why is everyone ugly and mentally ill
Because attractive, mentally stable people can just go to a gay bar and get laid. No reason for a normal person to use that app unless they have some weird fetish.
Men aren't attractive. Women understand this too.
>>41544762Attractive/stable people are already in stable relationships. Why the fuck would they be in the market for more than a few days unless their partner perished??
>>41544811/tttt/ bros... i am a women
>>41544828>Why the fuck would they be in the market for more than a few daysnot having low standards?
>>41544762That's moids in general
>>41544762Well there are two kinds of people on grindr, sluts and those who couldn't find a relationship through normal means (like in college meetups and groups).I'm most certainly part of the second group, I'm not ugly but way to mentally retarded to get any relationship last more than a month
>>41544830So you know, then
>>41544811>>41544872this. ive been swiping on tinder again recently and my god, there are so many attractive women, while maybe 1 out of every 200 men is attractive. i changed it so that it only shows me women because its just a waste of time to swipe hundreds of men to the left. and its not only because testosterone is the uglyfication hormone, they also dress like shit, have shitty haircuts, shitty ugly facial hair, retarded personalities and bad pictures. moids, do better
>>41544954I have the same, but I just think is that I'm not gay enough to find average men attractive. But I also swipe a lot of women to the left because I have rather special tastes.I like women who look like boys or boys who look like women. So I only like around 20% of women and like 1% of men on those apps
>>41545008im kinda like you except its tall girls instead of girls who look like boys. but yeah that 1% number is grim cause girly boys are by far the hottest people to me, but to get to see them i have to swipe 200 fugly revolting gorilla beastmen
>>41544854that’s the thing though; there’s an ocean of average people to pick from. An ocean that immediately would snatch that “attractive/stable” person if they’re free. And where do they go? They stop using dating apps and settle down.
>>41545090Also the biggest tragedy is that femboys are a lie. They are either trannies, reppers or ugly ass crossdressers.Cis guys who want to be androgynous but don't want to run around in dresses or shit like that are so rare they basically don't exist
>>41544762>uglyThe hot ones are taken/don't need a hookup app>mentally illMarginalised community. The majority have some sort of disrupted parental attachment specifically for being gay. Most of them dealt with bullying and abuse. Then all these traumatised people start dating eachother. Start retraumatising eachother cause they're all completely attatchment fucked and disregulated. Then even if they are happy together being publicly happy together causes a shit tonne of backlash. You're held to a high purity standard cause that's just the vibe of the community and so you're constantly dealing with jilted friends and lovers smearing you when they feel rejected. Workplaces discriminate against you unless you and even wirh peotections, if a bigot wants you gone they will find a way to teeminate you. A lot turn to drugs cause they could afford drugs before they could afford therapy. That becomes a whole issue. The entire community is based on shared oppression but also just shared identity and sexuality so there's all these people who have so very little in common otherwise just driving eachother crazy. Then this app here, is an amalgamation of all the currently sex addicted, loneliest ones who are right in the throes of engaging with their sex addiction to cope. And so you're basically just gonna be dealing with completely mentally cooked people exclusively on that app. It's a bad sample of an already cooked group of people.
>>41545138so in other words... low standards
>>41544828because it takes more than a few days even for an attractive person to find a partner who they click with beyond looksalso there are a lot of otherwise stable gays who just arent interested in a monogamous relationship
>>41545152>Also the biggest tragedy is that femboys are a lie. They are either trannies, reppers or ugly ass crossdressers.i feel you so fucking much. my femboy ex is a repper. as they all are, or something adjacent. the exception for some reason being some asian boys, they have it in their culture that its okay for a man to be pretty. id love nothing more than to have a genuine cis femboy who isnt a repper but if tranny chasing is unicorn hunting, cis femboy chasing is golden space alien unicorn hunting
>>41545171>don't need a hookup appi dont get the offline is better meme
>>41545405If you're in college or have a sprawling endless network of friends, apps are probably kind of pointless
>>41544762>why are a bunch of raging faggots so ugly and mentally ill?
>>41544762its more sexually charged than even tinder because gay people don't have to do the straight courtship of having a dog picture and at least a meal beforehand, so the profiles are just a raw unfiltered look into gay sexually charged profiles where tinder is more tame because that straightforwardness is a turn off to a lot of women
>>41545471that's statistically and demonstrably wrong. why would your best match be born in your immediate indigenous tribe?
