What does it feel to have a job as a tranny? How do you interact with people? If you're a twinkhon, a boymoder, or a manmoder, how do people treat you?
>>41540235oh anonIf you lived with me while I worked my WFH job you would hear screams of pains from the other side of the house.I would yell AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAthen I would be yelling >HELP ME>HELP ME>HELP MElike I was spamming C+1 in TF2
>>41540235Basically same (apart from a two month warehouse job after finishing school)Dropped out of uni in 2017 I think and have been neet ever since almost 30 gay man on estrogen who just looks like a mentally ill man so it's not even lgbt discrimination for meI've been crying a lot today and legitimately think about suicide Do you have any social network irl? I have no friends and even looking people in the eyes and greeting them/smiling when going on walks is a struggle
>>41540235I had a job in a retirement home (independent living) as a boymoder, it was alright, old people are nice and kinda stupid with stricter gender roles so you malefail/get told you look like a girl more than you would at other jobs at least ime
>>41540235If you pass people won’t care. If you pass but people know you are mtf then you will be accepted at the lowest level of the female pecking order or even “gay” best friend level.You will regardless be higher up than most males. I have never worked retail or customer oriented jobs so I don’t know, but I imagine it would be worset. Passing tech mtf in Europe
>>41540295This video speaks to me and is very funny at the same timehttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f_Vcbygmo3Y&t=1s
>>41540317The bottom left cat is kinda hot
>>41540303>Dropped out of uni in 2017 I think and have been neet ever sincebuddy you need to get back into doing something. you are running out of time.
>>41540349I have tried, I have failed I hope it ends soon, I always relapse after doing well for a bit (yes I tried therapy and inpatient stuff)
>>41540373>I hope it ends soon, I always relapse after doing well for a bit (yes I tried therapy and inpatient stuff)relapse in what exactly?
>>41540303I'm almost 30 too and got kicked out of uni because of discrimination, it really sucks not having any education because most jobs require you to have a stupid piece of paper, your actual skills don't matter. I also don't have any friends or family, it's extremely lonely. I don't really go outside anymore because I was stalked, I only go out to get groceries which is extremely stressful every time. I really wish I could have a job and I wish I could move to a different city or country.
>>41540235>manmoderI work in a place with only women in it and I'm the only man, it's also a pretty woke place but I know I'm doing a service to everyone and society for not honmoding, because I'm a walking talking breathing optics nukebut work is fine, it keeps me distracted from dysphoria and other things but I struggle to think of a reason why I should keep living
I'm not a complete NEET; I enjoy studying and I'm currently a university student doing a master's degree in mathematics. I would work if I could find an online job, but that's not the case, so I prefer being a NEET. I think I'm more of a hikikomori than a NEET; I don't like leaving my house, I hate the sun and traffic.
>>41540384What's stopping you from taking a ride to somewhere else? apply for housing or live with family How the hell did you get kicked out for discrimination?
>>41540317>Passing tech mtf in EuropeGiwtwm I hope to work in tech someday, but the problem is... I can't hold down jobs that require me to be physically present in an office. So I'm doing everything I can to get a remote job, but... the job market is cooked right now, so in the meantime I'm just continuing with my master's degree.
>>41540406>What's stopping you from taking a ride to somewhere else? Money>apply for housing or live with family There's no housing I can apply for. I don't have any family.>How the hell did you get kicked out for discrimination?There were TERFs in the department I was studying at and on top of that I was also an activist, so I basically painted a big target on my back for them. It's more complicated than that but I don't want to talk about it in more detail, like I said I was stalked. There isn't really anything you can do about getting discriminated against, suing a university costs a lot of money and if the people in the department don't like you because you're a tranny it's unlikely you're going to be able to finish your degree anyway.
>>41540468Go to another uni
>>41540380bulimia, bedrotting
>>41540468don't bother advocating for stuff if you can't defend yourself
>>41540400this hurt to read. i really don't think you should be placing optics above yourself girl
>>41540499>bedrotting,bulimiaI don't know what to tell you anon. I had those both, but I just got up and said I'm tired of being tired. Then I decided to take control of my life by figuring out what my ticks are and how I can mitigate it
>>41540513I'm just a mature adultmanmoding isn't that bad, HRT was an improvement but only a very slight one
>>41540495I don't have the money to move so I also don't have the money to start studying at another uni. I wish I could, but it's just not possible
>>41540587find roommates and save.
>>41540446You can work from home. I have a colleague I rarely see at the office. She is WFH 4 days a week or even 5 due to her anxiety diagnosis. Sadly this is a "tech" or office job exclusive trait. Since being at the office has no bearing on how much work you do, provided you actually are not sleeping or smnthn. You do sort of have to go be at the office at the start to sort of "show" you exist then drop the anxiety stuff on them and a doctors note + having a boss that cares
>>41540716>Sadly this is a "tech" or office job exclusive trait. Since being at the office has no bearing on how much work you do, provided you actually are not sleeping or smnthn. You do sort of have to go be at the office at the start to sort of "show" you exist then drop the anxiety stuff on them and a doctors note + having a boss that caresI have a friend that did that something like that but got laid off due to their work needing them to perform a certain amount of output. Really depends on the type of work, but the higher paying ones will probably need some sort of measurable KPI to show you are performing at level compared to anyone without the diagnosis.
>>41540750Yep :( We just look at github tasks as metric, but we have no formal kpi or hr-boogywoogy. As long as you work then things are good.
>>41540592I already have roommates and there's still not enough money to save enough to move
>>41541031NGMIif you are constantly looking for excuseswork OT, reduce spending
>>41541443>Just pull yourself up by the bootstraps!
>>41542572anon if you don't find a way to jump start this, some ghetto ass way, then you might as well quit since you'll never climb out of the hole.
>>41542608save your breath, OP is comfortable in their victim status and will happily waste away their prime years
>>41542608What do you suggest then? If someone is not able to go outside, has no money, what do you suggest they do?
