are preeetty far off from being real. ive heard of some theoretical stuff where a uterus is implanted in another body to allow pregnancy, but its only hypothetical. there's always surrogacy.it can be a nice alternative to all the doom and gloom. and a partner doing the 'act' of making their partner pregnant can certainly help the psychological aspect
>>41508468If that's the case then I think this might interest you >>41496229
>>41508754No, I think vaginas are gross. I got FFS, was the implication (looking at myself in the mirror).Surrogacy is also insanely expensive. I don't have that kind of money, to say nothing of ethical issues (I don't view women's bodies as commodities." >>41508769I really just can't begin to care about sci-fi stuff like uterine transplants, though I am aware of the recent transformations into gametes. Ultimately that doesn't matter either because "muh nature" and "muh ethics," even if it's physiologically possible, if it's going to get cockblocked at the government level, it's a moot point. Who cares. It's just autistic to even make threads like that because they don't consider reality. It's frustrating that people don't understand that. My life is real and it is short and I don't have the luxury of going "wow maybe in 3001 both technology and society will be at a point where I can fulfill my dream!"
>>41508886>i think vaginas are grossa kindred spirit. From your posts i imagined you were interested or had done SRS. i personally view SRS as barbaric and not advanced enough whatsoever. and personally i think sticking to what's natural with minimal modifications is the best way to go about it.When u say u have baby fever, is that the act of actually having a child and birthing it? or do you just want to raise a child and see them grow up in front of you into a wonderful kind person? I knew a guy who wanted to raise a kid but he didnt want to actually deal with a toddler or someone below 12. he wanted a kid who was already a bit grown.
>>41508927I just want a baby. They're adorable and I get along with them and they always make me smile. I want to be a mom.
>>41508886>Governmental level There are plenty of other governments in the world and the important research isn't happening in America, why bring it up if you didn't want the data?>>41508927Of course you don't want a vag, you're most likely into dick & find cis vaginas off-putting too
>>41508960That's really cute. if you had a partner you liked, would you want to adopt? or do you want the child to be of your own blood>>41509022ive dated ciswomen before. its not that. i just think trans girls try a lot harder to be a good wife than cis women do.
Having had 2 kids now I can assure you that you all should never become parents. Everyone thinks they want a baby until they are waking up to screaming and shitting at the crack of 3 am.
>>41509079>It has NOTHING to do with sexIf you want me to believe that then you shouldn't have opened by talking about which genitals you want trans women to have
>>41509022I didn't introduce it to the conversation. Moving from America carries with it a lot of financial and legal burdens on top of the already exorbitant costs having a kid in any type of way would bring. Logistically it's just messy even in the best case.>>41509079I'd like to adopt. It seems the "most" feasible (0.000001% chance instead of 0%).>>41509086Please have a little empathy.
>>41509134i didnt say that. i said that the procedure is just not advanced enough, and that the risks far outweigh the pros.>>41509199is there a specific type of child you'd like to adopt? girl, boy, of your own ethnicity or any? what if your partner wanted to adopt multiple children.
>>41509237I'm genuinely not picky. I can't imagine caring about such things, not in a rude way. I think he only wants one. I'd be content with one, haven't thought about more than one for feasibility reasons.
>>41509262interesting. you seem like a very kind and genuine person. if i knew you more id probably ask you out. i have similar ideals.
>>41509294It's a little frustrating that people treat /tttt/ as a dating app more or less. I'm taken I'm just trying to have a normal conversation about something specific to the alphabet experience...
>>41509199Yeah I know, but having kids in general is gonna be expensive anyway & research like this is a great stepping stone to trans & queer people having bio kids safely and ethically, it's good that this research is happening & can't be meddled with by the US gov.>>41509237Well idk what to tell you, unless you plan on waiting for artificial wombs to develop then if you ever want to have bio kids with a trans woman then she'll most likely need some sort of vaginoplasty regardless. If the dick is so important to you then find a girl who took the penile preserving route
>>41509237>i didnt say that. i said that the procedure is just not advanced enough, and that the risks far outweigh the pros.literally nta but hop off for once, it's one of the only surgeries with dedicated surgeons who perform nothing but that particular surgery. people call it disgusting because theyre coomers and/or transphobic, there are by comparison barbaric surgeries done to restore post accident genitals etc that noone mocks ever. there's more propaganda online than u think lol, srs has come a very long way since the 70s
Can we not derail my thread arguing over SRS please
>>41508468>>41508522Such a mood. It only got worse once my sister got pregnant. I always felt so secure in my womanhood because I was exactly like my sister. Any time I felt insecure I would think about how she was the same and I would be like, see, it's normal to be like this. Now that she's a mom, it's created an emotional divide for me. I'm no longer like her. I feel more and more trans and less and less woman because I can't have children. Men have broken up with me because I can't have kids. I feel like a fraud. All I want is to be a mother too..
>>41509816> Men have broken up with me because I can't have kids. I feel like a fraud. All I want is to be a mother too..I’m so afraid of this. All I want is to have a quiet boring life with a husband and kids but because I can’t have kids there are a lot of men who would leave me even if they otherwise loved me. It stings so bad, all I want to is to be good for them and to have a family. I know they won’t be ours by blood but they’d still be ours, I’d try so hard, I’d be so good, I’d raise them right. We could be so proud of them, but because the codes in their cells will be different from his that’s enough to ruin a relationship? It’s so unfair. Why can’t our love be enough? Why can’t I be enough?if I could give my future husband children I would in a heartbeat, but because of the original sin of my birth I’ll never have that
>>41509917; -; your post is making me cry because I feel it so hard. Right? Why can't our love be enough? I would love those children like my own. I don't care if we adopt or we use your seed for surrogates, they will be MY children. OUR children. They just say it's not the same. Why? Why can't it be the same? I can't do anything about it. Why is what I have not enough?
>>41509971I know there are men out there who would be willing to adopt but it really does feel like a pipe dream sometimes. My goals in life have become so boring. Used to want to be an astronaut, now the unrealistic dream is that I get to live the normal boring life that must cis people get. All I want is to have a family and be loved, I know we’ll find it one day but fuck it hurts waiting
>>41510125I dunno how old you are, but I'm nearing 40 and I feel like it's not gonna happen for me. My hope right now is that I meet a nice divorced man with relatively young children. That way I can become a step mom, but they are young enough to like, actually be attached to me and love me. I'm not just dad's wife, but someone they maybe can call mom too...Maybe that's too much to ask for as well.
