>boymoding>going to mcdonalds >walk past a group of guys as im walking in>hear one say ‘is that a man?’>they follow me in >keep looking over at me when I’m ordering >hear them debating what gender I am>they finally agree that im a woman>one smiles at me when i leave Why are cissoids like this
At least one of that group watches tranny porn
>>41528067Why do you say that
>>41528039completely failed boymode. that’s not boymoding. when i boymode people don’t do that to me lol
Tfw you get "the stare" and you can feel being observed for 0.2 seconds until you turn to them and they quickly look away
>>41528217Yep
>>41528217I literally couldn’t do anything more to boymode, i just have long hair
me when i boymode: actually baggy MENs clothing(you fuckers buy female hoodies and women’s jeans and call it boymoding), slight slouch so they can’t see your tits, hair tied up helps if it’s long. stare directly at people’s eyes it freaks them out and makes them think you’re male
>>41528039WHY DO THEY NEED TO KNOW? WHAT DOES IT MATTER I DON'T EVEN TALK TO YOU
>>41528233there’s a few versions of being stared at as an AMAB:1. the one you get when perceived as a child. slight glance to your form that immediately moves away because they think you’re not meant to be stared at socially (either child or woman)2. the one you get when perceived as an adult male. men look you directly in the eye usually and a lot of the time do that head nod thingy either upwards or downwards depending how well they know you. if it’s a stranger downwards. you can do this too at men while boymoding to pass better if american. 3. the look that straight women give you when they see you as a woman and are turned on by your appearance in the street. they stare at your face mostly and smile a lot and might very briefly glance at your body. 4. the look that you get when someone can’t tell your gender and you’re a year on hrt. look at you, head sort of tilts sideways a bit. they’ll stare unabashedly for a second and then turn away. you won’t know if you’re perceived as a hon unless they laugh. if they don’t laugh u might be passing as one of those androgynous cis people like a taller cis woman with short hair. 5. the look men give you when they perceive you as a woman in the street and are leering at you. incredibly freaky the first few times as an amab when you’re not used to it. reverse of the female-hitting-on-you look. instead they look at your face incredibly fast and do this weird up down motion from your tits to your legs. they might smile a bit but in a really freaky way. when men perceive you as another man they often won’t smile at you maybe a little fake smile look but they’ll nod their head. 6. the look women give you when you’re perceived as a woman.
>>41528349sorry i mistyped. for number 3 its supposed to be when cis women see you as an attractive male. NOT a woman haha because they kind of frown or smile at u when u pass depending how pretty u are and how similar ur style is to hers
>>41528309I always wonder this. I get so tired of it, even when i deliberately don’t want to be observed by men (and it is mostly men) they still go out of their way to inspect you and interrogate you. As much as I can enjoy being androgynous it’s also so exhausting having people constantly unsure of how to treat you, as though gender should even factor into whether you treat someone with politeness.
>>41528349>>41528361These are all true and are what I’ve experienced too. The male leers are so true. The worst for it are black guys and Indian guys, I find. I used to be quite confident and outgoing and dressed more femininely, but I just got so sick of being looked at like that. I just boymode/androgynemode now because guys don’t like it, and they either don’t look or look and then aren’t interested. Women still smile at me, sometimes in a woman-to-woman way and other times just in a ‘you’re not a threat to me’ way. I’m tall and thin with blonde hair so I kind of like the ethereal vibe it gives off, but I do recognise it makes me less attractive to men, which sucks because I do actually want a boyfriend lol. I just hate male attention, especially after being SAd a few times and harassed.
>>41528411this is so real lol. i wear baggy androgynous clothing now because if i dress fem i know its not really a standard i can reach lol. girls will stare at me jealous and catty and men will leer at me but its such a massive world of difference if i just wear cargo pants and dress futchy lol
>>41528349I can recall getting every single one of these at least once, including the hon laugh when I was early on in transition and made the dumb decision to go outside with my breasts padded to like a C cup in boymode. The confused head tilt is very similar to when a dog is trying to understand something, its uncanny. And I remember I started getting the leers from dudes after about a year and a half on hrt, even in regular ass department stores and it scared the shit out of me.
>>41528349its so cool how people get to experience like almost every facet of the human experience
>>41528039Nice malefail.