>>41545598Based
>>41545152Tranners have been trying to convince me I'm repping for like 10 years but truly I just want to be picrel. Regardless I've never felt dysphoric about my masculine features or dressed up in a specifically feminine manner. Maybe just autistic bisexuality manifesting
>>41545764Saying "demonstrably" means it can be demonstrated, it doesn't just mean "I feel that ____"
trannies have made the app useless in my city
>>41545872thats based please be my boyfriend
>>41544762U went on the aids app, meet people irl and u wont have to deal with insane, ugly freaks from hookup app
>>41544762Prison Gay=Mentally Ill
>>41550233this
>>41545872you are not alone <3
>>41544762Dating apps, especially for LGBT are mainly full of people who crave vapid sex. A lot of the dudes on grindr are just straight up sexpests though from what I have heard.I am a lesbian, and apps for us are just as bad.
>>41544762>online safety act killed grindr and all other dating apps >too autistic to go to an LGBT pub >discord is fucking cringe Where the fuck else am I supposed to meet cute UK tranners? Might as well kms
>>41544762How do average gays even cope with not being popular? I have never once felt really accepted into any community, I feel like an alien everywhere I go so basically I turned into one of those groomed discord nazigay fags frequenting /r9gay/ threads. I am too straight passing to be allowed into fagciety and too gay to be allowed into regular male society. It’s the worst of both worlds, you’re still blackpilled and receive the short end of the stick in that regard but also alianated from regular gays. My only hope is meeting some other terminally online lonely faggot which will never happen anyways since none of us go outside. It’s over. This made me a retarded Ernst Rohmaxxing accelerationist btw.
>>41544762gay men are so revolting, this app is a bunch of literal grown ass hairy balding men who would fuck other men that look like them. its so disturbing, why do they have no self respect? what is exciting to these guys about another mans flat hairy ass? truly disturbing stuff.
>>41545598But enough about you mistah bichud gocksucka
>>41554760you feel like an alien because you identify as other. the reality is people arent that different to you but because you already othered yourself in your own mind you wont allow yourself to relate to them and so you go off on this weird schizo path to ultimately just make yourself feel special and different to cope with your desire to just relate to people. just talk to them and believe that you arent different.
>>41554760> do average gays even cope with not being popular?being "popular" is just being conventionally attractive. whats the purpose of farming vapid attention?>nazigayjeffrey star has been cancelled a thousand times and is internet famous. why would you wanna be him?>will never happen anyways since none of us go outsideonly turbo normies rely on going outside. the most interesting best looking people i ever met were online>>41554797why would anyone waste their time following your delusional bullshit when they can just seek like minded people? even if that was true why would i want to be equal to anyone else? kys retard
>>41555353>kys retardlove u anon
>>41554782What I don't get is that looking at gay men, most are with others that look like them.There are only two kinds of gay couples, either flamboyant bottom with masc top, or two dudes that look like they could be twins
>>41544784I can't go to a bar alone. I'm too antisocial for that shit.
>>41554404hi, post social (assuming you're a guy?) 5'4 and in the norf :)
>>41544954>they also dress like shit, have shitty haircuts, shitty ugly facial hair, retarded personalities and bad pictures. moidsIts intentional. Its a meme among the manosphere to be as slovely and repulsive as possible. The idea is to inflict their ugliness as an insult.So lets say a man is actively hideous, by asking out a woman, his goal is to make her feel awful about herself, by making her think that an ugly man is on her level.Theres also another thing in the manosphere, that paying attention to ones appearance is a feminine act, and that "real men" dont look after themselves. The end result is masses of very ugly men with anger issues.
>>41545152Sounds like a you problem
>>41544784as a tranny r u meant to go to a gay bar? wouldn’t it only be gay men there??? with how i look i don’t think most gay men would be atttacted to me
>>41544954trvke>>41545008holy based
kind of want to get on tinder or hinge since i pass in pics but i live in my hometown lol and even with 150k people here im worried someone will recognize me because my fem name is just my male name feminized
>>41556243you must be the first tranner not called alice or lilith
>>41556267Anons original name was Alex.Now known as Alexa
>>41556211There's plenty of bisexuals/GAMP seeking estrogenized males that act like women