I feel really sad, can I talk to someone here about it please
>>41519061whats wrong, nona?you wanna vent here or on any other socials?
>>41519076I have no drive and never make effort to be someone and I get really sad whenever I see others make effort and achieve thingsI constantly give up, dig myself into a deeper hole, and feel ashamed whenever I try to dig out, digging myself deeper and deeper downI'm not talking about anything specific cause it applies to so much in my life, even stuff I enjoy like video games, my friends have gotten immensely better then me and I feel so far behind, in everything in life I feel so far behind, and I can never do anything about itI jerk off and cry and weep to myself, that's all I have the courage to do
>>41519061pats for you nona, lots of love
>>41519119You need a hug and a friend, nonaIf we were closer, I'd force you to hang out with me
>>41519186I started crying, I think in balding too, and it's eating my soul, when I pull my hair back and look at the mirror, it fills me with such, harrow, that I can't describe, I am destined to be a fail male cuck, and there's nothing I could do about it, I think I'm gonna commit suicide, but im not gonna do it, but Im too scared, I need some way to psuedo kill myself please someone tell me, I wanna give up I wanna give up so badly I wanna know some people at to give up, I don't wanna be a bald skinny cuck, I'm gonna bash my head against the wall to make it smaller
>>41519229It's not the end of the world, nona...For what it's worth, this anon cares about you
>>41519119i feel you nona, ive been too exhausted to do much of anything this year aside from never-ending thinking
>>41519292How do you know that it isn't for me, everything is about appearance and if I'm ugly I should kill myself that's just the hard bitter truth
>>41519229assuming youre on AAs, have you checked with a derm to see if theres anything you can do? minoxidil? fin/deutasteride?
>>41519331>everything is about appearancenot necessarily...what time is it rn where you're from?
>>41519342I have no money to spend on treatment, I don't even know what an AA is, there Is nothing I could do, I beg my parents to help me but they tell me it's a non issue
>>41519119iktf anon. sometimes you just need to accept that you have to try harder than other people to get to the same place. you also have to find the joy in your own W's without worrying about the outside world'everything has already been done, but it hasn't been done by you'beyond that, it is also much easier to see what we admire in others than to recognize what we like in ourselves
>>41519348Everything is about appearance when your a shallow boring cunt like me with no talents, no achievement, and no ambitions, the only way I could have value is being physically good looking, if I don't have that, then people will be disgusted, repulsed, they will see me as less then cow shit, people wouldn't even want me to sit in the cuck chair, I'd look too repulsive and ruin thheir horniness, I can't stand existing, being birthed as the most literal pile of putrid shit
>>41519356AAs anti-androgens, sprio, cypro, etc., i'd reccomend using topical minoxidil for the time being even if just for assurance, you can get it for cheap especially if you buy generic. i have telogen efflevium and its been helpful keeping it under control - just spray it a few times across the affected areas (i do 6 sprays in the morning and 6 in the evening)beyond that, for now you can also try your look with scalp massages and making sure you eat/sleep/hydrate as well as possible. nothing is guaranteed but yea
>>41519061https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jOrtTS4AlYU&list=RDjOrtTS4AlYU&start_radio=1
>>41519439Does spraying really do anything or is it just another placebo cope to make myself feel better,I have never seen any of those work aside from a straight hair transplant
>>41519398>shallow, boring cuntHow old are you, nona? You sound youngI used to feel the same way but as I got older, I realized that I've done some pretty cool stuffWhat I'm trying to say is that, if your appearance can't carry you, you start carrying yourselfget a job, pick up a hobby, do volunteer work or something, anything really
>>41519505I'm 18, I'm only getting uglier and having even less drive from now on, so whats the point
>>41519625jfc you kids and your suicidal ideation on superficial fluffI don't know what else to say, nona
>>41519730If it's so superficial then why am I so hung up on it to the point that it ruins every day for me even if it's a good one I suddenly realise what I am and feel like someone punched me in the gut
>>41519864Because you're young and for you guys, youth and being validated for your youth is everythingit's not the end of the road, nonayou've got a long loooooong way to go
