I'm a butch who just finished having sex with a straight girl and now she's crying. It's awkward, she's in my apartment, and I live in too bad a neighborhood to let her take the train this late so I guess she's spending the night. I don't know if or how I should comfort her because she's literally crying about the idea that she debased herself by sleeping with me. It honestly feels kind of fucked up that she considers the idea that someone like me had sex with her so humiliating, but also I understand because she's certainly not straight anymore. Any advice?
>>41644948You're a rapist, you raped her you fucking freak
Butch mtf?
oh man just let 4chan handle this one
>>41644957Nope. I'm afab. Idk if I'm nonbinary or just a masc woman, or if those are even fully separate things.
>>41644952How? She consented to sex and then regretted it afterwards?
>>41644961I'm an artist so all of my social media contains stuff I make money off of, so I'm not posting anything about my sex life there. And my freinds are asleep because it's 3am.
>>41644981Ewww
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>>41644990She's a straight woman and having that kind of reaction you clearly manipulated her into it. And this is based on what you're willing to tell us, you're probably leaving out details to make yourself seem innocent hoping that we'd side with you and assuage your guilt
>>41645016She told me she wanted to experiment, I knew her through a ttrpg thing, neither of us were drunk. She wanted to play around to see if she was into girls and felt bad when she found out she liked it. When a pretty little blond says she's dtf I'm not going to give her a background check.
>>41645042Shitty situation anon, fuck these other anonsShe may be too confused to take physical comforting but maybe ask if she wants a drink or something & to put something on to watch to take her mind off things, she's not going to figure herself out in one night
I love being an autogynophile unironically. I look like such a cute pretty girl and I'm enjoying it so much, I can just go out and dress like the type of goth girl or pretty princess I always transformed into in my teenage fantasies. People who said I'd be ugly or never pass on E lied, I went from an Asian guy (lowest on the totem poll) to an Asian girl (highest on the totem poll). It honestly turns me on just to look at and touch my skinny pretty body, and I know it isn't common but E made me more horny not less, I literally masturbate every day now. And even when I'm not horny I just feel pretty, every time I'm out in girl clothes it's just really great getting to live as what I always wanted to, it's like my own body is the dream girl I get to walk down the street with. Catcallers suck, but other then that I'm literally so happy. Girls will be so nice to me and so willing to touch me. Now that I pass I literally got to eat a cisbian out without her knowing I was trajs I'm really a real girl now. Sometimes I'll just feel my own breasts. Being hugged feels so good. I'm going to get bottom aurgery soon I can't wait to feel how a pussy feels. I'm so hot. This is so hot. If you're an Agp, transition now, transitioning with a kink is valid and fun actually you won't regret it and it doesn't hurt anyone, your entire life will be a dream you had at thirteen.
>>41645085Who the fuck are you and why are you on my post? Do your fetish elsewhere.
>>41645085>>41644961Well now at least I regret going to 4chan. Are you happy‽
>>41645072Tbh I might do something like that, but I'm worried any show of affection will disgust her.
>>41645006I prefer chicks w dicks
>>41645006Too bad binch.
>>41645085>>41645107>>41645118Sorry, meant to post thos as it's own post don't worry about it UwU
>>41644948That is pretty awkward but you don't know the exact reason she is crying right? Unless she said this is why she is upset. Idk I'm just saying it could be a lot of other stuff. After coming out of an abusive relationship I felt like shit after sex for a while
>>41645239She made it pretty clear, she told me she doesn't know if she can ever be a normal girl again after this, and the following conversation removed any ambiguity. She finds the idea of being with another woman and having enjoyed it disturbing.
>>41645260Is she from a religious background or something?
>>41645085pic is disturbing
>>41644948listen idk why but the idea of having sex with somebody (purely consensual obv) but them getting utterly mindfucked by it the way ur describing seems hot af to me idk what is this called. Like you're forbidden fruit and you like being the fruit, is there an obvious word for this i'm blanking on
>>41645273No idea. She didn't grow up in the city so there's a higher likelihood.
>>41645282Mabye some ontological opposite of dykebreaking? Dykemaking?
>>41645260Yeah probably just hasn't come to terms with her sexuality, she was gonna find out sooner or later anyway with being willing to experiment like that.
>>41645260she's a dumb asshole and deserves to cry alone unlovedIts so stupid when people like her do thisyou knew what the fuck your stance on lesbianism was before you ate me out dumbfuckgo cry in the like you deserve because if it was sunday morning and I was crying in a corner I know sure as shit you wouldn't be helping me
>>41645286I guess you shouldn't take it personally with >It honestly feels kind of fucked up that she considers the idea that someone like me had sex with her so humiliatingbecause maybe it's just feeling bad that she just did something so far outside of what her parents expected of her. Idk I'm not really helping, I kind of just let people cry and assume they'll figure it out
>>41645302I'm not going to be that harsh to her. But still, part of me does feel that way. Right now I'm planning of suggesting we watch adventure time together because it's a show we're both nostalgic for and it feels like it'll distract her.
>>41645286>>41645273She does know I'm pagan so that might make her opinion of me worse.
>>41645319>butch pagan artistdamn that's actually pretty cool
>>41644948Sorry that happened to you OP. Is hard for me not to be amused that you experienced what lesbian trans women do, since it goes like this. But sucks you had to experience it too.
>had sex that was 1% less mindblowing than she expected >is now crying and acting like she was literally raped I hate cis women so much it's unreal
>>41645369Actually she was crying because it was more mind blowing then expected. Which is worse.
>>41645362Tbh there's a lot of crossover between the trans experience and the butch experience. Womanhood without female community.
>>41645338Thanks!
>>41645511I'm a closet pagan (it's weird but I had a spiritual epiphany/awakening some years ago but dont tell people about it) and I've been grinding art skills trying to do portraits and figure drawings regularly. I will keep training to be like you someday
>>41645585I believe in you!
Extremely basedShe'll want nothing to do with you cuz she's retarded but she'll definitely come out as a lesbian in a few years. Happens all the time. Sucks for us dykes who have to deal with that shit though
>>41644948honestly kind of stupid. I remember when I was straight and I had sex with a guy for the first time. I never repressed myself, I just felt happy for the moment.
