Is 30 too late to transition? Also, whats the best way to meet a partner to transition with or that has? I wont go it alone
If its what u rly want then unironically just do it
transing is 80% genetics 20% age btw
>>4168583620 is already too late but it’s prob even more embarrassing at 30
>>41685848Whats the best way to start?I know with my genetics im easily going to plump up on HRT in all the right places>>41685854But now i have a shit ton of money i can throw at it, especially any cosmetics i need
>>41685870I meant more embarrassing socially like still figuring out something that basic at 30 is insane to me
>>41685877repping is a thing anon
>>41685836I went on HRT at 29 and I don't regret it.
>>41685889I know but telling everyone you’ve been actively repressing yourself for decades just seems way too embarrassing I could never
>>41685916being trans in general is embarrassing i dont think how long u waited to say it changes anything. unless u got a wife and kids and atp just rope
>>41685931Idk I think I would’ve trooned if possible in my teens when everyone is still figuring themselves out but to do so later in life just seems too humiliating
>>41685943yeah i mean id imagine its more difficult to pass and stuff but you are your own person full on at that point like u dont really need to take shit from anyone. tho i agree trooning out as early as possible is always seem better saves a lot of time
>>41685877>>41685916>>41685943i think people like you should kill yourselves genuinelythe modern world is so insanely busy there is so much shit you have to do as a teen/adult the future is unpredictable there is zero time to figure anything out but you're supposed to have cut a path by fucking 18 and if ANY of your life deviates from that preset course then you're fucked or cringe or stupid or chasing a trend whatever man fuck you fuck every spoiled rich kid faggot tween like youhope you catch AIDS cunt>>41685836go troon out and go buy a gun and if anyone has a problem with the first thing always keep a hand on the second. fuck the world you only die once
>>41685951well I can only speak for myself but I feel like repping genuinely solidified my gender identity like idk how I could possibly live as a woman when I’ve spent the last decade telling myself I’m just like any man. So even if the consequences were bearable just seems wrong now, figuring out your identity is young people stuff
>>41685973im not a tween im a repper but i wholeheartedly agree I chose a particular life path at 18 and its just not worth to deviate from it now
>>41685988yeah i like never repped desu. went to a gay art hs and told everyone i am nb cus i didnt want to put effort into transitioning. but now im starting to troon out. id imagine if i repped id be way more miserable or just identify as a faggot way more idk
>>41686016k i l l y o u r s e l fyou are a symptom of modern culture you are an evil lobotomite the world does not need you fucking bootlicking corpo-ass-kissing CIA sleeper agent all you do is pull other people down. if you don't have the strength to actually live your life the least you could do is get out of everyone's way. i'd rather deal with skinheads than dumbfucks like you at least nazis all know they're retardedshameful. i'd off you through my screen if i could.
I tried hrt at 27 and I regret stopping. I'm 36 now back on it
>>41685973thank you
>>41685943>>41685836most troons arent even youngshits and anything past that its late but youre not john 50 late so do it the fuck now, get DIY>butI started at 30, i'm 7 months in and ive already malefailed somehow, i'm still a ""dude" but ppl assume I'm 7-10 years younger, the moodswings dont matter cause feeling happy often enough beats never feeling content, i went from not having a single friend to having trans and cisf friends that helped me buy makeup and clothing, i didnt do this hoping my family would be ok but they found out and are taking it alright so long as im doing (generally) well and i dont live in Saudi Arabia so I don't have to care about "society" cause god forbid i stop myself from something harmless that I really wanna do for the sake of strangers that give no shits about my well beingyour experience could be better or worse but if its something thats not leaving your head (which im sure is the case if ur considering this enough youre asking us for help) then its 100% worth giving it a shotplease dont betray yourself anymore and allow yourself to have the life you wanna have or at least try>but i dont wanna do it alonetoo bad but youre not gonna care about that once u have ppl you can talk to about this stuff and get advice from>btwthere are some sweet angels out there that started at this age, nothing is guaranteed but it definitely helped me feel better when i was starting this as a fat, short haired loser
>>41686240a year from now, when the high wears off, you'll look in the mirror and realize that you are still a 30 yo man, you've wasted your life and there is nothing you can change about yourself that will make it better.Then, you will kill yourself
