As an amab enby (21) who's been on hrt for multiple years, how do I get a partner? I am pretty sexually dominant and also don't mind edating. I am also kind of autistic. I essentially just want a sub that's actually interesting to talk to.
>>41678217your kind gets eaten up at anime conventions tbdesu, extremely easy to find someone at in person nerd dork events
>>41678226Hmmm good to know. I don't really like weebshit or fighting games for the most part though, which is kind of challenging.
Bump
>>41678217same
>>41679594Are you having much luck?
>AMAB >enby>sexually dominant>edatingThis is a manipulative rapist phenotype, the only thing not 100% matching is that you're on HRT
>>41680133been dating an enby so ig ya
>>41680246I don't want to rape anyone. And being open to edating strikes me as a necessity given that I'm literally on hrt.
I'm amab enbycope too, but 23 and only a year hrt inIt's over
>>41681017YuppppppppAt least I've gotten to a point where I'm mostly comfortable with my body.
>>41681055yasure you have to enbycope too? also where are u from..
>>41678217im sure youre soo sexually dominant
>>41678375what do you like?
>>41681101Well I guess cope isn't the right term because I don't think I'm meant to be a woman and am comfortable with a masc presentation. I simply wish I was more physically androgynous/fem than I am now.>>41681104My cock works fine and I don't really like bottoming so I figured I should just play that off as a strength instead of obsessing over how masculine it makes me. Everyone complains that there aren't enough tops anyways. Also I read this one doggyhell comic and thought that it would be kind of hot to be like the owner in it (within reason, of course).>>41681117I like reading and hiking mostly.
>>41681181Or correction, not so much hot as psychologically satisfying in a caregiver-y sort of way. But I guess that makes me seem kind of deranged anyhow.
>>41681181>I read this one doggyhell comic and thought that it would be kind of hot to be like the owner in itwaowwww n-neeed
>>41678217>Hrt theymab>TopJust commit to trooning and drown in bussy and pussy
>>41681556the only difference is saying "im this". why is everyone acting like hrt theymab is uniquely predatory
>>41681556As mentioned beforehand I'm fine with masc presentation and don't think I'm really meant to be a woman.>>41681367Hey pup.>>41681647I think a lot of people (especially in queer/leftist spaces) have experience with essentially performative amab enbies trying to get in womens' pants instead of being earnest about their gender identity. But I would hope that the fact I'm on hrt is enough of a sign that I'm bona fide queer.
>>41680246wait this is literally me! i don't wanna rape anyone but i love cnc. not on hrt though.
>>41678217kind of autistic submissive 21 yo tranny herepost in frengen so i can add u.really appreciate the effort in ur writing and stuff its rare to see from people nowadays
>>41681853>performative amab enbies trying to get in womens' pantsreal! spent the longest time not identifying as nb cuz of the reputation non-transitioning nb people get. only got comfortable calling myself one once i finally got hold of hrt.
>>41682119Okay.
one more bump.>>41682151Yeah, for sure. It's mostly deserved tbdesu, I don't know if it makes sense to be enby without having at least some dysphoria. Otherwise you might as well just be cis.My theymab nontransitioning friend (they're chill, just a really campy straight guy) was telling me about how they were scrubbing references to being enby on their linkedin and socials. I wish it was just that easy to stop, even if there's a minor discomfort from having to fit in to society a little more.
>>41681853enboids are truly the most oppressed
>>41678217Based if power bottom, cringe if top
>>41684124I could envision myself powerbottoming if the top was all cute and flustered and easy to order around. But for the most part I like putting my cock inside of stuff.
>>41678226did you not read that OP wants someone that is actually interesting to talk to
>>41685546I'm sure some nerds are interesting enough. Being stuck up isn't going to get me anywhere.
>>41678217If you look like a woman or even an androgynous girlthing, pls be my enbyfriend :333
>>41687716I look like a boymoder, if anything. You can add my disc if you want.
>>41678217Oh hey you're me and in the same spot I was two years ago. Talk to people in places that reflect you. If you're here there's thing like tagmap and frengen. The tragic thing is most conversations go nowhere and fall apart so it gets demotivating talking to other overly online people. If you're more of failed normie tourist there's irl clubs and hangouts for things irl, find a hobby that you really enjoy and join local groups for it.Finding a partner is like fishing for a real good catch. You won't get nothing if you don't cast, but most of the time while casting you won't get nothing either, and a lot of the bites will disappoint you, you might even move onto to different spots to pull from, but keep at it and one day you'll find something that's great even if it wasn't what you expected.
>>41678217You're basically looking for me, but I already have a partner who I love and edating is lame so no thanks.Just hop on feeld and find a partner through that. Much nicer (at least here) than most other apps, and as its kink focused and sex positive so its like much nicer than shooting random shots on normie apps.
>>41688704I hadn't even considered dating apps really. I had already been under the presumption that they were for normal people (which I obviously can't date as someone on estrogen). >>41688623I haven't had all that much luck on either tagmap or frengen. Nobody really wants to initiate conversations so I always end up needing to give up after a couple weeks. Still, I suppose it might be worth a look (as weird as it is to admit to someone in real life that I'm on hrt).
>>41678217>subAre you okay with PIV and/or getting BJs, or is this more of a psychological D/S thing you're looking for? The only subby stuff I really like is having a dom train me to not want any other cock but theirs and/or orgasm control. Flogging/spanking/bondage is cool too. Not really into being controlled or a maid or being degraded or being given a lot of rules.
>>41690878>Are you okay with PIV and/or getting BJsI'm pretty alright with it. But it isn't really the essence of what I want (>>41681210 sort of gets at it, even though it's not a complete statement).
>>41691188So, gentle femdom or petplay or praise kink (giver)?
>>41691588petplay but not quite. I think it would be a little weird if they were actually pretending to be a dog instead of merely being placed in a vulnerable and submissive position. Petplay is just one expression of that dynamic. But I think my interest in it is mostly nonsexual anyhow.
>>41691648[I guess you could characterize it as wanting to stockholm syndrome a pet neet twink/ftm/boymoder that isn't going to girlmode ever
