>Find trans girl via online mutual interest>Start talking and we have tons of interests in common>Eventually get to the point where we share selfies, very she's cute in a twinky way even if she doesn't fully pass, still always refer to her by female pronouns, never consider her to be anything other than a woman>Dont ask her about her cock or lack-thereoff at any point even though we got pretty sexual at times>Spend weeks happily talking and genuinely think that I've found somebody I can truly be with>One day try to send her a good morning message and she's blocked me on every single social.I dont get it, I genuinely dont. Every single trans girl cries that they're only lusted after by chasers but this is the 4th time this has happened to me, treat her as just another girl I want to get to know better and one day wordlessly blocked. I've never been treated this badly by cis-women, so why should I even bother dating anybody other than them when consistently they're the least likely to be BPDemons
>>41571222maybe you just suck
>>41571232I could never answer that 100% confidently since you never know what what you're like from an outside perspective, but I've got tons of female friends, i'm decently well put together and I have alot of success dating cis women. But its something about me that apparently trans girls can't stand.
many such cases.move on with your life, tranners are naturally mercurial and deceptive creatures.
>>41571222>i don’t get it>bpdi think you do get it
>>41571222its because they're mentally ill, doesn't matter how perfect you were lol. They're in the before times, before they address their mental health and become normal
>>41571222Maybe she will unblock once she unlocks her manic pixie dreamgirl form again.
>>41571222>Every single trans girl cries that they're only lusted after by chasers but this is the 4th time this has happened to me>4th timeSo you're a chaser?
>>41571222Lets be real you said or did something that hurt her and are just leaving that part out
>>41571304he's not denying that, he's saying that his attraction was based on more than lust.
>>41571316Doesn't matter, still a chaser which is a turn off
>>41571222We don't feel like we deserve happiness and always think you'd be better off without us. We know we're gonna ruin it eventually so we skip ahead to that part to minimize the pain. Everyone leaves eventually, why wait?
>>41571222Don't worry anon. I've been there twice. I fell for two trans women. One of them wanted to date me but she decide to date someone else. Now she's got a boyfriend and doesn't talk to me anymore and the other one said she wanted to be my girlfriend, but in the end she just sent me a bunch of nudes and just ghosted me. Neither of them will message me anymore. I still think about both of them to this day. It doesn't get better.
>>41571222Ok rn I am going through something similar from the tranny's perspective. i am talking to a guy and I really really like him but I know once he knows he's been talking to a tranny he'll hate me, I have this thought all the time, so I've considered just blocking him upfront to avoid disappointing both of us. I am still not sure if I will do it.
>>41571323everyone has a different definition of chaser.at this point it has no meaning.
>>41571304Seriously I still don't get why you get mad about this and ''accuse'' him of being a chaser. Some guys are just dorks who are used to being around queer people so hanging out with trans women is just normal to them. Specially if they mostly hang out in spaces with few cis women. If we want dating us to become normal and socially accepted we have to start accepting the few guys who are already open minded.
>>41571245Just from this even I already want to block you. Too entitled
>>41571340The meaning is someone who deliberately seeks out trans women>>41571351He's finding trans women online and hitting them up, not meeting them origanically IRL
>>41571222not to sound mean but do u maybe think after the 4th time that there might be some details u omit from the story that paints u as otherwise perfectly reasonable???like I don't know u but it seems like a possibility tbqh
>>41571370You are making assumptions. He said ''find trans girl through mutual interests'' which might mean anything from what you say to ''I met this girl in my friends' Discord server''.
>>41571222OP my dudeA very similar thing happened to me once except we dated for a year. She just disappeared one day. She was the first and last mtf I ever dated.Trans women aren't dating material. I'm never going near one again. Date cis people instead, you will save yourself a lot of hurt.
>>41571370>The meaning is someone who deliberately seeks out trans womengod forbid they seek out the people they are attracted to.