>>41686240>but if its something thats not leaving your head (which im sure is the case if ur considering this enough youre asking us for help) then its 100% worth giving it a shot>please dont betray yourself anymore and allow yourself to have the life you wanna have or at least tryNot op but thank you for taking the time to write this its something I really needed to hear tonight
>>41686322you waste your life anyways. what else is there to do? be a 30 year old bugman in the ratrace? sit around eating chips and watching sports? for what purpose? pretend to be a normal man or pretend to be a woman you're still playing pretend.you die anyways and none of it matters past the parts people remember about you or whatever shit god cares about and if god isn't a massive cunt they'll be reasonable about the whole thing
>>41686400you've just decided to turn your life into a hedonistic fetish-centered binge and now being a normal person just seems wasteful to youyou are not trans. you are not happy. you are not meaningfully important to a single human being. and you will never be
>>41686437>you've just decided to turn your life into a hedonistic fetish-centered binge and now being a normal person just seems wasteful to youbeing normal isn't wasteful, but being normal isn't Better either. its all the same shit.you fuck around playing pretend and then you die. thats it. Hundreds of Normal Men die every single day and none of you people spend your precious hours mourning them because we all know deep down that none of it really matters. enjoy your kulturkampf. I've got pistols to clean.
>>41686437womp womp :p
>>41686494you and op are both cisstraight men with a fetish.you are just arguing for me to believe that you getting in a sissy dress and jerking off in front of a mirror is better that some abstract "office clerk with no friends and no life fight club style" alternative "normal" life you've imagined i honestly dont care for your excuses and how much happier you now are that you've accepted that you are a BNWO sissy and hang out with your friendgroup of middle-aged men dressed in costumes, i just want you to know that it won't change anything about you or your life, you are still not trans, you still are not a woman and the entire discussion by op of "huh, im a 30 yo faggot and im kinda bored, should i get into trooning out or not? would like if i had a troon mistress to help me along the way wink wink" is absurd. You are just bored men skinwalking actual transwomen. I don't care much about you but you are gross and irritating and after the things stop being fun for you you will reflect on your life and kill yourself
>>41686544>is better that some abstract>>41686494>being normal isn't wasteful, but being normal isn't Better either.>being normal isn't wasteful
>>41686571my ">being normal" is in reference to your "you waste your life anyways" since it implies the "normal" way of living. You are either being obtuse on purpose or are just illiterate
>>41686600Which was in response to your comment about realizing you're 30 and wasted your life.You "waste your life anyways" because everything is equal.Unless you're important you spend most of your life doing nothing. It might be fun but it doesn't really matter.Live a regular life, have lots of friends, hobbies, money, family. Its nice. But does it Matter? No. You die and are forgotten in a generation or two.Transition, stress out about passing and training and dilating. Get a boyfriend, have lots of sex. Its nice. But does it Matter? Nope.Even if its fulfilling it doesn't Matter. So if it doesn't matter then may as well pick the one that's the most fulfilling.If you like being normal then go be normal. If OP wants to be weird then OP can be weird.You haven't explained what OP should do instead of living their weird life or proven how that would be less like wasting their life than being trans.
>>41686663>You haven't explained what OP should do instead of living their weird lifeHe should probably kill himself ngl
>>41686693>wasting your life is bad>btw u should die at 30 instead of being aliveok ivan
>>41685847That mentality is what makes trans people dangerous homie
>>41686735yes, if you are a 30 yo ROGD-nigger death is the best option
>>41685836the thing is, untreated dysphoria doesnt go away whether it's too late or not
>>41686746i keep a clip loaded with hollow points just so its extra bloody if i ever have to kill someone like you
>>41685836do it nona, there's still time
>>41685836You will most likely need lots of surgery. Only transition if you have good access to gender operations.
Absolutely fine to transition at 30, look at trans timelines, some people have amazing results. I'm not a hugboxer, just speaking neutrally. The goal is to pass as a woman, not be a bimbo blow up doll. If you have realistic expectations and just want to pass to most people, absolutely fine. There are also some cis women that just naturally deviate from conventional beauty standards, some older women look a little less feminine. It doesn't matter.