>date a girl who says she's alright with me seeing other people>take her up on that offer and enter polyamorous relationship with one of my best friends>after a while i realize that friend is really depressed and wants someone to be reliant on>they really wanna fuck but i'm really not interested>start to lose interest due to that and a few other reasons>80% sure theyll kill themselves if i tell them i just wanna date my gf from before>keep trying to convince them i'm in love with them whenever they have a depressive episodeAm I a bad person for this? I feel bad about it but they moved like 200 miles away from me so it's not that demanding to keep the convincing up
>>41558948Since they live so far away you wouldn’t even have to confront the idea of them actually killing themselves over you leaving. U can just tell yourself they ghosted
>>41558948i hope something bad happens to everyone involved for being poly
>>41558970/thread
>>41558948Total polyp death
>>41559039>Total polyp death
>>41558948yea you’re a bad person
>>41558970trvke
>>41558948>Am I a bad person for this?Yes. This is how all poly "relationships" are:>so stupid you delude yourself into thinking you're le heckin enlightened creature bursting with love to give to many>actually just a hedonistic coomer>use other people for sexual gratification>one of the people actually needs something other than buttsex because they're a real human being>"oh gee I can't really handle this, guess I'll just focus my attention on my other sex partner lol">rejected 3rd wheel gets their self esteem obliteratedYou are not special in being a shitty person.
>>41558948tbHON why would you do that?
>>41558948You're a horrible retard and I hope awful things happen to youBreak up with your first gf and only then you can consider not talking to the other person anymore after you tell them you're not looking for a relationship anymore or whatever the fuck you irresponsible moronGod bless your best friend's soul for getting baited into a relationship with a piece of shit such as yourself I hope they make it out alive of the life ruining abuse you're putting them through
>>41561108this.>tfw you need them like any normal person needs their partner, but they dknt need you back because they have 5 other people they fw>tfw there are problems and they have no motivation to work them out, they just avoid you and see their other people
I enjoy reading you guys talking about your "friends" it's completely different from my experience of what having friends is like
>>41558948>be op, poly "person">dating other poly "person">start to date friend because that's never gone wrong in human history>get triggered when friend points out that relationships include sex>realize friend was taking it seriously and would be hurt by breaking up>post on 4chan asking for assurance it's the friend who was in a bad enough place to accept being an inferior alternative was in the wrong