I still miss her
>>41670421Yupppppppppp
>>41670421make a move
>>41670421are we all still yearning? does it ever get better?
you wont ever know you cant possibly know
>>41670747that's not for us to decide
>>41670876i hate that its both out of my control, and also solely my fault
>>41671003I'll drink to that
>>41671025Cheers.
>>41671025>>41671053cheers
I don't want to spend christmas alone
>>41671244That's part of the name she went by so proost again
>>41671265then dont
>>41671326I don't have anyone
>>41671350just go to your local chink restaurant, they're pretty friendly.
>>41670421I miss her so much (she didn't fw me like that at all)
>>41670421who?
>>41671437you
I couldn't stop missing her and we got back together even though it will probably go bad again
>>41671437My tranny ofc
>>41670721Show me ya moves
>>41670421When did they die?
>>41671991She isn't dead
tell us more, what happened op?
>>41672216It's complicated but basically she was avoidant and scared of commitment, which made me paranoid that she wasn't actually interested in having a real relationship with me, which pissed her off so she didn't want to talk to me anymore
>>41672023Are you sure?It happens a lot.
>>41672428wow almost the exact same as me and her except im the avoidant one
>>41672509you should apologize to her I'm sure she misses you too
>>41672571it won’t matter, the more you love them the less likely it is you get back together
>>41672618Why are they like this?
>>41672635traumaalso. it keeps you coming back, doesn't it?
>>41672780almost a year and i am still very broken
>>41672799yup. me too. time to put this all behind us.
>>41672780but can't they just stop being avoidant?
>>41672903you wouldn't want them if they stopped. maybe at first but you would end up finding some other forbidden fruit to chase after. just stop trying to force anything. if they want to be with you they will. if they don't, do you really want to force someone who doesn't want anything to do with you into your life? that sounds miserable.
>>41670421i hate that i miss her and that thought of her makes me feel things only she can make me feel, it disgusts me
>>41672922the frustrating part about these types is that they say they want a relationship and then freak out when you actually try to have a relationship with them
>>41672922i think everyone can agree on that. the problem is how i think about it now. i have discussions in my head and it’s like my mind automatically replays memories when idle. i think of something funny and go to tell her and then immediately know i never will. idk i feel like i’ve logically accepted what it is now but my subconscious has NOT. it’s stuck on the “fact” that this isn’t permanent. i start to process all the fucked up stuff that happened and crashout and then selfsooth, get to a point where i know it’s best that it’s over. and then the next day it’s like the last part never happened. i’m just so tired, i seriously don’t know what to do anymore
>>41673061It's similar for me. I wish I could still show her things and talk to her. I see a meme and think "oh ___ would enjoy this!" and then get depressed that I can't actually send it to her.
>>41673185did you try talking to her?
>>41673198No. The last thing she said to me was that she didn't want to talk anymore.
>>41673227same. i hate this place lol
>>41670421i know how you feelshe treated me terribly and was cheating for half of our relationship but (before it turned bad) she made me feel safer and more understood than anyone ever has and likely ever will againi dream every single night about her coming back to me and changing for real this timei spend every waking moment in painidk how to make it stop
I literally cant stop thinking about her, it gets worse every fucking day i just want to start over i want her to take me back i literally cant love anyone else i had a soulmate and i just fucked sabotaged the whole relationship and threw it all away like a retard
>>41673383How did you sabotage it?
manfags like me really are a dime a dozen.
>>41673411How do you think?>>41673443Yeah.......
>>41673457By being avoidant? If so then it should be pretty easy to fix the situation.
>>41673494Oh nah i cheated
>>41673528You deserve being alone forever then.
>>41673566Im well aware
>>41673494im the avoidant one how do i fix it? i barely talk to her bc im too scared she hates me
>>41673685talk moar
>>41673685Youre my avoidant ex i cheated on?
>>41673713no im the avoidant one in my own failing relationship :)>>41673698not much to say rlyim a tranny dating a cis girl online, i thought she hated me so i started trying hard to be less clingy, turns out she didnt hate me at first but now probably does because i distanced myself too much
>>41671517Iwould do anything to get with her again i dont care how bad it would go id do it over and over forever
never heard of her
please if any of you are my avoidant one please readd me and sort this out i’m sorry i asked you to block me i want to be your friend and have mutual understanding of what we think and where we are sorry im so neurotic and crazy idk why you said you think of me almost everyday or like why you would if you don’t wanna add again good luck i love you more than jus romantic intentions i hope can be there for you someway ever hopefully it’s not just keeping me away but it might be since i offer nothing im sorry
>>41674305idk im still crazy stay away
>>41674305I wish mine would say something like this :(
>>41674305>idk why you said you think of me almost everyday or like why you would if you don’t wanna add againpeople lie all the time and you just need to accept that
>>41674319i wish mine would say something like this to my nonsense maybe she has i deserve to be avoided
dont lie yes you have
>>41674331oh i fuck up i meant like idk why you would thing of me. if you you don’t add me again is okay but yeah if how you read it works too it’s just complicated in our situation
>>41674361what lol? is english not your first language?
