is it a good idea? obvs too late for this year I mean next fall tho. it seems fun and interesting and has obvious social benefits. I only malefail about half the time at best so its not like i would even stand out that much. has anyone here done this? is this stupid?
>>41551642you will be passed around lil boymoder
>>41551642>should i suck cock and drink strange cum like a whore to feel more like a woo-man?
sound scary but also really hotI say do it
>>41551783It's the AGP way!
>>41551642>is joing a rape house a good ideahmm I don't think so
>>41551744>>41551783>>41551830you guys are weird what if i just wanna have free party entry and make friends more easily and stuff like that...
>>41551875weird for warning you? lol alright
>>41551642i know yall wont believe me but i did this for 4 straight years and only was on hrt for the last lol. it works pretty well until you’re on hrt then you have to be careful. i wouldnt do it for 4 years straight though. don’t listen to the people claiming you’ll be sexually assaulted most frat guys are much more chill than normal men. it was like 10% of them which were stereotypical and scary
>>41551875i get it nona ive literally done the same thing lol. its hard to socialize. i would say in hindsight although it didnt teach me an absurd amount about how men talk to each other behind closed doors which is still helpful to me as a tranny, those 4 years would have been much better spent girlmoding
>>41551964ive been on hrt since I was 16 so it might be too late for that... thanks for the insight tho nona
>>41551981keep in mind most frats have a semester or two they require you to live in-house. for me i did this early on before hrt so showering around guys wasn’t horrifying. if i’d done it after hrt it wouldn’t have been remotely possible lol
>>41551979sorry typo. it DID teach me an absurd moment, not that it didn’t. also i held a leadership position which i used later to get hired
>>41551981if you’re a youngshit and you still look male enough to pass as a frat boy several years into hrt it might be over. that other chick is a lateshit
>>41551981>>41551875you will make tons of friends
>>41551979i cant imagine spending 4 years boymoding just b/c ur in a fucking frat that sounds miserablein any case at my college it would be 2x the cost to join a frat vs live on-campus so id be paying for the privilege of being extra miserable
>>41552026no from my perspective i had a lot of girl friends early in college but learned quickly that parties don’t let u in as a guy. at the time i was years away from hrt and even further from girlmoding so i kinda saw it as like “oh you’re not gonna be able to socialize at all throughout college even as a woman if you wanted to” and so i looked around and after i found a place with guys genuinely really nice to me and very caring i joined. its a bit pricey at first with $1500 a year but this isn’t as much money when you’re 21 as it is when you’re 18 lol. also overall even though i didnt come out to any of my friends until after graduation when their eyes bugged out of their skulls at the fact id been hiding tits for years, i think i could’ve a while back lol. realistically you should be a boy for some of the time though so they don’t think u were just lying to them continually for fun
>>41552022I have short hair and like i said I malefail lile half the time... its pretty over rn but when my hair was longer I passed a lot more idk
>>41552050when i was a junior and established within the frat i was malefailing lmfao but nobody would get on me for it… it was moreso just seen as a bit of a joke and the fact that other guys saw me as a woman moreso marked them as gay than me as feminine. there’s a safety to being a frat boy as a boymoder. it might be hard to rush and join initially if you look like a weak girly boy though. i was only able to do this later onwards but it’s more about personality and whether ur able to play a masculine boy (even if u really don’t feel it inside)
>>41552050also i’ll very much say that when i started to see myself as a trans woman i wanted to leave the frat because it horrified me to try to pass as a boy there in such a high risk environment even though i did work it out. i ultimately didn’t because the cost wasn’t that heavy anymore to me as an adult, i had some really good friends i didn’t want disliking me, and most importantly the people who drop prematurely are the subject of constant jokes and everyone wonders what they’re up to all the time. i knew that’s not really a possibility for me as a tranny compared to just graduating inside it and then girlmoding and coming out afterwards. it traps you though. if you’re going into college already on hrt it’s a dumb idea to join a frat for parties. just girlmode and make female friends this is the rest of ur life anyways now
>>41552069hmm I see so that might be pretty hard then idk ill still try it i think... it might be more embarrassing to get denied tho idk
>>41552113how about instead you just own being a tranny and in a year or two they let you into parties bc you’re a girl …
>>41552113if you’re like remotely personable lots of frats will give you a bid. if you’re serious i’d really recommend finding one that doesn’t haze you. if you’re a pledge feasibly they’ll make you walk around shirtless a lot and whatnot. in hindsight this wouldn’t have been possible on hrt lol. my being a frat tranny only worked bc im a lateshit
>>41552134yeah just lock in girl. i recognize girlmoding is hard but you’ll be faced with an opposite problem in 2 years if you look like a girl and all ur frat bros start to notice this and u still can’t tell them or drop out of fear
chasers wyd when ur passoid gf mentions she was a frat boy throughout all of college
>>41551642I just moved in with a bunch of my friends into an 8 bedroom house. we throw parties and do fun stuff together all the time so it's like being in a frat but way less lame bc I'm not paying for friends. also I don't have to worry about any weird masculinity contest. Id say joining a frat is bad for anyone who isn't a cis straight white guy, and even then it's still corny af.>boymoder
>>41552212i think she’s having trouble making friends though… i get it girl that first semester of college hurts a lot when u want more socialization out of things.