>>41571378He literally wrote "Find trans girl via online mutual interest" in his post
>>41571399Being attracted to trans women for being trans rather than in spite of being trans makes them a chaser, yes
I had been talking to a tranners for a while, the entire time she assured me she was not interested in any of her friends romantically, of course one day I wake up to a message telling me she has decided to start dating one of her friends and she blocked me.ya just cant trust um.
>>41571385>sample size 1>immediate generalised conclusion
>>41571414and I'm saying there is nothing wrong with that.you need to get over your own hang ups about being trans.wanting someone to be attracted to you in spite of something is crazy behavior.
>>41571222I've had similar experiences. In the end you learn it's not worth it. If she doesn't block she'll hit you up for money or something. They're not for dating they're for porn.
>>41571414OP didn't say that, he said he talked to 4 trannies which is a lot of trannies but it might be because he has autistic interests like modding Paradox games or vocaloid.
>>41571420Bitch, I know plenty of veteran chasers. Not a single one of them dates trans women at this point. They pump and dump. Trannies aren't capable of having relationships. They'll blame their evil behavior on some meme disorder like bpd but in reality, they're often just shitty people.At best, a tranny can get into a decent poly arrangement for a few months. A long term relationship with a cis man is out of the question. I want to save other guys from what I had to go through. They should be going for cis women. You can even find nerdy cis women who have a lot of the hobbies trans women do but without the extreme mental instability, serial cheating, self harm, insecurity, ghosting and incapability of loving someone.
>>41571304Yes, but she couldn't know that.
>>41571480She couldn't know you're into trans women or she couldn't know you were into her specifically? Or that you're a man?
>>41571445wawawa cry baby is sad bc mommy left him, aww so sad
>>41571494She couldn't have known that I chase transwomen because I didn't disclose the previous attempts. For all she saw I was a perfectly normal, heterosexual guy.
>>41571510Most humans have feelings, yes. That's why I recommend that OP dates cis women so that he can get someone who cares about him. Wasting time on an autistic man on hormones is fruitless, pointless.
>>41571480>>41571525fuuuuck OP why did I defend you why did you make me look like an idiot
>>41571222>I've never been treated this badly by cis-womenWhacky, I have all the time.
OP my man. I've talked to chasers who have dated a dozen trannies.I wasted a year on one myself and she was one of the passing and "normal" ones. Take it from me, or them, don't waste your time on this shit.
>>41571531humans have feelings and trannies aren’t humans, they’re men! autistic men on hormones reee! that’s why i can’t stop thinking about them, that’s why i still post on the tranny board inshallah, i’m a TOTALLY NORMAL HETEROSEXUAL GUY, yessir i only like REAL AUTHENTIC WOYMEN
>>41571566>i’m a TOTALLY NORMAL HETEROSEXUAL GUYI never said that. Did you ever consider what lgbt stands for? I'm giving OP good advice here. Don't you have some ketamine to snort or some unemployment benefits to collect?
>>41571576>>41571525this u?
>>41571621You’re replying to two different people, bro.
>>41571641oh no my bad, it’s really hard to tell you guys apart. all chasers are the exact same see, they are ALL the same regardless of anything else…
>>41571683Unlike OP I’m not a chaser. These are my posts >>41571385>>41571445>>41571531>>41571555You know that I’m right.
>>41571702get a therapist already, sheesh
>>41571714Why? I’m fine. I just want to make sure OP doesn’t make the same mistake I made.
>>41571445>veteran chasersyikes ngl tbqh
some truth bombs being dropped itt
>>41571291What I dont get is HOW DOES EVERY SINGLE TRANNY HAVE BPD
>>41571868mental illness is more common in this group of people? therefore bpd more common? multiply by some mental illnesses making it less easy to meet the person having them as opposed to other mental illnesses? what is hard about this
>>41571868They just use it as an excuse for their behavior. It's convenient.
>>41571539Thats not me lol, I figured it would be good to get some exercise in to clear my head so I finally got around to clearing the small patch to plant wildflowers I've been working on after I made the thread.
