why do some people turn out to be tops and some turn out to be bottoms? if both sides were as good as they say they are, surely everyone would be a switch? for me, taking dick is the best fucking feeling in the world, i crave it so bad. yet, the thought of topping utterly repulses me. i’ve done it twice before i figured out i was a sole bottom, and it was only uncomfortable, and did not feel good at all. you could not pay me to penetrate someone.why is this? why am i programmed to be a subby dick taking bottom bitch?
>>41549381idk. personally im cursed; i prefer topping, but bottoming feels much better to me
>>41549381metaphysics imminent so loads of bullshit otwBecause everything is literally dualisticUp/DownLeft/RightLife/Death>inb4 switches/bisexuals existthey're unique in the sense that they've managed to merge both sides, but get to know them and then ask them personally, they'll have a preference for one or the other
>>41549391so in a way we were all destined to be counterparts to the other half? in a perfect world, would everyone be switches? it hurts my normally no thoughts empty head sub brain
>>41549391what would be the reasoning for there being more subs than doms tho
>>41549399>so in a way we were all destined to be counterparts to the other half? Inevitable, yesThink of a pendulum, anon, it always swings one way or the otherNow think of two pendulums that swing opposite of each other but always parallel with each other, and at one precise moment they'll *click* and from one perspective they'll look like just one single pendulum>in a perfect world, would everyone be switches? But this is not a perfect world :(
>>41549411Out of my ass here but social normsIn a lot of straight relationships, the husband's almost always the domThere's literally no biological rule that prevents them from domming gay guys, it's just their own inhibitions and prejudice
>>41549423well this really makes a lot of sense to me, i appreciate the new perspective on it. it makes sense to my dumb brain. it’s very interesting. im glad its not a perfect world, taking cock is the best. i feel very liberated as a sub.
>>41549391Excuse me miss a phonecall from François Laruelle, I believe he wants you to kill yourself.
>>41549440>i feel very liberated as a sub.and i feel liberated being a dom ;)that's the beauty of life, anonthere's something for everyone>>41549452don't know who that is but I'll look them up
>>41549411Gay tops are just normal guys who unlocked a higher level of being and realised they can fuck dudes if they want to and still be men. Switches I am not sure desu.
>>41549452Just did a quick read, non-philosophy huh? Sounds interestingIn a way he's right because philosophy can only do so much, and not everyone wants to be a philosopher or self-introspect/self-contemplate
>>41549436i always felt like its just cause lots of ppl are too lazy to put in the work to be dom so theyre better off identifying as subs
>>41549467hey hey hey, i was given wide breeding hips, a tiny waist, and a huge ass and thighs, and the ability to pass fully. the universe wanted me to be a complete sub, i don’t question it. the hrt just cemented it fully. although the big girldick i have is kinda wasted on me being a sub i will admit.was just the hand i was dealt!!
>>41549476picspicspics omigod pls>>41549467>too lazythat's one way to look at it, yeahhonestly, the fact of the matter is that we're all humans, we're capable of everythingWe can create, we can destroy, we can love, we can hate, we *can* dom, and we *can* subbut just because we can doesn't mean we should/want to do the thinglike, I can just as easily go out, find like a random short guy, and go spank his ass in broad daylight, but that doesn't mean I *should* do it
>>41549476hot (and half relatable without the big dick part) but wrong, fem doms exist
>>41549492i’ve wanted to post pics here but this place can be very mean and im deeply afraid of getting shit on lmao>>41549499well, yeah, but as i’ve been told i have a body “made for breeding”. how true that is, i can’t say since i don’t personally find women attractive. fem dom to me is weird bc im a weak scrawny no muscle bitch. im, no joke, weaker than i was when i was when i was 13. there is no illusion i can muster of having control bc any person could just grab me and do anything to me. it wouldn’t be like… yknow, realistic for me to grab a dudes hands and be like, hahaha, you’re trapped now. cuz they’d move exactly one muscle and break my hands into pieces. i guess for muscly girls i could see it. im very men pilled to the point i worship them so im probably the wrong person to comment on this.