>>41551875In a frat house? A lot of them are nutters.
>>41552313I didn't move into this house until my 3d year. so it just takes time.
>>41551642im very curious how that’ll turn out for you. don’t get raped
btw nona i did this and got groped. men grope each other very regularly. even if you indicate youre not down for it you will still get groped on occasion. impossible to do that and not get ur nips squeezed randomly in what is apparently male fun
>>41555541well a little bit of groping is ok most frat guys are hot anyways>>41555506im not planning on it
>>41551875They're going to make you use a sex toy on yourself in front of them while they all watch and call you a faggot. If they bring up something about a "hazing ritual" this is what they mean.
>>41558113lol it wont be the cute ones groping u
>>41558113in a more serious sense i think u should ask why you feel the need to be a frat boy after being a trans woman since age 16. btw showers are public lol good luck figuring that one out
>>41558425wdym showers are public there is a curtain AND the bathroom has a door. I wanna join one cuz like im alright at making friends just not rrly close ones and this seems like an easy remedy for that idk...
>>41551642uh huh...
>>41551875you're gonna get raped you fucking dumbass
>>41551642I think all mtfs should get mildly sexual assaulted as part of gender affirming care so they have a healthy sense of self preservation as adults and don't do shit like this
>>41558795no lol the frat house showers are like multiple showers and all there is is a curtain. i really really doubt you'd be able to shower in there with hrtitties. also this doesnt even matter because you'd probably be shirtless a lot while pledging>>41559139>>41559148i was in a frat for years as a boymoder i didnt get raped. yall are insane men are not a monolith
>>41558795in hindsight i very much would not have joined the frat while on hrt, and also wanted to leave quite a lot when i got on hrt!!! i didnt for other various reasons. also i started hrt at 21, you did at 16. you shouldnt feel the need to do this for socialization its idiotic and implies your transition is going nowhere to be frank
>>41555541Everyone gets groped by guys so much its weird people act like its the same as rape now. >>41559154when people say sexual assault they mean a guy grabbed their butt as camaraderie.
>>41559228actually i found that if you indicate to people that youre not down for the wrestling and general grabassery they dont really even try lol
>>41559273Theres always one guy that doesnt give a fuck and will grab your genitals too while acting playful.
>>41559284meh. got my tit grabbed exactly one time in 4 years. take that as you will
non stop partying and gang banging
very funny how there's like dozens of people insisting she's gonna get raped and then someone claiming to have actually done this with little to no issue
>>41559347Theyre joking to scare her. The sexual groping is very real though. Feels good when is hot guys doing it at least.
>>41551642should be beta omicron upsilon >>41551744
>>41559388guys only grope each other casually when they get the sense theyre both down for it lol. very much speaking from boymoder personal experience as someone who worried about this quite a lot and then found people are pretty chill with boundaries if they see u as male
everyone thinks trannies are invading female spaces but i wasnt actually considering the idea that frats are full of reppers and boymoders hiding
poor boymoder.. she has no idea..
>>41551875I think it will be really awkward when they find out, and depending on how much of a "people pleaser" you are + meeting baseline level of attractiveness, you could definitely end up in a "barracks bunny" situation. And while frat boys are generally nice lads things can get weird when guys live in constant close proximity to a woman while feeling rejected, some of them will blame you (either openly or secretly) for killing the vibe / all-male dynamic which the frat was supposed to have and you may feel some unspoken resentment. It's not something I'd ever recommend for a woman but you've got to make your own choices. If you're privately fantasizing about being a captive sex slave to a bunch of frat boys, the way that others in this thread are openly fantasizing about it, yeah you might be able to make that happen if you're femininely boyish enough but you'll basically be participating in your own """victimization""" by getting drunk with them and being easy, they're not just gonna rape you. Frat boys aren't like that. If you're a shy and homely girl who has trouble getting boys to notice you, it could work. Again, assuming you're not an absolute dog.
