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why do some people turn out to be tops and some turn out to be bottoms? if both sides were as good as they say they are, surely everyone would be a switch? for me, taking dick is the best fucking feeling in the world, i crave it so bad. yet, the thought of topping utterly repulses me. i’ve done it twice before i figured out i was a sole bottom, and it was only uncomfortable, and did not feel good at all. you could not pay me to penetrate someone.

why is this? why am i programmed to be a subby dick taking bottom bitch?
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>>41549381
idk. personally im cursed; i prefer topping, but bottoming feels much better to me
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>>41549381
metaphysics imminent so loads of bullshit otw

Because everything is literally dualistic
Up/Down
Left/Right
Life/Death
>inb4 switches/bisexuals exist
they're unique in the sense that they've managed to merge both sides, but get to know them and then ask them personally, they'll have a preference for one or the other
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>>41549391
so in a way we were all destined to be counterparts to the other half? in a perfect world, would everyone be switches? it hurts my normally no thoughts empty head sub brain
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>>41549391
what would be the reasoning for there being more subs than doms tho
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>>41549399
>so in a way we were all destined to be counterparts to the other half?
Inevitable, yes
Think of a pendulum, anon, it always swings one way or the other
Now think of two pendulums that swing opposite of each other but always parallel with each other, and at one precise moment they'll *click* and from one perspective they'll look like just one single pendulum
>in a perfect world, would everyone be switches?
But this is not a perfect world :(
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>>41549411
Out of my ass here but social norms
In a lot of straight relationships, the husband's almost always the dom

There's literally no biological rule that prevents them from domming gay guys, it's just their own inhibitions and prejudice
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>>41549423
well this really makes a lot of sense to me, i appreciate the new perspective on it. it makes sense to my dumb brain. it’s very interesting. im glad its not a perfect world, taking cock is the best. i feel very liberated as a sub.
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>>41549391
Excuse me miss a phonecall from François Laruelle, I believe he wants you to kill yourself.
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>>41549440
>i feel very liberated as a sub.
and i feel liberated being a dom ;)
that's the beauty of life, anon
there's something for everyone

>>41549452
don't know who that is but I'll look them up
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>>41549411
Gay tops are just normal guys who unlocked a higher level of being and realised they can fuck dudes if they want to and still be men. Switches I am not sure desu.
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>>41549452
Just did a quick read, non-philosophy huh? Sounds interesting
In a way he's right because philosophy can only do so much, and not everyone wants to be a philosopher or self-introspect/self-contemplate
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>>41549436
i always felt like its just cause lots of ppl are too lazy to put in the work to be dom so theyre better off identifying as subs
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>>41549467
hey hey hey, i was given wide breeding hips, a tiny waist, and a huge ass and thighs, and the ability to pass fully. the universe wanted me to be a complete sub, i don’t question it. the hrt just cemented it fully. although the big girldick i have is kinda wasted on me being a sub i will admit.

was just the hand i was dealt!!
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>>41549476
picspicspics omigod pls

>>41549467
>too lazy
that's one way to look at it, yeah
honestly, the fact of the matter is that we're all humans, we're capable of everything
We can create, we can destroy, we can love, we can hate, we *can* dom, and we *can* sub
but just because we can doesn't mean we should/want to do the thing

like, I can just as easily go out, find like a random short guy, and go spank his ass in broad daylight, but that doesn't mean I *should* do it
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>>41549476
hot (and half relatable without the big dick part) but wrong, fem doms exist
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>>41549492
i’ve wanted to post pics here but this place can be very mean and im deeply afraid of getting shit on lmao

