make sure to love and appreciate your bf nona
>>41540209HATE my boyfriend
>>41540209i did but he dumped me
>>41540209my bf is distance so I sent him home made cookies and a sappy letter, and he liked them! said he was trying to not eat them all in 2 days they were too good
>>41540209he lives too far away
>>41540209i told him if id get a job i'd probably dump him, he replied with "then get one and fuck off" and we havent talked in 24 hours what should i do? i'd say im sorry but i feel like he wouldnt want to hear an aplogy from met. boymoder, been with him for 5 years
>>41540925why would you tell him that
>>41540925why would you getting a job make you dump him
>>41540946he randomly said that im useless and dont do anything and i've been trying to do as much housework as i can so it hurt me and i was already upset and he started complaining about me leeching off him (he havent said anything about it in several month and even offered to pay for some of my things so i was surprised since it was so sudden) and i was already mad at him so then i said that if i got a job i'd probably move out i was thinking more about the "if i was functioning like a normal preson instead of the barely sentient homunculi that i am i would probably break up with you next time we had an argument since i would thingk ithat i could" i dunno, im just stupid and didnt think he would react that way
>>41540988this is absolutely doomed unless you apologize, get a job, and stay with him through it. obviously he doesn't like you being a stinky neet and thinks you should contribute and its reaching a boiling point. recoverable but will take effort.
>>41541011i used to have a job but then i quit and at the time he told me that it would be okay if i could focus on art and my hobbies but then a lot of bad stuff happened and i got even more depressed and mentality ill so in the end i dont do anything aside from bedrotting and browsing internet all day. I was going to go to a psychiatrist soon to get diagnosed and medicated (im probably bpd) but rn i've been going through my first wave of electrolysis and i've been more annoyed for the past month because of the whole not shaving thing. we were also looking for a job for me and for him to switch from his current one but we didnt last long and he doesnt really bring it up. I honestly dont know where i could work - i used to be a bank consultant and it was fine since i worked from home but then i had a bad month of mentally ill clients screaming at me all day so i started crying every time i had to start working. if id look for a new one it would need to be something remote and also not ppl oriented and i have no idea what i can do if im stupid neet dropout
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>>41541206probably genetics, my mom is also insane
O love my bf. I let him do whatever he wants to me and I always swallow his cum.
>>41541219Not an excuse, be better