>>41562322> If you're privately fantasizing about being a captive sex slave to a bunch of frat boysclocked her ass
>>41562322> some of them will blame youi agree. i dont think my friends cared because i transitioned as a junior years in. if id been on hrt the entire time though it wouldve just felt like a giant lie and im sure theyd see that and wouldve disliked me for it
>>41551642joining a frat or sorority as a cis, trans, or anything person is a bad idea. don't join a cult.
there was a 5'3 mexican dude who rushed my frat a year ago and i thought he was a pooner till he opened his mouth
>>41552196Stretch out all her holes (lovingly)
>>41562642trans guys should just understand if youre sufficiently misogynistic nobody will clock you
>>41562645does boyremoving a fratboymoder require more work?
>>41562663If that fratmoder fucked other girls, then less work, because she knows what it is to be on the fucking side, so now she gets extra experience on the taking side
>>41559154the shirtless thing is what rrly concerns me. like I have c cups I just absolutely cant do that...>>41562322well im pretty attractive I think since ive been able to get with hot guys pretty easily so far but like I do not want that sorta situation at all like I said I rrly just want the social benefits and free party entry and stuff>killing the vibe / all-male dynamic which the frat was supposed to havehow would I kill that dynamic since im a male too (´_ゝ`)
>>41563427i transitioned long after being a pledge. the way u get treated before and after pledging is night and day lol. dont expect bodily autonomy as a pledge
>>41562671gulp
>>41563483what does that mean like what should i expect as a pledge?
>>41563527lmfao dude (not even misgendering since apparently u want to be a frat boy) it seriously depends on the frat. mine was really chill but even we got hazed somewhat (this was 3 years ago now) which meant i was shirtless like 10+ times, had to do a bunch of various exercises and pushups and other full metal jacket esque humiliations, drink and whatever. they just generally abuse u to make u leave so that it binds people together. there's much worse frats though. on my campus one frat would hit their pledges and make them eat insane amounts of bananas and get drunk (not even lying i watched this happen since they do it outdoors in the backyard). there's also much darker more homosexual stories i heard. one kid got his face burnt off because of hazing, another had to drink cum apparently. frats are seriously seriously weird remnants of patriarchal society
> looking twice at every frat boy on my campus and wondering if theyre manmoders
>>41563600oh scary... maybe i shouldnt then cuz i cant rrly get drunk either it always makes me cry
>>41563663why the hell would u want to join a frat then
>>41563663what the fuck are you even doing lmao
>>41563663lock in girl this is like anti-youngshit propaganda
>>41563663you be up to speed in no timealcoholism is never the issue
>>41563499Either way, a proper chaser would enjoy it even if she's done the opposite (getting fucked)
>>41563683i like parties and i want free entry and i wanna make close friends more easily so like logically joining a frat is the easiest method here i thought. >>4156370916 is midshit at best be so fr youngshit means PRE puberty
>>41563772>>41563772when i as a freshman decided to join a frat as a dysphoroid who wanted to go to parties, i wasnt on hrt!!! i didnt even get on hrt until literally years afterwards also. the fact that u got on hrt 5 years before me should not lead u to a similar life path. genuinely just girlmode im being so serious you are gonna get trapped in there socially
>>41563789also please keep in mind that for me, when i started girlmoding later on, the fact that i had been a frat boy at all is like a serious stain on the idea that ur really a trans woman lol. u dont want to end up years later trying to girlmode simultaneously and all ur female friends think youre a rapehon
>>41563427>how would I kill that dynamic since im a male tooFinding a frat where all the guys believe this won't be easy, and finding a frat where they don't just think-that-they-believe-it but actually feel that way deep down too is impossibleIf you need them all to affirm their belief in your manhood, that will be even MORE like living with a woman (walking on eggshells and maintaining polite fictions so as not to upset you) than if you just let them misgender you
>>41563965oh wait is boymoder ftm or mtf? is malefailing failing and looking male or failing to look male?Sometimes I feel like a boomer in these convos. "Wait, which one is trans woman? Born with a penis or not?"
>>41559347have you considered the possibility that the ones telling her she's gonna get raped are just less comfortable talking about their experiences in this sort of situation?
>>41563772you're gonna get free entry to parties by girlmoding you retard, just show up with other girls ffs
