How do i get over a crush on a girl who has a boyfriend?t.bpd cisles
>>41675332cute image
>>41675332I relate to left haha
>>41675332How do you know they have a bf? What if they dont, but you just made it up in your head, or the web ass holes from shit hole country's dont want us to hook up, so they phyOp your self?
>>41675332P.S. Short cisles is the top tier, real other cis les would NEVER chose a dood over short chick. EVER.
>>41675332Become their girlfriend. Ez pz
>>41675332it kills a little piece of you like a pin prick and over time with enough pin pricks we all fade and die
>>41675397Best response
>>41675332>How do i get over a crush on a girl who has a boyfriend?If you're short chick, You Dont need to, Most likely she likes you more than she likes him. Mind you i dont think he exists at all, you might just be making it up. What if she likes you back??
>>41675332oh hey, i have the same problem but genderbenti'm a guy and i'm into a guy who has a girlfriendwhat's fucked up in my situation is that he reciprocates with me.....i told him "but you have a gf!" and he said "yeah, but I don't have a bf ;)"that fucker....
>>41675561Bold. ha!
>>41675332Don't make me tap the sign!Honestly tho if someone comes up with a solution to "the person I have feels for is taken" that doesnt involve cutting them out of my life, fuckin hmu cuz Im kinda dying over here.
>>41675387>>41675556She talks about him often. They seem very happy>>41676953I thinkkkkkk shes bi but definitely monogamous. Idrk. It probably wouldnt work out anyways, im clingy and chronically online and shes like, a normal person.
>>41675332literally me on the left, I follow my bf whenever he goes to the kitchen just so I can hug him from behind
>>41676953The solution is to just be normal about it Maybe talk to them a bit less ,and keep reminding yourself theyre taken (this only works if you kare about infidelity ,aka you arent poly)
>>41675332>how do you get over a crushBe schizoid and compartmentalize it, move on with your life.
>>41675332you get over it. every second you spend simping over someone who already has a partner is a second you grow more and more spiritually cucked
>>41678616Okay for one ya gotta move away from being chronically online. The more normal social relationships you have, the less likely you are to crush on someone because theyre the only source if warmth in your life.>>41679054You see, that hasnt been working for me. The longer I know my friend, the more fascinated and enraptured I am by her.Its not causing me much pain. Im happy to be able to hang out with her and happy she's happy. But I feel so weird and a little pathetic holding these yearning romantic feelings in my heart for someone who is just unavailable.Maybe per my own advice, it'll get better as my social circle grows. Im moving states rn and the number of IRL friends I have at the moment are two (social isolation due to factors out of my control that are going away at the end of this month).
>>41675561>i told him "but you have a gf!" and he said "yeah, but I don't have a bf ;)"No matter how much I'm head over heals for someone, if they're taken and imply willing to cheat on their partner, I'd immediately lose any interest.
>>41675332Just like a straight man: you forget about her and don't chase or simp like a pathetic cuck, look for somebody elseIf you're young enough that you find it hard to get over crushes you're too young for this site.
>>41679071>>41679168>>41679054yes i want to but my brain keeps fixating on it cus my life sucks. I want to not fixate on it>>41679249Chronically online may be the wrong word. I go out a lot but like, i grew up with unrestricted internet access and few friends and i feel like its apparent when you talk to me.
>>41680402I get that. I got on the Internet back in 2003 and found 4chan by 2004. A lot more people are much more wired in than older generations were, so keep that in mind. But really, it shouldnt be that hard to moderate excess weirdness. Or you could be like me and let the weirdo flag fly strong and surround yourself with other weirdos. Like, long as youre still being a good person to the people you meet and a good friend to the friends you make, that's what matters.
>>41675332Its never quite over till you find someone else
>>41675332LimerenceThere's a wound in you that you think can be filled by your idealised projections of what a relationship with this woman would look likeIntrospect on your past. Find the root cause of the attachment issues. And fill that hole with a stable self love and self care you've never known before.If you've got bpd. DBT. If you've got persistent CPTSD, EMDR aswell. If you can't afford either you can self administer DBT and there are some techniques to self administer EMDR too. Start journaling. Start doing some self inquiry. Start doing mindfulness and self love and self care practices. You'll get better. And then you'll be in a position to actually have a serious relationship with someone who's good for you, and you won't settle for any bullshit in the future either. Good luck. You're worth the effort of doing this for yourself.
>>41675332out-masculine the boyfriend.you're not a femme or a bottom are you? how tall are you?
>>41675561>>41675561the classic Lem Billings and Jack method...
>>41675332No matter what, a hatred for the femme
>>41683417Plus the OP image reflects such a masochism and lack of self respect that would actually turn many people off. OP has already accepted in her mind that men and masculine people are superior.
>>416834295'6 femme, i usually bottom but i like to top occasionally.>>41683417thank you anon this was a really nice message>>41684003men are gross i just thought picrel was cute and the girl in the button down sort of looks like my crush
>>41684163you're shit out of luck, you're a homo attempting to fuck a straight. that could work, if you were tall and a top with masculinity to you, but you're feminine and a bottom.straights get railed by a top.
get over it, a bitch is a bitch
>>41684234True, women hate femininity. Even femmes know to hate their own femininity
>>41684595i love my own femininity :>
>>41685201It's objectively a bad thing, and you're either fucking stupid or you're lying if you don't admit that. But the truth is I think that you know that it's degrading and inferior to be feminine
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>>41685430Sorry but femmes can never be with femmes
Just fuck someone elseIt's not healthy to be obsessed with someone who has a partner
