for context im 19 mtfim wondering why whenever i wear typically female clothing like bras, dresses, skirts or something like that i get a deep feeling of disgust and i feel gross and thats it's unnatural and im compelled to take it off and just wear typical guy clothes instead which is what I usually do.I don't understand why I feel like this at all
>>41685769Internalized transphobia prob, is the feeling u have u feeling like ur an ogre in a dress basically?
>>41685794im not sure how to describe the feeling other than disgust. im not sure if it's disgust at myself for what im doing or something else but I haven't worn a dress since I was 16 because of the way it makes me feel
>>41685814how do u feel when ur gendered female?
>>41685825I feel no disgust towards being gendered female at all
>>41685840hmmm can u recall ever being shammed for dressing femme as a child?
>>41685869I dont think so? but I dont really remember much of my childhood
>>41685874well idrk anon. maybe just force yourself into femme clothes untill u stop feeling like this. like go the whole day at home with just a skirt on. wear it so often it just becomes any other kind of clothing
>>41685885I wish I could do this but the disgust i feel is just so overwhelming but maybe I'll give it another try
Probably just standard shame that's been conditioned into you by years of living as a man. It goes away in time, but until then aim for more masc/andro looks.Also you might just end up like me where the femme stuff just isn't it. That doesn't mean you're fake trans or some shit, that just means you like dressing like a gay bitch
>>41685891how crazy are we talking? like youll vomit? if its that bad find some sort of femme clothes that isnt so bad to u and build up from there. like idk womens underwear
>>41685900well I've never worn an item of female clothing for more than 10 minutes in recent years because i feel so grossed out wearing it not like i would vomit just that im deeply compelled to not wear it>>41685897I think you could be right that the femme stuff just isn't for me but I like to wear makeup and have no feelings of disgust in doing so
>>41685920Then it's probably not for you lol, and that's okay. If you're really bent out of shape over it try like just femming up your daily wear a bit more then you, like exposure therapy for dressing like a grandma or w/e
>>41685769reverse image search says this image is from a 4tran subreddit and i checked the thread and literally everyone there missed the pointobviously this is a play on the comics where its like a cute bdd passoid (left seal) complaining to an actual neverpassing manmoder (right seal) about how they dont pass
>>41685975>>41685769OH WAIT I JUST NOTICED THE COLLAR ON THE LEFT SEAL HAS A MALE SYMBOL LOLJUST LIKE THE BOYMODER HOODIEgenius unironically