>>41549528>picsgoto /hornygen/lots of perverts that'll appreciate you (me being one of 'em)
>>41549528>i’ve been told i have a body “made for breeding”wait ive been told this by some girls while im not out what should i make of it
>>41549391Nonsense.>>41549381>why do some people turn out to be tops and some turn out to be bottoms?It is all neurological and deterministic.Bottoms are males who were not properly masculinized in the womb, tops are males who were properly masculinized in the womb.Thus, bottoms got a female sexual neural wirings and want to get fucked, tops got a male sexual neural wirings and want to fuck.It is literally that simple.
>>41549607>reduce everything to its biological empirical basiswhere's the fun in that...
>>41549381I think there are a lot of reasons, sometimes there are biological factors, maybe in utero brain feminization or endocrine disruption really young (or lack thereof for tops)sometimes it is a psychological thing though, there are people who just like dicks or the feeling of getting fucked and arent really into guys, prison gay dynamics for tops, AGP, all sorts of shitthe reasons why people do the things they do are usually a whole mess when you're looking at a big group of them
>>41549528You don’t need physical strength to be femdom, in fact I find it hot when the lady is completely in control over the bigger man without having to use force>>41549467Basically yeah, too lazy and they have far too narrow views of what sex can be and ways you can enjoy it>>41549607It is more nuanced than that
>>41549381this board is cancer
>>41549381The answer to this is actually quite simple when you take the following considerations into account. The only thing that belongs in my bum is poo. With, of course the addition of the pleasure I feel when I massage a twinks butt and reach around to play with his balls.
>>41549544what’s horny gen>>41549646i guess i could see that yeah. it just turns me off, i like being actually held down with power and strength. that’s the fun of it for me. it all disappears when a bitch like me who has estrogen atrophied body can’t do a thing. i dunno different strokes
>>41549876>horny genhttps://boards.4chan.org/lgbt/thread/41546462#top
>>41549607i guess i have been told i should’ve been born cis a lot since im very feminine in basically every way. my old hrt doctor before i went diy said i was born to be a woman. affirming i guess to know its woman coded. but yknow, fuck that, girldick is amazing. interesting nonetheless
>>41549889also i forgot to reply to this in my above reply but i feel a bit scared to post in general threads xd makes me feel like im competing or something
>>41550002>competitionlmao nothere's no regular posters on hornygenif you're horny, post a pic, get some validation, and then off you go
>>41550011im a bit of an attention whore im ngl so it kinda spooks me lmao
Being a bottom or a sub is a kind of narcissism where you simultaneously (A) believe others should be driven into an animalistic state solely by your irresistible good looks, and (B) that you're incapable of pleasing others through any action of your own and any pleasure you could possibly give must be caused by passivity on your part
>>41550608>attention whorethey'd love you lots over there...
>>41550657ur retarded...
>>41550682really? hmmm. maybe i’ll give it a shot then.>>41550657cuck is mad they haven’t gotten laid in their entire life or they haven’t gotten laid well enough. get u a girl with a huge girldick and a tight pussy it’ll change ur life
>>41549381it's an ethical question really, u can figure it out with kant's formula of universal law tbqhif it's ethical then u should be able to will it to be a universal law and everyone is happy... so basically 'what if everyone did it?'ok so... everyone is a bottom, then no tops, and everybody is sad and dies of lonelinessif everyone is a top, then no bottoms, and everybody is sad and dies of lonelinessif everybody is a switch then they're unreliable and social cohesion breaks down, and tragedy of the commons as we plunge into wwiii and pure hedonism lmaotops need bottoms, and bottoms need tops, and switches just fill in the gaps when neededqed tbqh
>>41549381I dunno anon, I’m a bottom and it feels normal to me and I have no interest in ever topping or even the notion of being touched there, also the mollusk is an absolute banger