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Why can't a person exclusively pursue the same sex and still call themselves straight?

When it comes to gender, you just get to choose. Whatever you say is your gender, is now your gender. You can change it five minutes later if you want to.

But when it comes to sexuality, we say that there are discrete, inexorable definitions that unambiguously apply, which are based entirely on the particular type of behavior observable. The categorization is not self-selected. It's hard-coded based on how things actually are.

But what if a guy says he exclusively likes guys, but is still straight? It's just a social construct right? But everyone would say "pffft, you're gay" anyway. What if some says they're asexual, and then they go and have hot sex with someone? No longer true, right?

Is this not somewhat of a contradiction?
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straight trans women are gay men
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>>41681846
>When it comes to gender, you just get to choose
no you don't
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>>41681846
Because Sex is biological and can't be changed by humans.
SEXuality is based on Sex.
To make it work, you would need to normalise another word that focuses more on identity.
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>>41681880
Correct. FTMs will never be male. MTFs will always be male and superior.
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>>41681886
Absolutely and, although I come off as a transphobe (why not. I love picking fights), I do believe there is a path foward.
I'm not interested or smart enough to figure out what it is though.
But I'm sure it would have to do with creation and normalisation of new words, phrases, and definitions.
Not simply trying to rewrite science and history, but to actually evolve.
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>>41681846
you can do that. that's what Donnie Deals best friend did for his whole life and there are still conservative big shots calling him straight to this day.
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>>41681922
>and there are still conservative big shots calling him straight to this day.
But you aren't.
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>>41681939
in a weird way, yeah i do kinda think Cohn was straight. being "gay" is just a social identity. if you fuck a man in the ass in the woods and there's nobody around to hear it, is it really gay?
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>>41681970
>being "gay" is just a social identity.
no man's wife is going to agree that her husband is still straight because he's sufficiently discreet with his cocksucking.
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>>41682303

I agree with this. I exclusively fuck men because it's easier and hassle free and it fulfills a biological need to stick my dick in something and orgasm. But I am not socially gay. I don't talk or act like a fag I don't go to pride, I keep my sex life discreet. I'm also not "attracted" to men. I don't crush on guys or swoon over them or think about holding their hands or getting married and having kids and growing old together. It's literally just that when I get the urge I have rough sex with another masc vers top and as soon as I nut I'm gone. I don't save names or phone numbers, I don't kiss men, I don't make small talk. There's literally nothing gay about me other than that I find women annoying and tiresome and don't simp for OF thots.
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>>41681846
You actually can do that though.
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>>41682421
>I don't like women
>I like having rough sex with men
>haha i'm not gay though
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>>41681846
Is he bi
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>>41681846
>What if some says they're asexual, and then they go and have hot sex with someone?
Women unironically do this though. They also call themselves lesbians while sucking mad cock and blaming it on patriarchy and compulsory heterosexuality
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>>41681846
This reminds me of when I fucked my friend in high school and then got really confused and upset when she started telling people I was a lesbian
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>>41682580
I'm sorry but Trump being bi is absolutely adorable to me
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>>41682421
I believe you. If only more gay men and chasers would admit that.
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>>41682580
>>41684071
Yes
https://youtu.be/sSkvffPdcxw?si=bprA-jomYr41z0h-
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>>41681877
gay men are straight trans women
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>>41684290
gays and lesbians scheming to destroy transgender for everyone for a decade and a bi dude comes along and does it in one shot just because he got his heart broken by bill clinton and he wants to fuck with his wife
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>>41682421
I once had mmf threesome with a man and once I saw him sticking his dick into the other guy, the relationship was over cause my pussy dried out. Idk, I think its even more gay when the gay pretends to not be gay
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>>41686669
I mean, why'd you do it then? You just couldn't conceive of how much of a turnoff it was going to be I guess?

But I've always wondered how a woman can watch that and be like "me next!" and not think it's completely lame as fuck that the guys she's with fucked each other right in front of her. It feels like you really have to assemble the right three people who are truly comfortable with each other.



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