>>41674386its unfortunately my only language:(( lol
I miss her
>>41670421if she ever held my neurotic ass like that my heart would explode
>>41674576It would calm me down so much. I feel anxious almost all the time lately, it's like I'm constantly on stimulants but only with the anxiety side effect
>>41674709i feel like that too but i would be so scared she wants to hold me ik like my whole body would shake but i would love it also especially if she endured this n still held me with a calming presence
It's so cruel
I wish we could at least be friends
It's been 3 years and I still think about my Doro. I still miss my Doro. I just want to be with my Doro. I miss her laugh. I miss her singing. I miss just anything she said. I trip myself up when I think of a word and remember exactly how she'd say it. I just want to watch her draw her comics like we used to.Please, you've got to help me get her back somehow. I want to stop feeling like a fucking ghost. If you know A in anyway, please get into contact with her on my behalf. Her discord starts with K.
i think about her everyday desu she was the most important person in my life and when i moved i tired to stay in contact however she moved on pretty quick to my chaser ex i just miss her so much we spent so many nights together and although we never said it i still love her
you didn’t want that
>>41674795readd me then :((
>>41670421me too :(
>>41670421Who is "her"? Can we get a story time maybe??
fellow avoidant-victims, we gotta band together. we can make it, bros, without our respective avoidant trannies. it'll get better, we WILL get through this. say it with me.
>>41675510why MUST you be dick praiser everywhere? Fuck dood just sell yourself on a corner or something, all the doods will do it.
>>41675510pathetic self help slop kys
>>41675510I think I'll just keep drinking, thanks
i fell for the incestpill and now my sister wont talk to me anymore. why live
>>41674305I think about my ex crush all the time still, just not worried about it anymore, if anyone just needs to get a little control over themselves just take some meds. Those things dull emotions to a manageable level.
>>41675516what are you even saying rn
>>41675529i thought about killing myself over her every day for years but there's light at the end of the tunnel man
>>41675763dont kys over someone kys because ur life sucks lol
>>41675785my life doesn't really suck anymore. work has been good, i started going to the gym again, enjoying my hobbies, meeting new women. life is good, man. it can get better.
>>41675785Por qué no los dos?
>>41670421Nothing stopping you from kidnapping her and chaining her to your bed, I guess they just don’t make yanderes anymore sighinb4 what about the law, everyone knows true love>>>>>>law dummy
>>41676463i might be a pisces but im not like thatttttt
>>41676463:(((((
>>41676463I want love, that means it has to be mutual.
i didnt even date anyone i had a friend. i miss her but she was captured by online people who didnt want her talking to anyone anymore
>>41670421i think she just said i love you for the last time
>>41681425I'm sorry :(
i wonder if she still thinks abt me
>>41670421>i still miss herI don’t. Pouring my self-worth into others doesn’t resolve my internal issues, and neither will it do yours. The best decisions made were the ones that distanced myself from codependency on others, instead of enjoying and loving myself first.
>>41682091
>>41682774I only share what I notice is a strong, common experience for the trannies that post here, especially when they pine over a past lover, instead of doing anything else with their lives.Feeding into codependency just leaves most people worst off.
>>41680674>>41681338>>41682032pls readd me and talk about things with me
>>41685073I wish, but you're not her :(
if you see this i hope you are doing good pls readd gn fren i miss you i want to make things work i wish you said no to blocking me and i wish i didn’t ask and i wish my brain chilled out knowing you and i could just hear you talk about yr interests and share thing w each other i hope we will be closer than we have ever before if not is okay sorry
>>41685131i wish u were her gn anon i hope things work out and are good for you<3
>>41685139ever before someday** it breaks my heart to not do that idk why we would rule out something so nice unless u don’t wanna which is fine too sorry
>>41685073i didnt have you but you could post it i guess
>>41685209milkwheatt
I miss holding her in my arms
>>41685249i forgot
>>41670421trying to move on for 9 months nowit will not get better will it
every time i think i managed to move on, you haunt my dreams again
>>41670421It's the oxytocin missing from your brain. I noted with time I saw all their flaws and failures. I still wish they hadn't failed, but I never did. It goes away when you replace them with someone new. It stays away if they actually love you.
i hate being the only one still thinking about our time together
>>416862179 months is small time, it took me over 4 years
>>41688019How did you finally manage to get over it?
