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Anonymous

How do I stop needing male att(...) 11/15/25(Sat)00:03:19 No.41684819

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How do I stop needing male attention? Anonymous 11/15/25(Sat)00:03:19 No.41684819 Archived

For context
>be me 15
>recently started social transition, start posting myself in cute outfits
>30+ year old man slides into my dms, he gets really flirty
>eventually send him nudes he asked for.
>realize how nice it feels to be wanted for what feels like the firt time in my life.
>start posting more
>get more dms.
>dms get more depraved
>Posts get more depraved and explicit.
>before im even 18 over 100,000 people have seen me naked (thanks post analytics for that number)
>be me now 20
>like an addict feel like I need to be desired by people all the time, to feel normal.
>incredibly bad at saying no and will do sexual things I regret.
>know im pretty and people think I am but allways feel ugly.
>constant shame about what ive done.

Seriously how do I fix this? Am I cooked forever? Also before anyone asks...yes I have a poor relationship with my father

Anonymous
11/15/25(Sat)00:04:46 No.41684828

Anonymous 11/15/25(Sat)00:04:46 No.41684828

>>41684819
idk op but you should post an unsee so that I can flirt with you and make your problems worse :)

Anonymous
11/15/25(Sat)00:14:10 No.41684891

Anonymous 11/15/25(Sat)00:14:10 No.41684891

>>41684828
Almost tempting, but i face post here semi regularly and I dont wanna be tied to that. Also im trying to move on from that. I dont wanna keep doing that to myself. It makes me feel like im failing my past self.

Anonymous
11/15/25(Sat)00:38:40 No.41685044

Anonymous 11/15/25(Sat)00:38:40 No.41685044

>>41684891
awww but isn't it better to just give in? I wanna see that cute little body of yours, come on wants the harm in one more time? Think about how good it'd feel to just give in to the temptation again, I'm sure you won't regret it, and if you do... well it's not like its any worse than any other time. Don't you wanna hear me tell you how pretty you are?

Anonymous
11/15/25(Sat)00:40:47 No.41685062

Anonymous 11/15/25(Sat)00:40:47 No.41685062

>>41684819
did this too. idk. i'm 22 now, kinda better but i still have impulses from time to time

Anonymous
11/15/25(Sat)00:45:40 No.41685078

Anonymous 11/15/25(Sat)00:45:40 No.41685078

>>41684819
I think you know the answer, start saying no and have some fucking dignity sis

Anonymous
11/15/25(Sat)02:03:17 No.41685490

Anonymous 11/15/25(Sat)02:03:17 No.41685490

isolation
give yourself that attention
this is the path to becoming a worthwhile partner (to yourself as well)

Anonymous
11/15/25(Sat)07:16:20 No.41686911

Anonymous 11/15/25(Sat)07:16:20 No.41686911

>>41685044
No stop. :(
>>41685078
Hey I have some. But yeah its hard.
>>41685490
I feel like isolation was how I got in the mess in the first place tho. I felt like I didnt reallt have anyone. I think thats why I was so vulnerable to it yk

Anonymous
11/15/25(Sat)07:46:07 No.41686978

Anonymous 11/15/25(Sat)07:46:07 No.41686978

I guess it's the curse of being pretty, I'm not that attractive but I've had some people interested in me and that drives me crazy, I do anything to keep them satisfied, I've had trouble with my family, their family, at work, just to try to please them...