We exist, theoretically, hidden away in rooms & apartments w/ solar drapes and a bed full of stuffies, totally reclused from the outside world. But nobody knows it, and for some reason a lot of people hate avoidants... idk why im just really scared of the world and so so alone x.x
>>41557857i dont hate avoidants they just never want to talk because... theyre avoidant>dont respond when i message you>get mad if i come over unprompted because you wouldnt respond
>>41557857Many people would an avoidant, an avoidant wouldn't most people. I'm really attracted to avoidant people platonically and romantically for some reason you bunch are just slippery
>>41557857not avpd, but i have a dismissive-avoidant attachment style, and my former best friend was the same. i would be open to dating someone else who is avoidant, but honestly there would have to be some compromise from both parties to actually make it healthy/sustainable, lol
>>41558144i can see how that'd be annoying, especially bc i leave ppl on read a lot >.> my bad>>41558179rlly? curious as to y...most of us are loser neets w/ impossible trust issues. both have stopped me from even trying to date bc who am i to dump my bullshit on someone more functional yk>>41558494how would that look?
If the 1950s, school swimming lessons were often conducted in the nude - but only for men. Clothed older men would watch younger men and boys swim naked in pools. But females were never made to swim naked. Why?
>>41557857whats your discord nona I'll save you from your castle :)t. weeb US tranny who is helplessly attracted to avoidants.
>>41557857ive nothing to add really but hi im avpd too
>>41557857I briefly dated an avoidant.and >>41558144 sums it up, except she'd get mad at me for messaging her sometimes
>>41557857only if you dont behave like this >>41558144>>41559057kek. They actually were though. Just not at mixed gender schools.
>>41559199hi me too ^-^
>>41558179you can come into my house whenever but there's no guarantees i wont just bedrot even with you there
I would love to, we could share our pain and learn something about ourselves.
>>41559047>rlly? curious as to y...The chase is appealing and I'm put off by anxious attachment or bpd people or codependent people as someone with avoidant tendencies for non avpd reasons (schizo). I also like avpd, avoidant attachment and schizoid people for respecting the space of others since they need a lot. I need quite a bit>>41559622I like bedrotting and people who won't get upset if you just share space in silence anyway
>>41559096srry for never replying...ive been thinking abt it, idk>>41559672im a good listener but struggle to open up bc talking abt myself makes me feel selfish </3>>41559261i can understand her there. i dont get mad if ppl message directly to their face but do get annoyed some time bc conversations are so exhausting. every sentence is like a skillcheck & vetting every word is exhausting
>>41557857I don't know what AVPD is but I would date a tranny that works for the PD
>>41557857I have this too I think, tho I’m just a hrt cis male not a trans girl
>>41559781Awww but is it easier to live with the what if than to take a chance? who knows maybe I'm the knight you've been waiting ever so long for. Maybe I'll be just the person to make you feel safe and happy and open up completely.
>>41559810alr but no promises i wont be an avoidant abt it x.xbillcat.