>>41571222I would love to hear the other side of the story, it's always so revealing
>>41571222you know cis women do this nowadays too right, so many fucking people have avoidant attachment issues it's crazy, if you don't want to date them, don't date them, but don't treat trannies like an amalgamation, I've personally never done this to a guy.
>>41571894lmao ur obsessed
>>41571908she found a transbian gf and no longer needed the moid for attention/validation
>>41571923Annoying little bitch, I'm preaching here. Go somewhere else if you can't handle the truth.
>>41571365>Chasers are all ugly loser incels that still live with their mom"Idk I think i'm pretty average">Holy fuck you're literally to entitled go dieMan I am so fucking glad i'm gay and dont have to deal with this
>>41571222She probably found someone better than you and realized you're just a boring dude get over it
>>41572028this >>41571925
>>41571222I feel for ya, manMy interest is philosophy/theology and the general human conditionDo you know how many folks are into that?
>>41572052>my interest is that I'm a faggot >why don't people like me?
>>41572065>why don't people like me?You assume too quickActually pretty fun around folks because I'm not a retard who talks only about my interestsI'm just saying if like, I'm looking for someone to settle down with, I wanna be able to talk about my interests with them too
>>41572089jokes aside, you can talk about it, but you should be ok with them not necessarily understanding all the details, or maybe offering a conflicting worldview. I've had a guy go onto me about taoism before, didn't really have any idea on how to reciprocate but I offered a "huh that's really interesting I never knew that, what got you into being a taoist?" level response.
>>41571245>I have alot of success dating cis women.Then why are you going after trans women if you're not a chaser? Also: a lot*
>>41571222you either didn't make a move or said something she didn't like
>>41571385>>41571222just dont "date" online in the first placethat was your first mistake
>>41572395Mine wasn't online. t. not OP
>>41571222desu sometimes i get the urge to block all my friends and self isolate forever, i think it's so i can kms without hurting anyone, so i try to resist
>>41571222bruhhhhhhhh i swear to god i would not fumble the bag if i had a guy that was somewhat normal into me holy shit and by somewhat normal i mean not 300 pounds and able to hold a job normal idc if its at fucking mcdonalds just mentally stable enough for a job is all i need
>>41571327I cried over here last night. I miss her.
>>41572324and I'd like that too because we can both learn IF (big IF) we're both willing to learnkeep telling myself over and over and over that relationships are about compromise, and to a certain level, I'm willing to compromiseI mentioned philosophy/religion as an interest but I do dumb shit all the time because to me the lived in human experience is more interesting than whatever theory I'm yappin aboutHell, I almost crashed my car one time because I was driving drunk while getting a handie from this 5'2 twink
>>41572689you actually sound interesting tbf anon, where are you based? can see if we can make something happen
>>41571925the good ending
>>41571976literally not what I said? go bugchase somewhere else lol
>>41572699not anywhere near you, nona :<way down in Southeast Asia>interestingmy middle name haha
>literally not interested in a guy so I ghost him>he moid rages on 4chan demanding answersliterally every time
>>41572347Nta but in a similar situation. I'm a big geek and trans women share my interests to a way bigger degree than cis women, its just a shame none of them seem to be able to manage being in a long term relationship
>>41572765Why would you not tell him that you're not interested? I fucking hate that ghosting has become so normalized in everything from job-hunting to dating. If i'm not interested in somebody I tell them straight up and wish them well, not fucking vanish into thin air one day.
>>41571222I’m sorry OP but if it happened 4 times there must be something you’re missing or something you can improve on.As a tranny I had the problem where people want to fuck me but no one wanted a relationship and it took me 3 situationships to find the problem, I was confusing lust for love.I wasn’t even sending nudes to people I just happen to tick a lot of boxes when it comes to appearance, kinks. It was partly my fault too because I liked the flirting and being desired but when I changed my approach to getting people hooked on my personality first and then my looks I immediately found more success.
>>41571414Being attracted to cis men for being tall superstraight dream chuddies is fetishistic too