>>41549499
well, yeah, but as i’ve been told i have a body “made for breeding”. how true that is, i can’t say since i don’t personally find women attractive. fem dom to me is weird bc im a weak scrawny no muscle bitch. im, no joke, weaker than i was when i was when i was 13. there is no illusion i can muster of having control bc any person could just grab me and do anything to me. it wouldn’t be like… yknow, realistic for me to grab a dudes hands and be like, hahaha, you’re trapped now. cuz they’d move exactly one muscle and break my hands into pieces. i guess for muscly girls i could see it. im very men pilled to the point i worship them so im probably the wrong person to comment on this.
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>>41549528
>pics
goto /hornygen/
lots of perverts that'll appreciate you (me being one of 'em)
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>>41549528
>i’ve been told i have a body “made for breeding”

wait ive been told this by some girls while im not out what should i make of it
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>>41549391
Nonsense.
>>41549381
>why do some people turn out to be tops and some turn out to be bottoms?
It is all neurological and deterministic.
Bottoms are males who were not properly masculinized in the womb, tops are males who were properly masculinized in the womb.
Thus, bottoms got a female sexual neural wirings and want to get fucked, tops got a male sexual neural wirings and want to fuck.
It is literally that simple.
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>>41549607
>reduce everything to its biological empirical basis
where's the fun in that...
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>>41549381
I think there are a lot of reasons, sometimes there are biological factors, maybe in utero brain feminization or endocrine disruption really young (or lack thereof for tops)
sometimes it is a psychological thing though, there are people who just like dicks or the feeling of getting fucked and arent really into guys, prison gay dynamics for tops, AGP, all sorts of shit

the reasons why people do the things they do are usually a whole mess when you're looking at a big group of them
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>>41549528
You don’t need physical strength to be femdom, in fact I find it hot when the lady is completely in control over the bigger man without having to use force

>>41549467
Basically yeah, too lazy and they have far too narrow views of what sex can be and ways you can enjoy it

>>41549607
It is more nuanced than that
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>>41549381
this board is cancer
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>>41549381
The answer to this is actually quite simple when you take the following considerations into account. The only thing that belongs in my bum is poo. With, of course the addition of the pleasure I feel when I massage a twinks butt and reach around to play with his balls.
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>>41549544
what’s horny gen

>>41549646
i guess i could see that yeah. it just turns me off, i like being actually held down with power and strength. that’s the fun of it for me. it all disappears when a bitch like me who has estrogen atrophied body can’t do a thing. i dunno different strokes
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>>41549876
>horny gen
https://boards.4chan.org/lgbt/thread/41546462#top
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>>41549607
i guess i have been told i should’ve been born cis a lot since im very feminine in basically every way. my old hrt doctor before i went diy said i was born to be a woman. affirming i guess to know its woman coded. but yknow, fuck that, girldick is amazing. interesting nonetheless
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>>41549889
also i forgot to reply to this in my above reply but i feel a bit scared to post in general threads xd makes me feel like im competing or something
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>>41550002
>competition
lmao no
there's no regular posters on hornygen
if you're horny, post a pic, get some validation, and then off you go
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>>41550011
im a bit of an attention whore im ngl so it kinda spooks me lmao
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Being a bottom or a sub is a kind of narcissism where you simultaneously (A) believe others should be driven into an animalistic state solely by your irresistible good looks, and (B) that you're incapable of pleasing others through any action of your own and any pleasure you could possibly give must be caused by passivity on your part
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>>41550608
>attention whore
they'd love you lots over there...
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>>41550657
ur retarded...
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>>41550682
really? hmmm. maybe i’ll give it a shot then.

>>41550657
cuck is mad they haven’t gotten laid in their entire life or they haven’t gotten laid well enough. get u a girl with a huge girldick and a tight pussy it’ll change ur life
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>>41549381
it's an ethical question really, u can figure it out with kant's formula of universal law tbqh
if it's ethical then u should be able to will it to be a universal law and everyone is happy... so basically 'what if everyone did it?'
ok so... everyone is a bottom, then no tops, and everybody is sad and dies of loneliness
if everyone is a top, then no bottoms, and everybody is sad and dies of loneliness
if everybody is a switch then they're unreliable and social cohesion breaks down, and tragedy of the commons as we plunge into wwiii and pure hedonism lmao
tops need bottoms, and bottoms need tops, and switches just fill in the gaps when needed
qed tbqh
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>>41549381
I dunno anon, I’m a bottom and it feels normal to me and I have no interest in ever topping or even the notion of being touched there, also the mollusk is an absolute banger



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